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📅 Feb 3, 2026 00:03
After matching on PATLO, it seems the woman changed her requested transportation allowance from ¥10,000 to ¥20,000. I didn’t take a screenshot of the original amount, but it has been changed, along with her photos and messages. In this case, would it be okay to give her ¥10,000 for transportation when we meet? Putting the amount aside, if the updated terms take precedence, wouldn’t that mean she could change anything afterward?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
This can happen on Universe Club too, where someone changes from C to B2 after you’ve already applied, so it’s a pretty frustrating issue.
You were planning to invite her somewhere after dinner, but if she’s B2, does that mean the first date is dinner only? Is priority given to the terms at the time you applied, or to her current status? That’s the question.
If you think of it as reflecting her current feelings rather than being a contract, then naturally the current status…
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📅 Feb 2, 2026 15:48
If a woman says in her profile or at the first meeting, “I’d like to go shopping together,” does she mean she wants you to buy her a designer item or something in addition to the allowance? I wouldn’t mind once we’ve gotten to know each other, but the terms can change considerably depending on how much she expects you to spend. So if she says this at the first meeting, how do you usually handle it? (Assuming she’s registered as a B2 typ...
💬 Answer from よっさん:
Going shopping
“Can I ask you to get me a Louis Vuitton key case—under ¥100,000—or maybe something from a cheaper brand?”
And then, after looking at all sorts of things, the standard move is to end up buying a bag costing nearly ¥400,000.
Adjust the amounts depending on the situation. The budget is four times higher.
And of course, listing it on Yahoo! Auctions or Mercari afterward is also part of the standard routine.
If you have multiple papa supporters, asking all of …
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📅 Feb 1, 2026 16:51
Do you really have to wait a full six months before having your photos retaken? If you’ve changed your look by cutting your hair or lost weight through dieting, for example, can you get them retaken after around four or five months? Also, does the reshoot have to be done at the same branch?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
It’s not necessarily six months every time.If the branch isn’t handling many interviews and isn’t particularly busy, they may accept a reshoot even before six months have passed.In short, how busy the branch is makes a big difference.
That said, even busy branches will often agree to a reshoot if you’ve had your hair cut and your overall look has changed,or if you’ve lost weight through dieting and your image has changed.
The reshoot doesn’t have to be at the same branch,but …
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📅 Feb 1, 2026 09:06
Are women’s membership ranks (Black, Platinum, Gold, etc.) displayed on PATOLO?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
PATOLO didn’t have the concept of classes before, so they weren’t displayed. But since around the end of last year, class labels have started appearing.However, they mean something different from the classes on UNIVERSE—they’re simply there as a guideline for the introduction fee.I don’t think men had classes, so if I had to put it simply, it seemed that a Standard-class man could make an offer to a Black-class woman.That said, PATOLO is a real mixed bag in that regard, so ev…
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📅 Jan 31, 2026 16:30
What do men usually think when a woman changes her dating type—for example, from B1 to B2? Also, is it better to change your dating type when you have new photos taken? Is there an ideal time to make the change?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Becoming more open to an adult relationship (intimate) is a positive change, so it can lead to more offers.
I think the best time to have your photos retaken is when you make that change. The club staff will ask why, and the reason will be added to your profile. If it’s a good reason, that can lead to even more offers.
For example: “After dating a few people, I met several who made me feel comfortable becoming more open to an adult relationship.”
Or, if you’re genuinely co…
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📅 Jan 29, 2026 17:41
This is Sakura, who posted earlier. I’m sending this as a test because I suspect there may have been a system issue. (It’s perfectly fine to keep this private.) Earlier, I entered my age group, gender, and membership type, but it showed as unanswered. For this question as well, I selected “female Universe member in her 40s.” Has it been reflected correctly? If this was due to an error on my part, please forgive me. I also registered my ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Sorry you weren’t able to reply to the answer.
It seems there was still a bug, so I fixed it just now, but I haven’t been able to verify the fix yet.It should become stable soon. Thank you for your continued support.
Please let me know if you find any other bugs.
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📅 Jan 29, 2026 12:32
I was surprised to learn from this earlier question that some people might feel it’s a waste to give the full allowance—or might want to reduce it—because the papa (a male supporter) is quick to finish. https://lab.universe-club.jp/help/view/18128 On the other hand, I can understand someone saying, “I can’t satisfy you because I finish quickly, so I’ll give you a little extra allowance,” or, “I’m confident I can satisfy you because I’m ...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
I finally managed to log in.
I asked Maezawa-san to reset my password. They’re always so thorough and attentive.
If he’s a premature ejaculator, at least you spend less time with a gross, smelly old geezer, right? For someone like me who takes a long time, or an uncle who goes for a second round, the allowance should be double, shouldn’t it?
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📅 Jan 29, 2026 12:00
Nice to meet you. There’s no one I can talk to about this, so I’d like to ask for advice here. I have a papa (a male supporter) who is 10 years older than me. We meet once or twice a month, and I receive an allowance. He messages me on LINE constantly throughout the day, saying things like, “I want to see you,” “This is what I want to do next time,” and “When and what time can you meet?” The adult relationship (intimate) is fairly stand...
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
Judging from your message, it sounds like this papa (a male supporter) has seriously lost sight of appropriate boundaries.
Getting LINE messages from him all day, every day, and receiving messages like:
“Would you still see me if I stopped giving you an allowance?”
“Would you stop seeing me if I ran out of money?”
“I want to spend the whole day with you.”
“On days without an adult relationship (intimate), I want you to see me without an allowance.”
Then sending and retract…
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📅 Jan 28, 2026 14:59
Why are you moving to a question box?
💬 Answer from マックさん:
As I understand it, the current column and Q&A box have started ranking for some weird keywords in terms of SEO for https://universe-club.jp/, mainly because I (apparently?) went around posting some pretty extreme stuff. But President Kida apparently decided that, while it would be a shame to get rid of this content altogether, the two should be moved to a different URL and separated from the main site. Since Universe’s IT team is already fully occupied just keeping the main …
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📅 Jan 28, 2026 13:26
Is it rude to ask what kind of activities are involved beforehand? I really feel uncomfortable with the idea of putting “that” in my mouth when it’s someone in their 60s or 70s. If I’m going to do it, I’d want some extra allowance.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I’d say you should offer an allowance that includes the usual things:
Hugging, kissing, deep kissing, having your breasts fondled, being licked, oral, missionary, woman-on-top, and doggy style.
It’s probably better not to treat these as options.
Every now and then, you’ll meet women who say no to kissing, nipple play, oral, or being licked. They’re boring, so I end things with them immediately.
For me, 69 and doggy style are the default, so my monthly partners are women w…
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📅 Jan 27, 2026 16:47
A question for the men about traveling. I’ve been seeing my regular papa (a male supporter) about twice a month for around nine months, and he invited me on a hot-springs and golf trip. From a man’s perspective, do you actually want to travel with your papa-katsu partner? We’ve never spent that many hours together, so I’m worried we might run out of things to talk about. I’m always putting on an act around him, too… I’m planning to rece...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I sometimes fantasize that it might be fun.
The first time was hell.
Fuu was still inexperienced with papa-katsu and wasn’t very good at judging people. There was hardly any conversation, and it was honestly tough.
With the next woman, though, we went out several times, and it was heaven. In the end, it really depends on the person—compatibility, familiarity, and trust, I guess.
Before traveling together, we stayed overnight a few times to make sure we knew what to expec…
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📅 Jan 27, 2026 14:46
When a man offers me less than the usual going rate for my class, I turn him down. Most of the time, he then quickly raises the offer by 20,000 or 30,000 yen. When that happens, I often think, “Then why didn’t you offer that amount in the first place?” By that point, I’ve lost interest, so I end things. On the other hand, how would men feel if they turned down a woman asking for ¥150,000, only for her to hurriedly say, “Actually, ¥100,0...
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
Once you’ve actually said it out loud, you’re already in a whole different world… Both men and women need to think this through carefully. The hardest part of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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📅 Jan 27, 2026 10:00
Reading a question about STIs got me thinking: even if you avoid sex before an STI test and everything comes back okay at that point, you’re still going to sleep with a new papa (a male supporter) or a new private guy eventually, so isn’t the test kind of pointless? Do you really think they haven’t been with anyone but you since meeting you? Honestly, it’s such a hassle to go to the gynecologist. Also, I’ve had an adult relationship (in...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I don’t want to make you an offer, so please add this comment to your profile:
“Going to a gynecologist for an STI test sounds like too much of a hassle.”
I think the questioner may already have an STI in their throat. If the papa (male supporter) is taking antibiotics, they probably won’t catch it, so maybe it’s chlamydia?
Honestly, it could be cured if you went to the hospital. If you don’t, the infection will just keep spreading.
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📅 Jan 27, 2026 07:36
I’m a complete beginner—I only registered recently! A few people have contacted me, and I’m planning to meet them, but since this is all new to me, I’m not sure what would be a reasonable allowance. I’ve listed myself as B2, so if things develop into an adult relationship (intimate) from the second meeting onward, what would the usual going rate be? Do you usually set a minimum amount and then say something like, “If you like me and thi...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
Since this is a question that the other respondents aren’t very good at answering, I’ll let the person who knows it best—me—respond.
The allowance depends on the woman’s appearance.
Using Universe Club’s class system as an example, there are four levels, from Standard to Black:
Standard: 30,000 yen
Gold: 50,000 yen
Platinum: 70,000 yen
Black: 100,000 yen
There may be some disagreement, but I think these figures are generally accurate.
If you’re B2, you would probab…
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📅 Jan 26, 2026 23:22
Please help me. My overseas trip with my papa is nothing like I imagined, and I’m thinking about returning home alone. This papa lives overseas, about a 12-hour flight away, and this was supposed to be my first time meeting him abroad. I was already put off when I found out my seat was in economy. Every papa who has taken me overseas before has always booked business class. But the worst part is that instead of staying at a hotel, I’m b...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
If he’s paying you ¥1 million or more, I’d put up with it. But if he’s a broke papa, just book your own ticket and go home.
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📅 Jan 26, 2026 17:16
Why are some people against tattoos? Wouldn’t a small, discreet one be okay? A lot of young people these days have tattoos, and personally, I don’t mind if a man has one either. I’d be put off if he had something as extreme as a pair of Buddhist guardian statues tattooed on him, though. Would even a small tattoo be a turnoff?
💬 Answer from シアトル:
I wouldn’t offer even a small allowance. Why? Because I’m a delinquent, tied to antisocial elements, and an idiot. If you want to make money, you have to appeal to old-school guys, not follow Reiwa-era standards.
Why ruin your beautiful skin yourself?
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📅 Jan 26, 2026 14:35
Men in papa-katsu often say that sex workers carry STIs, while customers of sex workers say that women in papa-katsu carry them instead. It’s funny how biased these guys can be lol But realistically, which group has more STIs?
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
I think it varies from person to person. Those who are careful are less likely to catch anything, while those who are careless are vulnerable to both...
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📅 Jan 26, 2026 10:48
Why do I so often see people saying “no single mothers” or “no sex workers”? I can understand the “no sex workers” part to some extent, but why single mothers?
💬 Answer from 日月新:
If she’s currently working in, or has experience with, the adult entertainment or nightlife industry, then she’s essentially a professional, right?
If that’s the case, you can meet women like that by going to hostess clubs or other adult-entertainment venues. Meeting outside the venue doesn’t suddenly change the nature of the relationship—they already know what it’s like to talk with older men, have meals with them, or do various things, and they already have a sense of the …
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📅 Jan 25, 2026 14:45
This is Maezawa. Regarding the question below, a woman has asked me to check whether there are any issues with her photo or profile. I thought it might not have been seen due to the timing, so I’m posting an announcement here. I’d appreciate it if you could answer. If you didn’t respond because the question wasn’t phrased very well, please feel free to leave it as is. Thank you. https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/18182 I’ve in...
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
I just had a look. I think it’s pretty good, isn’t it? I do hesitate a little when it comes to dating types A and D, but otherwise I make offers without worrying too much about the differences. As long as I can get a general idea from the profile, I’ll ask more in depth when we meet.
At first, I used to read everything very carefully, but there have been several people who said, “Did I write that?” when we met, haha.
The only thing that caught my attention was that the audi…
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📅 Jan 25, 2026 11:26
How can they tell, just by feel, that it’s only been a day or two if you used a condom? Also, if you’re with someone particularly well-endowed, how many days does it usually take to return to normal? Fortunately, maybe because the men I’ve been with so far were more modestly sized, no one has noticed even when I’ve had sex again after a two-day break.
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
I really have no idea. When a sex worker is at a busy restaurant, I can at least guess that she’s probably just finished work, haha.