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Jun 14, 2025 03:10
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I’d love to reach the black class so I can receive lots of offers, so I’d appreciate any advice you can give me.
I’m 39 right now.
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39?! At that level, being considered unattractive is celebrity-level.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Black-tier women can generally only receive offers from Black-tier men, so they tend to have fewer dates.
The main advantages of being Black-tier are that the allowance per meeting tends to be higher and you’re less likely to be offered a low allowance.
On the other hand, moving up to Gold increases the number of offers, but you may also receive offers with lower allowances.
Since there’s an inverse relationship between class and the terms offered, personally, I think Platinum is the best tier to aim for.
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顔合わせの刺激が好きすぎてオファー続けてます。町中華をこよなく愛してます。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Andy.
I checked the women aged 39 and over in the Black category on the members’ page, and there really aren’t many of them. Their profiles set a pretty high bar in terms of things like body type and occupation.
That said, I get the impression that there are plenty of attractive women in the Platinum category and below as well.
If your only concern is the number of offers, there’s no need to fixate on the Black category—and it’s not something you can necessarily become even if you want to. Why not start by taking the initiative and going to an interview?
In the end, whether you receive offers from Standard or Platinum members, you’ll be achieving your goal.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
As I’ve said here many times, if you want to receive lots of offers, Gold is more likely than Black.
That’s because women in the Black class can only receive offers from male Black members.
Gold members, on the other hand, can receive offers from male Black, Platinum, and Gold members.
Looking at it simply in terms of probability, Gold is probably the better choice if you want lots of offers.
It’s old information, but a 2018 blog listed the number of male members as follows:
Black: 400
Platinum: 900
Gold: 500
Standard: 200
If you’re Black, you can only receive offers from 400 men, whereas if you’re Gold, 1,800 men can view your profile and make an offer.
The information is outdated, so the numbers may be different now, but even if the figures have changed, I imagine Gold members are still more likely to receive offers.
Of course, male Black members have enough financial means to pay the high annual membership fee, so there’s a good chance that even one offer could come with a generous allowance, though…
Also, on Patrol, the affiliated website, male members aren’t assigned classes, so you can receive offers from anyone. However, the offer fee for Black-class women is quite high, so Gold still seems to be the class that receives the most offers.
Just my personal impression, but the women who seem to receive a lot of offers are:
- Women who could probably qualify for Platinum but are set as Gold
(in Universe terminology: “Lucky Gold”)
- Women who are Standard or Gold but have looks or an appearance that somehow appeals to men’s sexual instincts
If you’re somewhere in that range, questioner, you might receive quite a few offers.
At 39 and divorced once, realistically, the odds of getting into Black are low.
It would be different if you had the looks and figure of an actress or celebrity, but that’s probably not realistic.
Aim for Lucky Gold!
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> If possible, I’d like to become a “black” supporter.
I get that you want to become someone like Akina Nakamori, but honestly, I don’t think you can become that kind of person just by trying hard.
At 39, it seems to me that things like how you’ve lived over those 39 years and the looks you were born with have already determined a lot.
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
There aren’t many Black-ranked women in their 40s. As far as I can tell, with one exception, all the few Black-ranked women are Type C.
Regardless of quality, I imagine there are relatively few offers for Black-ranked women in their 40s. If they’re both Black-ranked, most papas would probably prefer to make offers to women in their 20s. If you’re looking for offers, there’s probably no need to insist on Black rank.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
There are very few Black-class women in their 40s.
Maybe they have an unusual profession, are tall and highly educated, or seem exceptionally friendly.
Since Black-class women command higher offer fees, they may receive fewer offers.