There’s someone I like, but they graduated from a top university and come from a wealthy family. My upbringing was extremely difficult. Do you think a relationship can work when our backgrounds are complete opposites?
Go for it and turn your life around in one fell swoop.
If you already feel like you have little to lose, then you’ve got nothing to lose with this either.
Be calm and deliberate—but sometimes, be bold, like poking holes in condoms. Once you’ve made him yours, wouldn’t that be worth it?
Nothing changes if you don’t take action. You only live once, so rather than regretting not trying, wouldn’t it be better to try and regret it, then move forward?
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When it comes to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I’ve never once cared about the other person’s upbringing.
As for romantic relationships, it really depends on the person, so I can’t say for sure.
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I don’t dislike girls from difficult family backgrounds. If anything, I tend to like them more because I feel sorry for them and become emotionally invested.
Most of my monthly arrangement partners come from troubled family environments.
After all, only a minority of girls from privileged backgrounds would get into papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
That said, if someone tells me right from the start—before we’ve even gotten close—that her family situation was terrible, it gives off a gold-digger vibe, so I tend to keep my distance.
No matter how difficult her family background is, there’s no need to be pessimistic about it. And if it means she can’t marry someone, I think she should just dump a man like that.
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From the way you say you have someone you like, I’m guessing you’re not dating them yet.
If so, you probably don’t know how they think or whether you’d be compatible once you actually start dating.
So if you really like them, I think all you can do is confess your feelings and ask them out, believing it might work out.
You have nothing to lose. That said, it’s important to think through your strategy and do your best to make things go well.
If you try everything you can and give it your best shot, I feel things are more likely to work out.
If they’re the kind of person who cares about the environment or circumstances of the women they date, then unfortunately, that may simply be something beyond your control.
Still, I think it’s better than doing nothing and continuing to feel unsettled.
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