Tips Oct 25, 2025 10:41

I’m a female member of Universe’s Kanto branch.

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A male member from the Kansai branch whom I met through Universe before seems to have viewed my profile several times through a friend who is also a Universe member. This may be an emotional reaction, but to be honest, I feel a little uncomfortable. It strikes me as sneaky—or rather, kind of creepy. Of course, we never promised each other anything like “let’s only see each other,” so there wouldn’t really be a problem even if he found out that I’m currently on leave. Still… To prevent this, I’m considering either making my profile completely invisible or hiding it only from members of the Kansai branch, since it may be possible that he’s viewing it through a friend at the same branch. However, if I make my profile completely invisible, I’m wondering how women receive offers. I understand that I could simply ask the staff directly, but I’m also concerned about how that might affect their impression of me, so I wanted to ask for advice here instead. I’d really appreciate any advice.
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A question full of things that don’t quite add up. Thanks for sharing. Is this fictional? As Maezawa-san said, profiles can’t be viewed while someone is on hiatus. And I don’t think they were grouped as the Kanto and Kansai branches either. Weren’t the branch names more like Ginza or Osaka? Anyway, even if her papa’s friend saw her profile, wouldn’t it be fine as long as neither of them had made any commitment to be exclusive? Do you mean that her papa said, “You took a break, right?” If that alone is enough to make her angry, breaking up with that papa seems like the quickest solution. After all, this is papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) involving money, so I don’t think there’s any need to continue if it’s causing her unpleasant feelings. Changing the subject, I met a woman for the first time today and was able to make her climax! Ah, my self-esteem just shot through the roof, lol. She seemed to enjoy what Fuu did too, so we were compatible. It felt great.
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> It’s not really a problem if people find out that I’m on a temporary hiatus. If you’re on hiatus, doesn’t that mean your profile is currently hidden? I’m not quite sure how someone can view a profile that should be hidden. If you’re worried about what will happen when you reactivate your account, then even if you hide everyone at the Kansai branch, your friend could still see you if they’re registered with the Kanto branch. So unless you know which branch your friend is registered with, it seems like it may be difficult after all. Also, they don’t generally accept requests to hide an entire branch. The usual assumption is that you can hide a few specific people individually, so I feel there’s a good chance they won’t be able to accommodate a request to hide everyone at the Kansai branch. (If you have nothing to lose by asking, you could simply ask whether that’s possible.) > I’m wondering how women receive offers if their profiles are completely hidden. Basically, you won’t receive any offers, since no one can see your profile. However, if a man asks the staff, “Don’t you have anyone like this?” and your profile matches what he’s looking for, the staff may show him your profile individually and ask, “How about her?” If you’re not confident that your profile stands out, it seems like you’ll receive almost no offers. If you’re in Tokyo, THESALON may be worth considering because they don’t have a member directory. However, their screening process is extremely strict, so the question is whether you’ll be accepted in the first place.
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