The other day, a papa (a male supporter) contacted me saying he wanted to move toward an adult relationship (intimate). I personally had no objection to that, as long as we could agree on the allowance. However, there was a difference between the amount I wanted and what he was offering, so I told him, “If we’re going to have an adult relationship, this is roughly the allowance I have in mind, so I don’t think I can do it for the amount you offered.”
He then replied, “You’re deliberately trying to reject an adult relationship by demanding an unrealistically high amount. That amounts to dating-type fraud, so I’m going to report you to the club.”
Would this actually be considered dating-type fraud?
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When I want them to turn me down, I suggest “5 for an adult relationship (intimate).”
Maybe that papa (a male supporter) is hoping you’ll turn him down.
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It doesn’t count as fraud.
That said, make sure you report it properly to the club, clearly stating the name of the club your papa (a male supporter) belongs to.
Otherwise, there’s a chance the club may end up viewing you as the one at fault.
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In this case, I don’t think it qualifies as a dating-type scam.
Since you’re still a teenager, be very careful about choosing who you see.
You’ll probably start receiving offers from all kinds of people, so I think it’s fine to tell them what kind of allowance and terms you’re looking for.
That said, if you keep getting offers with terms similar to those from your previous papa, maybe it’s worth thinking things over a little.
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This doesn’t qualify as a “dating-type scam” at all.
As the other person mentioned, it’s best to keep your messages as a precaution.
*Since you said “the other day,” I assume this happened after the first meeting. If you’ve been communicating via LINE, don’t block or delete them just yet.*
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Based on the details in this question, it doesn’t qualify as a dating-type scam at all.
However, the man may report the situation to the club in a way that favors him, so you should contact the club first.
When you do, it would be a good idea to send the club screenshots of your messages with your papa (a male supporter) via LINE.
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If you were asking for an allowance of ¥1 million per pay-per-meeting arrangement, then I’d say the man has a point. But if you’re talking about around ¥100,000 or ¥200,000, there are women who ask for that amount, so I don’t think this qualifies as a relationship-type scam.
To put it another way, even if the woman’s requested allowance were much lower—say ¥30,000—and the man offered ¥30,000, she would still be perfectly entitled to turn him down if he wasn’t her type. That wouldn’t be a relationship-type scam either. It’s only natural, since this is a matter of free choice between consenting adults.
I assume he only thought that way because he had never paid that amount of allowance in the past. But saying, “You’re deliberately inflating the amount to refuse an adult relationship (intimate). This counts as a relationship-type scam, so I’m going to report you to the club”—that’s a threat, isn’t it?
What an awful male member, threatening someone like that. I’d be inclined to give him a serious warning.
> Does this count as a relationship-type scam?
No, it does not.
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