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📅 Jan 25, 2026 02:57
I currently have two papa (male supporters) I’ve been seeing for quite a long time. Recently, I got a boyfriend, but I haven’t told either of my papas about him. My papas always take me out to lovely restaurants and even on trips. I really enjoy being treated like a princess. My boyfriend is considerably younger than I am and doesn’t earn any money. I usually end up paying when we go on dates, and I’m almost always the one who decides w...
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
It probably depends on the papa, but in my case, I’m totally fine with him doing as he pleases. I don’t want to feel tied down either, and honestly, I’d be uncomfortable if he became dependent on me like a boyfriend. Still, the fact that you even worry about this probably means you’re a genuinely considerate person.
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📅 Jan 24, 2026 16:19
I’m a 36-year-old woman registered here. It’s nothing more than chatting, but I’d be happy if you’d keep me company, even just a little. These days, even people in their 30s are divided into finer age groups: 30–32: early 30s 33–35: mid-30s 36–39: approaching 40 Around 40: early 40s I’m not sure how things are categorized within Universe, though. Lately, I’ve been feeling myself age day by day, and it’s making me sad.
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
Don’t be sad >< As I wrote before, you’ve entered the most wonderful—oops, sorry!—and attractive stage of womanhood.
The next ten years are precious, so enjoy them without any regrets.
This may be beside the point, but from reading your post, I can sense what a refined and lovely person you are. I’d love to get to know you.
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📅 Jan 24, 2026 15:27
Is having 11 really that impressive? Some of them I see twice a month, while others are more like once every three months. I’ve been gradually fading some of them out, but they keep wanting to see me, so the number just keeps growing. I’m sure other girls are juggling around 15 too—they just don’t talk about it. Obviously, I couldn’t date 11 guys my own age at once, but this is papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), after all.
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
Women are probably able to do it because they’re more adept at juggling things. If I tried papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I’d probably end up messaging my wife by mistake and get myself into serious trouble.
Besides, I wouldn’t have the money, free time, or stamina to keep it up anyway.
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📅 Jan 24, 2026 11:26
Lately, I’ve been busy with my personal life and haven’t had much time for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Since it’s been difficult to coordinate schedules with the people I’m meeting next, I may end up seeing two people back-to-back in one day. They’ll both be first meetings. If things happen to develop into an adult relationship (intimate) with the first person, would the second person be able to tell what I’d just done? I’...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
If you were with the first person without a condom, I feel like the second person would notice it with a probability close to 100%.
Usually, I think they notice because of the subtle smell down there, so if you can take care of that, it’s less likely they’ll find out.
Some men, like Kazu, have incredibly sharp senses and can tell whether you’ve been with someone within the past day or two even if you used a condom, so I think it also depends on how perceptive the man is.
S…
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📅 Jan 23, 2026 19:03
Thanks for answering my question. It seems like returning the same question to men is probably a good idea too! To Yossan: Eleven is pretty normal, lol. With escort work, there are days when I get four repeat bookings in one day, and I have over 100 clients, so I think handling 100 people here would be easy. To “Loser Guy”: Who exactly are you saying “you’re welcome” to? I may be a “blacklisted girl,” but I don’t remember ever receiving...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
It depends on the allowance, but I’ve only ever known one person who had 11 partners at pay-per-meeting rates of 60,000 yen or more.
So if this questioner really has 11 partners paying 60,000 yen or more each time, that would make two people, counting that girl I know. But are we really going to see such a rare-earth—no, rare character—appear here?
> To “Make-Loser”
> Who were you saying “you’re welcome” to?
> I may be a blacklisted girl, but I don’t remember ever recei…
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📅 Jan 23, 2026 14:21
What kind of men are women most likely to drop when they have more options? I’ve met several women so far, but haven’t found anyone I really clicked with. I’ve finally met someone I like and want to continue seeing her, but if a better man comes along, is she likely to move on to him? I’d like to do everything I can on my end.
💬 Answer from よっさん:
They’re dealing with a person. If a better man came along, she might date him too, but generally speaking, wouldn’t she just walk away if she started feeling scared or it became too much of a hassle?
When you say “a better man,” I assume you mean someone who’s actually being considered as a man in a romantic sense. Normally, women don’t fall for or count papa-katsu men in that category.
Women also face the risk of their activities not continuing, so I don’t think they cut e…
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📅 Jan 23, 2026 12:40
In what order are the women displayed? If someone re-registers after withdrawing, do they not appear near the top? Can the staff also adjust how profiles are displayed? For example, if someone received quite a few offers before, could they now only be shown to Black-tier members? I feel like I’m getting noticeably fewer favorites than before...
💬 Answer from 日月新:
I looked over your profile.
I don’t see many negative factors.
Women who exercise are often healthy and proactive, so that really appealed to me.
If you force yourself to lose weight, your cheeks may become sunken and your cheekbones might stand out.
I think it’s best to slim down in a healthy way.
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📅 Jan 23, 2026 11:14
What’s the best way for a woman to answer when asked, “Have you met anyone nice? Have you met a few people already?” Would it be better to say, “I’ve met a few people, but none of them led to anything ongoing,” or “I’m currently seeing two or three people on a regular basis”? I’m not sure. For context, I’ve been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for about three years. There’s been some turnover, but I currently have around ...
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
I actually asked the same question before, but if someone were asking me, these would be the answers I’d like to hear:
>Did you meet anyone good? → “Not really—there haven’t been many.” (Oh, maybe I could be the right person for her.)
>How many people have you met? → “Two or three.” If she said five or six or more, I’d probably think, “Wow, she’s really experienced.”
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>Or, “Wait, if she’s met that many people and still hasn’t found anyone good, is she just extremely picky—…
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📅 Jan 21, 2026 21:11
I was told I’m materialistic. A man I met—a business owner—told me I’m materialistic and that he didn’t want anything to do with me. I feel like business owners are much more materialistic, though, lol. What makes you think a woman is materialistic?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Fuu’s beloved money-minded papas she’s met
“I want to do a little shopping before we go to the hotel.”
→ “Buy this for me.” (It was cosmetics, so it was kind of cute.)
For our next date, he wanted to meet at the handbag section of a department store.
→ “There’s a bag I really want.”
→ “Buy it yourself with your allowance, lol.”
Allowance paid upfront, then after I undressed in bed:
→ “If you want oral, that’s an extra ¥〇〇.”
→ “If you want to go all the way, that’s an extra…
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📅 Jan 21, 2026 12:28
I ended up deactivating my account, but I registered as B2 about a year and a half ago and was fortunate enough to receive around five offers. I’m thinking about registering again, but if I downgrade to B1, will I receive fewer offers? Since I’m re-registering rather than joining as a new member, will that leave a slightly bad impression?
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
The following is, to put it mildly, the ramblings of someone with rather unusual tastes, so please don’t take it too seriously.
Basically, re-registering means she’s been thoroughly used by some slightly chubby, balding guy—plain and simple. And of course, those are exactly the women I like.
At the same time, though, I can’t help wondering, “Why did you come back?” So even if it’s a lie (though it really shouldn’t be), my particular fixation is that I’d like her to write ab…
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📅 Jan 20, 2026 13:10
I’m posting because I’d really appreciate everyone’s opinions. How do you generally plan out the timing of your dates? When meeting a woman for the second time, I’ve usually had dinner, then spent some time talking and checking how we both feel. If the atmosphere is right, we often move on to more intimate time. However, I sometimes feel that eating too much at night isn’t ideal, either physically or for the mood. That’s why I’m a littl...
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
I’m a broke salaryman and don’t have much time, so I basically stick to coffee and love-hotel intimacy~~ Business hotels don’t even have condoms, and you have to worry about being seen, so I don’t understand why anyone would choose them…
From the second meeting onward, I try to arrange to meet at a love hotel whenever possible, saying, “I’m worried about people seeing us.”
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📅 Jan 20, 2026 07:00
We only contact each other when deciding on a date or arranging where to meet that day. Since he’s married, I’ve gotten used to waiting for him to be the one to reach out rather than inviting him myself. At the beginning, I was the one initiating more often, but I became increasingly worried about being disliked, and before I knew it, things had settled into this pattern. Normally, it would be about time for him to contact me about our ...
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
Just speaking from my own experience:
If your papa has told you, “Please don’t contact me until I reach out to you,” it’s probably best not to.
For example, what if his wife happened to see your messages and things got really serious? Could you take responsibility for that?
That said, there were times when the other person contacted me anyway. In those cases, things often became vague and gradually fell apart, but if possible, it’s still better not to mention any specifics…
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📅 Jan 19, 2026 21:19
I’m a woman in my 30s. I’ve recently been getting in shape at a personal gym and plan to register soon. When it comes to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I get the impression that women in their 20s are in higher demand. Would it be okay for me to apply even though I’m in my 30s? I’m wondering whether there’s any demand for someone my age.
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
It’s just my personal preference, but as someone who’s almost in his 60s, I find women in their late 30s to 40s the most satisfying in bed. Many are considerate and kind, and a lot of them have more depth to their conversations and perspectives. I really like that, haha. On the other hand, even when it comes to women in their 30s, I sometimes feel that those in the early part of that decade may not quite have what I’m looking for yet.
And she works out at the gym too—that so…
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📅 Jan 19, 2026 15:00
During my last two renewals (without a reshoot), I didn’t receive any offers, so I assumed they probably weren’t coming anymore. But recently, after confirming my renewal (again without a reshoot), I suddenly received offers from several people. Could this mean I was moved to a lower rank, or that I was included in some kind of campaign?
💬 Answer from 50半ばのオッサン:
I didn’t know that confirming your continued interest raises your ranking. I had a similar impression since my profile got the most views and likes right after I registered.
As for why you received offers, could it be because you “lowered your rank”? As a salaryman, I really appreciate it when someone lowers their rate, so I feel more comfortable making an offer. Since members in lower tiers can also make offers, that probably increases the overall number of offers too.
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📅 Jan 16, 2026 22:51
I’m a guy in my mid-50s. When we first meet, I’m often asked, “About how many people have you met so far?” or “Have you met anyone good?” What’s the best way to answer that in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? lol Obviously, it’s not my first time, but I don’t want to answer honestly and scare them off. On the other hand, saying, “You’re the best,” right after meeting isn’t really my style either… Once, I asked back, “What about...
💬 Answer from あや:
Long time no see. It’s Aya.
I haven’t heard this very often myself, but I think some girls say things like this when they’re having trouble finding something to talk about—or to market themselves and establish their position.
Here’s an example of a “perfect answer” that made me happy, from a papa I’m still seeing:
Q. “About how many people have you met so far?” “Did you meet anyone you really liked?”
A. “Well, at first, partly out of curiosity, I met girls who seemed inte…
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📅 Jan 16, 2026 21:23
With Type B1, is there a rule that you have to agree to an adult relationship by a certain number of meetings? I’ve gone out to eat with my papa a few times, and although I chose B, he’s been complaining and making snide remarks, saying that deep down I really intended to choose A. There seems to be a papa in the question below who’s angry about B2, but in my case it’s B1. That means he’s the one in the wrong, right?
💬 Answer from よっさん:
There are no hard-and-fast rules. In my case, I make it clear from the start that I’ll only meet for dinner up to the second time. (Of course, there’s no actual rule like that.) Personally, I recommend it because it doesn’t waste your time.
If you’re saying things that could give him the wrong idea, just assume that an older guy who misunderstands may get angry—that’s pretty much the standard reaction—so it probably won’t come as much of a surprise.
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📅 Jan 16, 2026 10:41
I’ve gone out to dinner several times with a woman whose dating-club type is B2. I feel like we’ve grown fairly close, but she keeps saying she’d like to get to know me a little better first, so things haven’t progressed to an adult relationship. We’ve had dinner only at least five times now. Do you think she’s actually interested in moving things forward? I could understand it if she were B1 or A, but I’m wondering why she chose B2. Ar...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
At B2, meeting a second time for dinner only causes trouble for the other members—both men and women.
I think it would have been better to part ways when you were discussing the second meeting over LINE.
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📅 Jan 15, 2026 23:01
I’m a man in my mid-50s. I haven’t been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for very long, so I’d like to ask the women here. - I’ve only met women who list their relationship type as B or C. B means they meet with the understanding that they won’t have an adult relationship (intimate) on the first meeting, while C means they may or may not. However, almost all of them ask, “What shall we do after this?” In B cases especially...
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
First, regarding your first point, I think most women meet someone after having a basic understanding of their dating type. At the very least, it’s not common for someone to meet without knowing whether the woman is type B or C.
With that in mind, the question, “What would you like to do after this?” is often meant as an invitation when she’s type C. However, for type B, it can also simply carry the nuance of asking, “Shall we call it a day here?” or “Would you like to go so…
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📅 Jan 15, 2026 16:20
I’m the one who asked about braces earlier. If possible, I’d like to stick to dinner only (no intimacy). About how much could I expect to earn?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
My friends who receive help with their rent are doing the adult relationship thing. If anything, I think it’s probably the kind of arrangement where their papa can come into their home whenever he wants and have his way with them. They just don’t talk about it.
Unless you’re exceptionally attractive, you’ll probably get fewer offers and won’t earn much without agreeing to an adult relationship.
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📅 Jan 15, 2026 16:13
I’m getting my teeth straightened. Will I still get offers if I sign up for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? I don’t have braces behind my teeth—I’m wearing clear braces on the front. A friend signed up here and had her rent paid, so I thought I’d like to try it too.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
If you’re attractive, you’ll get offers regardless of whether you’re wearing braces or anything else. For someone who’s more average-looking, though, some men may hesitate about making an offer.
That said, if they’re clear braces, they probably won’t look noticeably unusual at first glance, so I think you’ll be fine.