Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Aug 28, 2026 00:19
I’ve saved 30 million yen through papa-katsu—what’s the best way to use it? NISA, or should I keep it in the bank? I’m planning to retire now that I’m married.
💬 Answer from マックさん:
Either it disappears before I even realize what I spent it on, or I never spend it at all and keep holding onto it while constantly worrying about where to hide it.
The 20-year-old I saw the night before last started working at a high-end escort service when she entered university at 18. The fee is ¥70,000 for 90 minutes, of which she takes home ¥50,000. She says she’s already reached her initial goal of ¥50 million, and her current goal is ¥200 million. She’ll graduate from…
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📅 Aug 28, 2026 00:17
There’s someone whose profile really makes me want to meet them, but “You seem wonderful” only allows messages of up to 200 characters. Could the staff send them a message of around 500 characters for me?
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
Personally, I think it’s best to send “You’re lovely” only to men who have favorited you, with no additional message.
When I imagine someone logging into the club site enough to write out a message, it honestly puts me off quite a bit.
If it’s from a woman who hasn’t even favorited me, it has absolutely no effect. Even among women I’ve favorited, the chances of me making an offer are pretty low…
Being overly proactive can backfire.
I prefer to avoid pros, so the very fact…
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📅 Aug 27, 2026 01:59
When I sign up, I have to choose a branch. After joining, can I use branches nationwide?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Rather than simply being able to use branch offices, it’s more like a dream setup where you can make offers to women all across Japan.
Before COVID, Fuu traveled nationwide for work—to Sapporo, Nagoya, Osaka, and Fukuoka—and had monthly arrangements in each city, meeting them about once a month on business trips.
(While also seeing his regulars in Tokyo, lol.)
Because of COVID, clients started saying, “You don’t need to come in—remote is fine,” so I don’t have those trips…
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📅 Aug 26, 2026 15:21
I am a foreigner looking to find a Japanese girlfriend. Is it mandatory to present a passport to join this membership? Also, I speak very little Japanese; is support available from the staff?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Universe Club has English-speaking staff in its international department. They speak almost native-level English, so you won’t have any trouble signing up and can receive support from staff who grew up in English-speaking countries.
P.S. We’ve also added an English page that automatically translates answers written in Japanese, so you can respond in Japanese if you prefer. (Past questions and answers have been translated into English as well.)
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📅 Aug 25, 2026 18:51
There was a woman using the club name “Nissan Serena.” It was in Nagoya, Toyota’s hometown. Should I make her an offer?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
If this was staged by you, that’s seriously impressive.
I couldn’t help but search for it, so you’re definitely a mastermind.
Your profile sounds like you’re a guy—very high-testosterone energy.
If it wasn’t self-produced, you should make an offer to the person who asked the question. They seem interesting.
P.S.
It’s gone viral among the answerer crew lol.
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📅 Aug 25, 2026 11:42
Hello. I always enjoy reading everyone’s questions and answers. This is embarrassing, but it’s my first time posting a question. Although I feel that, compared with women in their late twenties and older, an adult relationship (intimate) with a young woman who has little experience with men is inevitably bound to be rather lackluster, I’ve started wondering whether there might be a way to improve things—or to reframe the experience as s...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
I’ve been with quite a few virgins. I haven’t kept count, but probably just under 20.
> If you have any advice on how to enjoy—or help a woman with little sexual experience enjoy—an adult relationship (intimate), I’d love to hear it.
I pay close attention to her, figure out what she’s looking for, and then help that side of her grow in the direction it seems to be heading. At the same time, you need a certain boldness—basically, be willing to try all sorts of things. Try so…
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📅 Aug 23, 2026 23:57
Men from Universe sometimes ask me to be their girlfriend or date them, but I end up thinking, “Does that mean they want to see me without paying an allowance?” and I can’t bring myself to say yes… Once, a man gave me a ring as an engagement ring, and after I accepted it, he said, “I thought you’d date me if I gave you this.” I still didn’t really understand why. What does it mean when someone asks you to date him even though he has a w...
💬 Answer from フラグメーカー:
A lot of men attach more meaning to “we got intimate” than just “we got intimate,” even when an allowance is involved.
And this really varies from person to person. To me, an allowance-based relationship is just that, but from what I’ve seen, far more men interpret it as “we’re dating.”
So I get the feeling that “dating” in this context often means a relationship involving an allowance. But if women also clearly call it “dating,” it could lead to misunderstandings, so it’s …
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📅 Aug 23, 2026 19:43
If someone is a celebrity—an influencer with around 10,000 Instagram followers—and is registered as an idol, singer, model, or entertainer, how much allowance would be appropriate? If I’ve been meeting office ladies for 50,000 yen, would someone like that meet me for about the same amount? Between models, idols, and idol-singers, which would be less expensive for an adult relationship (intimate)?
💬 Answer from シアトル:
At the 10,000-follower level, there are plenty of them, so maybe around 10.
For Emiri Otani, with her 930,000 followers, maybe 3,000.
If she’s a model or idol, there are plenty of women like that among the female members, so 5. If a well-mannered male member has been paying 5 and the arrangement has continued, I think an office lady would be the same.
If she can make a living as a singer, that’s cool, so 8. For a major female celebrity, 10.
Honestly, I’m sorry that us old…
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📅 Aug 23, 2026 18:50
I have a question. When you meet a woman several times, do you both agree that you're dating and then continue seeing each other? Or do you just keep meeting without really defining the relationship? Should I be clear with a woman I like? I'm married, so I feel a little awkward calling it dating. I'd like to hear how everyone else handles this. Thank you.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
LOL
This is a place for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so it’s not really about “dating” in the usual sense—whether someone is married or single.
In your case, you don’t need to say it explicitly.
Why? Because if she wants to continue seeing you, she’ll be the one to bring it up lol.
Just don’t say anything and wait for her to mention it.
You might end up making first-meeting offers forever, though… lol
P.S.
About your reply to Maezawa-san: that way of thinki…
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📅 Aug 23, 2026 12:06
A woman I made an offer to for the first time. She was wonderful, dinner was a lot of fun, and we spent some adult time together. While she was taking the lead, I said I wanted to go further, and she grabbed me and tried to do it without a condom. I laughed and gently calmed her down, and in the end we used one. Does this happen often? (lol) She said she might have been drunk (lol), and told me I was kind. We continued seeing each other...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
You’re a male member of the club, right?
Haven’t you made offers to several women yet?
Is she still your first one?
I’m Fuu, and I’ve been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for eight years. There aren’t many women who are okay with going without a condom, but they do exist.
That woman is definitely doing it bareback all over the place with other men, lol.
You should try it with her. Since you have the chance, it might be a good experience?
I answered the …
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📅 Aug 22, 2026 01:58
I was wondering why I hadn’t been getting many offers lately, and apparently the staff have been recommending me by saying something like, “Her allowance is on the higher side, but she’s a lovely girl, so feel free to reach out if you’re willing to give it a try.” For reference, the allowance is usually proposed by the other person and falls somewhere between 80,000 and 110,000 yen. In the past, though, I’ve also encountered people who ...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
I don’t think the reason I’ve been getting fewer offers lately is that the staff are recommending me with the attitude of, “She’s a good girl, but her allowance is high—go for it if you’re up for the challenge.”
If they were saying, “Her allowance is high, so you’re better off passing,” I’d understand. But maybe the photos in my album and my profile don’t really match the fact that my allowance is on the higher side?
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📅 Aug 20, 2026 22:06
Is the compensation for a reshoot standardized within the same class? For example, when a woman from the Black Class comes in for a reshoot, is the compensation the same for everyone, or does it vary from person to person?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I thought the reshoot bonus was only temporary, but please check with your local branch to see whether it’s still being offered.
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📅 Aug 19, 2026 18:11
Urgent! I’m going shopping for clothes with a woman for the first time. How much should I budget for her clothes as a gift? She’s an older-sister-type gal who likes GYDA. I don’t think GYDA is particularly expensive, but what would be a reasonable amount? Would around ¥30,000–¥40,000 be appropriate? Thank you.
💬 Answer from 負け男:
I think it would be best to say upfront that you’re okay with it as long as it’s within the amount of one allowance.
Still, good for you—you’re so invested in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) that you can even post an “Urgent!” question just for a date. I have almost zero interest in papa-katsu. I enjoy my work so much that I’m pouring all my testosterone and dopamine into it, leaving none for papa-katsu.
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📅 Aug 19, 2026 07:03
I have self-harm scars. Can I still apply?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Wouldn’t it be fine as long as you don’t show it?
The main thing to keep in mind is that presenting yourself as unhappy won’t work in your favor here.
Hopefully, you can enjoy your arrangements and become more cheerful. But if you overthink things, follow everything you’re told, or keep forcing yourself to endure things, I think it could take a toll on you.
Please make your own enjoyment the priority when you’re active here.
Don’t push yourself, and if you don’t like some…
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📅 Aug 18, 2026 16:57
He got upset because I didn’t give him a souvenir. I told a man I’ve been seeing for about six months that I was going on a trip to Hokkaido, but he got upset that I didn’t bring him anything. He said things like, “I always give you things—why didn’t you bring me anything?” and “You didn’t send me any photos from there either, so I thought you might be with another man.” I did give him a souvenir when we had only met about twice, but he...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
It’s not really about the souvenir—it’s about wanting you to think of him even when you’re not together. In that case, why not occasionally take a photo or something and send it to him? I think it comes down to your skills at maintaining the relationship as a papa-katsu girl. If it feels like too much trouble, you’re probably better off ending things.
I’d avoid writing a letter. His wife might find it.
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📅 Aug 17, 2026 05:08
I’m a college student who left Universe about a year ago. I’m thinking about rejoining, but I’d rather not have people I know find out, so I’d prefer to meet and part ways at a hotel instead of going to restaurants or stations together. I received around 30 offers in one month before, so I’m wondering whether I might still get some offers even with these terms. Is there any way to find a papa (a male supporter) who would agree to this a...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
With Universe Club, we arrange meals between men and women.
So, for the first meeting, you are “required” to have a meal together.
The only exception is when there’s a specific reason, in which case having tea is allowed—but that is strictly an exception.
You’re told that you can order whatever you like, so I think having only tea is just barely within the basic guidelines.
Still, some people seem to treat the exception as the norm, and I’m not sure how I feel about t…
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📅 Aug 14, 2026 14:22
What I’ve Learned from Over a Year of Papa-Katsu—and Why I Decided to Move On Hello everyone. Today, I’d like to share what I experienced and how I felt during the more than a year I spent doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), as well as why I eventually decided it was time to move on. To briefly introduce myself, I’m a single man in my 40s. At first, I used a regular dating app for about a month, but honestly, I felt it took ...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
I’ve experienced all of these:
- A papa-katsu woman who started out receiving an allowance but stopped accepting one partway through
- Meeting someone in the real world, with no allowance from the beginning
- Meeting someone through Universe Club, also with no allowance from the beginning
They were all awful. Mac-san’s way of thinking is right. Money is part of a man, just as beauty is part of a woman. My appeal is that I can make money. What’s wrong with that?
The reason …
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📅 Aug 12, 2026 19:21
I got around 50 favorites within three days of signing up, but I haven’t received a single offer… What could be the reason? I’m also replying properly to the “You seem lovely” messages with a message of my own.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
You’re the same person who wrote, “I’m on my fourth day as a member. Until the day before yesterday, I’d received around four or five offers,” right?
You previously said you were getting offers, but now you’re saying, “I’m not getting any offers at all.” Which version are we supposed to believe when answering?
There’s also a feature that lets you share your member number only with respondents. I think you’d get more specific advice about why this is happening and what you s…
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📅 Aug 12, 2026 00:52
Hello. I’ve made friends through the adult entertainment industry—mainly high-end dating clubs—and occasionally gone out to eat with them. Although there’s still a transactional element to it, I’ve started wanting to spend more time together. Since that kind of activity isn’t really the main focus for me, I’m considering trying a different kind of arrangement. What do you think?
💬 Answer from シアトル:
This is a dating club for people like you. If you earn ¥10 million a year, we’d be happy to have you join.
Until we get to know each other better, please keep it to four hours or less.
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📅 Aug 11, 2026 20:50
The other day, I met a woman for the first time who only does dinner dates. I’m mainly interested in intimacy, so until now I’d only met women who were looking for that as well. In that sense, having a dinner-only date was refreshing, but as we talked and I got a better look at her, I found myself wanting to be intimate with her after all. Now I’m wondering if there’s any way to get her to go to a hotel with me next time. Of course, I o...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
Even with Relationship Type A, things can naturally progress after about a year if you genuinely enjoy each other’s company.
I started sharing the same hobbies with him, helping him out when he was in trouble, and treating him warmly like a friend while receiving a dinner-only allowance. Eventually, he invited me to have an adult relationship.
If you can’t wait that long, try asking politely while offering an allowance with no upper limit.