Tips Sep 9, 2026 20:28

Thank you for all your answers about my question on being affectionate during an overseas date.

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When we traveled, if I cuddled up to him or held his hand, he would say, “If you’re going to do that, I’ll do this to you,” then put his hand inside my clothes and try to touch my breasts. He also deep-kissed me whenever he got the chance, and repeatedly groped my breasts. When I got fed up and stopped cuddling up to him, he got angry. When I was with my boyfriend, being affectionate meant hugging or holding hands, so I’ve always felt that touching someone’s breasts was more like foreplay. When he did that to me constantly, it made me feel as though he was only interested in my body, which made me sad—even though this was through a dating club. Do men generally want to be physically intimate throughout an entire trip? After reading everyone’s answers, I can understand why some people feel that the woman has to initiate affection too. In the end, he yelled at and scolded me for not being affectionate enough, and we parted ways. Later, he seemed to have calmed down and invited me on another date, but after seeing his attitude this time, I’m thinking I should avoid meeting him—and perhaps avoid traveling with men from the dating club altogether for a while. Thank you so much for all your responses. I’ll spend some enjoyable time with someone else. ・I’m posting from a different Wi-Fi network, so my ID may change.
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🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。 最近、筋トレにて、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を目指しています。現在、意図しない増量期です。 スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
The papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) market is completely dominated by papas—it’s a buyer’s market. But sellers still need to choose their customers carefully, or they’ll eventually blow up. Even in declining industries that are shrinking overall, some companies continue to thrive. And even in a country with a declining population like Japan, some businesses keep succeeding. The overall market conditions are separate from the success of individual companies and sole proprietors, so keep doing your best!!
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横断歩道
🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I don’t touch women outside the hotel, whether we’re just going about our normal routines or traveling.
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アンディ
顔合わせの刺激が好きすぎてオファー続けてます。町中華をこよなく愛してます。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
You made it back safely from your trip abroad. Welcome home! As you mentioned, I’d really rather not travel with someone I met through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Even when I’m asked, I turn it down—and as you said, I think it’s better not to do it. Let’s keep enjoying this with people we can both feel comfortable and stress-free around.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Whether it’s a relationship through a dating club or papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I think it makes a huge difference. In a relationship—or even in papa-katsu—the woman may want to travel, visit different places, and try various things together… But if it’s papa-katsu, I think it’s better not to expect or ask for those kinds of things from each other.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Personally, I don’t want people getting overly familiar for no reason—it’s annoying. It also turns me off because it feels like an unpopular hostess who mistakenly thinks she can win over customers just by being clingy. Lumping people together with broad generalizations like “men are…” or based on their gender is pretty stupid.
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