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Sep 18, 2026 22:08
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🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
On Patro, women can send messages to male members and make offers, so I’d start by sending a message.
That said, don’t get your hopes up too much about getting a reply, lol.
I’ve never made an offer to someone who messaged me on Fuu. I usually make offers to women who are my type.
Still, it’s better than doing nothing. Just think of it like this: you can’t win the lottery if you don’t buy a ticket, lol. So I’d say give messaging a try.
Your odds are probably better than winning the lottery, though, lol.
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Guest
Sep 19, 2026 10:25
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🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。
最近、筋トレにて、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を目指しています。現在、意図しない増量期です。
スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
Why not think it over and make the first move yourself?
Unlike the “likes” on Universe Club, one of Patro’s advantages is that you can message each other directly.
Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is a buyer’s market dominated by men, so unlike ordinary dating, the man usually has the initiative.
But nothing will happen if you don’t send a message.
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Guest
Sep 19, 2026 10:26
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🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I occasionally meet women through reverse offers on PATOLO.
So far, I’m at about one win and nine losses. A few days ago, someone who was practically a monster showed up, but I did my best to keep the conversation lively for an hour and a half before we parted ways.
Yesterday was my fifth date with a B1 girl who’s basically an A-type, and we made it as far as kissing and seeing her bare breasts. I’m having way too much fun.
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Guest
Sep 19, 2026 07:39
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
PATOLO does have a messaging feature, but I wouldn’t get your hopes up too much.
Whether it leads to an offer is probably no different from the “You look lovely” messages on Universe Club.
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Guest
Sep 20, 2026 11:41
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
With PATOLO, I believe you can message them directly, so think about how to get a response and then send your message.
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Guest
Sep 19, 2026 07:38
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アンディ
Male
Send a reverse offer to this responder
オファー減って申し訳ないですが、顔合わせは続けます。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you’re using Pato, why not try sending him a really thoughtful message?
I’ve heard that few men are moved to act by messages from women, but if there’s even a chance, it’s worth giving it a shot!
Hopefully it works out for you. Just something to consider.
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Guest
Sep 19, 2026 07:38
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If you’re using Patolo, I think you should submit a reverse offer.
https://www.patolo.jp/portal/ja/kb/articles/reverseoffermen
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Guest
Sep 19, 2026 07:39
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