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📅 Feb 12, 2026 09:21
I’m a member of Universe Club. On PATOLO, I’m hesitant to make offers to female members who aren’t from Universe Club because their photos are edited and there are no videos, which makes me uneasy. So I feel like I have no choice but to search only among female Universe Club members on PATOLO. Does anyone else feel the same way? When I receive a message and check out the woman’s profile, it often contains only edited photos, which makes...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
If you want to avoid a person to avoid, I think it’s safest to follow what the original poster said.
But since Fuu had the opportunity, I decided to make an offer to a woman with a selfie profile who was registered individually and not with a club.
I guess Fuu got lucky, because she turned out to be amazing and has become one of my monthly arrangements.
She said that people had commented with opinions like the original poster’s, telling her they would make an offer if she …
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📅 Feb 10, 2026 14:06
I recently saw on X that the club profile of someone who had appeared in a beauty pageant was leaked, which made me worry about information related to my activities here. I have two questions: ① That person’s profile wasn’t from this club, but has anyone’s information from this club ever been leaked on social media in the past? ② If something were leaked, would it be possible to identify the source and take legal action against them? I’...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
That’s fabricated. These days, AI can fabricate just about anything, so ironically, I feel like we’ve entered an era where it’s easier to feel reassured.
Even an image of me doing a standing rear-entry position with a celebrity could be fabricated in no time.
As for an uplifting quote—this isn’t exactly one, but apparently there are plenty of male members at Universe Club who offer ¥100,000 or more on a pay-per-meeting basis.
Men who offer ¥100,000 or more per meeting also…
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📅 Feb 8, 2026 23:54
I understand it’s my own responsibility, but I’ve gained weight since my current profile photos were taken and would like to have them retaken. I believe the usual waiting period is six months, but I’ve seen posts here saying that some branches can accommodate requests sooner. I’m gradually losing the weight now and plan to lose a little more. For reference, what would be the shortest possible timeframe for having my photos retaken? I u...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
If you’re in Tokyo, one option would be for me to arrange a new photo shoot myself. Even if you’re outside Tokyo, you can ask the local branch how busy they are and see whether a reshoot might be possible.
For that, since you were told they could take a look at your profile, please message Maezawa through the LINE chat you use to communicate with the staff. Something like:
“Could you please contact Mr. Maezawa? I was told he could review my profile.”
If you suddenly bring …
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📅 Feb 8, 2026 23:44
For women who are registered and meet a fair number of men, do you use separate LINE accounts? At the moment, I only have one smartphone and one LINE account, which I use privately. I’ve exchanged contact information with a few people through it, but now I’m starting to feel uneasy about giving my private LINE to so many people. Do you separate your private LINE from the one you use for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), or do yo...
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
I use just one smartphone and one LINE account for all my communication.
Personally, I don’t see exchanging LINE contacts as that much of a risk. It’s necessary for staying in touch, and I don’t really feel that exchanging LINE means you’re overstepping boundaries.
That said, there are a few things I’m careful about.
If your LINE display name is your full name, I think it’s a little safer to change it to just your first name or a nickname. That said, I honestly don’t think…
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📅 Feb 8, 2026 15:05
I’m Chinese and don’t speak Japanese. I’ve been living in Japan for the past four years because of work, and I really love life here. I used to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) on another platform and had a few good relationships, but they’ve all ended now. The language barrier makes the initial exchanges very difficult. However, once I meet someone in person and talk using a translation app on my phone, communication becomes...
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
It’s wonderful to hear that you’re enjoying life in Japan. As a Japanese person, that makes me happy to hear.
When I first joined, I had Premium membership as a special perk. I’m on a lower tier now, but if it’s financially feasible, I still think Premium is the better option. The support is more thorough, and you can also use other apps like PATRO—although that was the case back then, so I’m not sure if it still applies.
I feel that the Premium class is Universe Club’s mai…
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📅 Feb 7, 2026 17:08
I’m happy that my papa (a male supporter) has offered to buy me a car worth around ¥7 million, but I currently receive a monthly allowance of ¥150,000 for seeing him once a week. He says that because he’ll be buying the car, he’ll reduce my monthly allowance to ¥80,000 from now on, and somehow I can’t feel good about it. Apparently, the loan payments will be around ¥100,000 a month. The car will be registered in his name. I’m happy that...
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
This sounds less like an actual gift and more like a proposal to change the terms on the grounds that you’ll be given a car.
Your monthly allowance would drop from ¥150,000 to ¥80,000, while you’d still be meeting every week. The car would be registered in the papa’s name, so if you ever parted ways, you’d be left with nothing. And if your options for dating or marriage are also restricted, it’s hard to say the balance is fair.
Meeting every week for an allowance of ¥80,000…
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📅 Feb 6, 2026 16:55
What does it mean to have good physical chemistry? There was someone I was intimate with in the past who really blew me away. We stayed together for three years, but I think it was simply because he had good technique and I eventually developed genuine feelings for him. I enjoyed both being intimate with him and kissing him. There was another person, completely unrelated to him, where we spent several months figuring each other out and ...
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
It’s whenever the woman feels ready.
For some women, it took as long as ten years—the length of their relationship—to feel that way. In those cases, though, I think the man and woman were actually very poorly matched; it only took ten years to get there because they were lovers and had the time to gradually explore each other.
There are also cases like yours, where that feeling develops from the very beginning as time goes by.
With lovers, even if the physical compatibilit…
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📅 Feb 6, 2026 16:55
The other day, a college student I’m seeing asked me to buy her an expensive bag. After I wrote about it in a review, a very similar question appeared here. This isn’t the first time—exactly the same thing has happened repeatedly. Are the staff here using reviews from male and female members to fabricate questions for the Q&A section themselves? Isn’t that a compliance issue?
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
Compliance is impressive. Have you also read the internal rules and such? That’s wonderful.
Putting that aside, what’s really bothering you: the stress of constantly being asked for bags, or the “forged question box” issue?
As for the alleged forgery, even if there may be some, it can’t be 100% fake—because I’ve submitted a couple of questions myself in the past, lol.
As to whether they’re actually fabricating them, I’m inclined to agree with what Yozakura and Maezawa have…
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📅 Feb 6, 2026 16:46
Is there any way to check whether my wife is registered? I’m not trying to make my profile private temporarily—I just want to know whether my wife has registered.
💬 Answer from マックさん:
Since you’re a member, you should be able to search by age. Are you worried that she may have hidden her profile specifically from you?
The staff probably won’t tell you, so why not ask a male acquaintance to join UniBa and search for her?
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📅 Feb 6, 2026 02:53
There’s a papa (a male supporter) who takes a long time to even read my LINE messages whenever things don’t go the way he wants. When we talked about continuing our relationship, I saw an emotional side of him that frightened me. I was struggling with how to deal with it, and during that time, I wasn’t able to respond to his messages for about two weeks. Ever since then, he’s been taking a long time to read my messages, and I don’t get ...
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
What concerns me most from your post isn’t the fact that your message hasn’t been marked as read, but that you felt afraid.
I think it’s very important to take that feeling seriously.
Deliberately delaying the read receipt or withholding a reply for the same amount of time doesn’t come across as someone simply sorting through their feelings. It feels more like they’re retaliating emotionally—showing anger or resentment through their behavior rather than affection.
In an ad…
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📅 Feb 5, 2026 21:48
I’m thinking about working at a men’s esthetic salon. I understand that it’s an esthetic service, not sex work. From a man’s perspective, would you want your girlfriend to keep it a secret that she works at a men’s esthetic salon? I’m talking about telling a boyfriend or someone like that. I’m not sure whether I should tell him.
💬 Answer from 負け男:
Men’s estheticians will touch your penis pretty aggressively, won’t they? Even the popular therapists push things right to the limit.
Some of them will even take care of you without being asked. In fact, I get the impression that if you behave quietly and gentlemanly, they’ll do it on their own.
That’s the kind of place it is, so telling your boyfriend about it would be completely out of the question.
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📅 Feb 5, 2026 19:33
I have a papa (a male supporter) who’s genuinely in love with me—and he’s married. Starting this year, we’ll be running a business together. I got a boyfriend last year, and I might end up marrying him, but do you think my papa will find out? I’m scared of how he’ll react if I tell him I’m getting married. He’s very jealous and suspicious by nature. He invites me on trips and out for drinks at night, although I’ve been turning down the ...
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
With all due respect, I think Yozakura’s answer is right. Both running a business and getting married are extremely difficult on their own. From what I’ve read, the only way this might work is if you came clean to both of them and drew a clear line between the two relationships.
It seems you’re trying to keep both of them in the dark while making it work.
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📅 Feb 5, 2026 18:40
It’s still a little early, but what do you usually give for White Day? What kinds of gifts in the ¥50,000–¥100,000 range are usually well received?
💬 Answer from シアトル:
Cash, without a doubt, is what she’ll appreciate most.
I gave my ex-wife cash too, even for things like her birthday.
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📅 Feb 5, 2026 15:36
I recently started doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I’ve met two papas so far. The first is 63, and we’ve met three times for an adult relationship (intimate), but he hasn’t been able to finish any of the three times. He loses his erection partway through. Since it takes him so long, the encounter goes on for ages, and he puts his entire body weight into it and keeps pounding away at my lower body. It’s extremely painful ...
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
Sorry, but does the first person really exist? That sounds like grounds for filing a complaint with the club and banning him. I felt sick just reading it. Please take care of yourself.
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📅 Feb 5, 2026 02:23
My affair partner has been having trouble getting it up during sex lately. Since we’re having an affair, I’ve always felt that sex was a given in our relationship… and my husband and I are sexless. We’re very sexually compatible, so it feels like a waste to break things off. What should I do?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Some men say they can’t take ED medication because of an underlying medical condition. I feel like they should just visit a clinic to find out whether that’s really the case, though maybe they simply don’t like taking medication in general.
For men who don’t have that issue, it may just be that they don’t really understand how it works, so the problem could be solved if they took ED medication. But I feel like it would be difficult for a woman to suggest that. Depending on h…
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📅 Feb 3, 2026 17:24
The man in his 60s I’m seeing has really strong age-related body odor. He says he takes care of his hygiene and even tells me, “I’m getting old, so I at least try to maintain a clean appearance,” but he clearly smells. He apparently visits the dentist to have his tartar removed before we meet, yet his breath smells too, and he has noticeable body odor. Is age-related body odor something people often can’t notice themselves?
💬 Answer from シアトル:
I’m pretty much taking the same measures as that “loser” guy.
As for the questioner’s sixty-something man, maybe he thinks bathing and brushing his teeth are all it takes to seem clean. That accounts for only about 5% of personal hygiene. That’s how smelly us old geezers are—we’re sorry for existing. Other than handing out money, we have no reason to be alive.
Women in their early twenties have that lactone scent, right? I guess the only option is to use DEOCO products. I’m…
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📅 Feb 3, 2026 15:33
On a woman’s profile on Patro, it says: First meeting: 1 Dinner: 2 Adult relationship: 5 If we become intimate starting at the first meeting: 6 From the second meeting onward: Dinner followed by intimacy: 7 Meeting for intimacy only: 5 That’s honestly enough to make people think it’s prostitution, isn’t it? I’m worried about Universe, so I wanted to ask because I feel women like this should be removed.
💬 Answer from 負け男:
You can’t list allowance amounts in this much detail on your profile with either PATOLO or Universe Club, right?
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📅 Feb 3, 2026 10:15
Is giving a married papa (a male supporter) chocolates for Valentine’s Day too risky? If it were an overnight date, we could eat them together and he wouldn’t have to take them home, but this is a day trip. If he were living away from his family for work, I could give them to him without worrying. But since he goes home to his wife and kids, I do want to give him something, while also wanting to avoid getting caught and having us break ...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
How do you all handle this?
If I get chocolates on Valentine’s Day, I just say, “Thanks,” and accept them, but I don’t do anything in particular for White Day.
The only thing that makes me a little happy is when someone says, “It’s been three years since I first met you on [date], so our third anniversary is coming up.” I’ve forgotten about it myself, though. It makes me happy, but I don’t actually do anything.
It’s not that I never buy them anything besides their allowanc…
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📅 Feb 3, 2026 09:00
I’d like to ask about Valentine’s Day. I’m thinking of giving chocolates to two papas. ① A papa I’ll be meeting for the second time. We’re planning to meet at the end of February. → I’d like to give him chocolate to thank him for making me an offer and for continuing to see me instead of letting things end after our first meeting. However, since it’s well after Valentine’s Day, I’m worried he might think I’m expecting something in retur...
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
In my opinion, either option is perfectly fine if it’s just a small box of chocolates costing around ¥1,000.
① A papa (a male supporter) you’re meeting for the second time
Even if the timing is a little off, I wouldn’t worry about it too much. Giving him a small gift as a way of saying, “Thank you for seeing me again,” feels perfectly natural.
Something expensive or overly Valentine’s-themed might make him feel obligated, but that’s hardly a concern with a simple box of ch…
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📅 Feb 3, 2026 03:06
I’m thinking about signing up. If I pass the interview, that is, I’d like to avoid being recognized. Would it be possible not to have my photo featured on the “new women” section of the website? I’d prefer it to appear only on a page that registered male members can view. Also, would it be possible to request that a specific person not be able to see my profile if they’re registered? For example, could I give you their full name and age...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
If you give us his full name, we can hide your profile from that specific man.
You wouldn’t want your former papa or your father to come across it, after all.