(I previously asked about curfews as well. Thank you to everyone who answered!)
If I found someone I was compatible with, I would consider an adult relationship (intimate), but I do have a concern…
I've never finished.
I have very little experience to begin with, but whether I do it myself or someone else does it for me, I can't finish—either externally or internally…
It does feel good, and sometimes I wonder if I'm getting close, but I don't know what the actual sensation of finishing is supposed to feel like 💦
Men are happier when a woman finishes, right?
Would it still be possible for me to do this in my current situation…?
> Men are generally happier when a woman orgasms, right?
> I don’t really care either way.
> In fact, I find it more interesting when she has difficulty climaxing at first and gradually changes over time.
> I haven’t been going lately, but I’ve also taken girls who had trouble climaxing with me to a swingers’ club and had someone else help them climax. Of course, it was because they wanted to. They said they wanted to experience what it felt like to orgasm at least once. She was squirting and twitching all over.
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> My 기준 for continuing an arrangement is whether I can enjoy ejaculating myself, so it isn’t about whether the woman can climax easily. Over the past few years, I’ve come to think that saying “It’s no fun if she doesn’t orgasm” is just narrow-minded on a man’s part.
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> Also, I want to make one thing clear to the person who asked the question: What you should be worried about is whether you’ll receive offers in the first place. Whether your partner is satisfied during sex is something that affects whether the arrangement can continue. There’s a saying: “Don’t count your chickens before they hatch.” If you get dropped because you have trouble climaxing, it’s better to think that the man simply had a narrow mind.
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> The girl I’m meeting for lunch today is also someone who climaxes vaginally more than 20 times during the 10 or 15 minutes it takes me to ejaculate—not every single time, but often. Of course, there are men, or penises, that can’t make her climax, but it’s not as if she only climaxes repeatedly with me, so it doesn’t feel particularly special. That’s all I mean.
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> Still, it’s kind of like watching fireworks—quite a spectacle.
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> Here’s a haiku:
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> A woman who climaxes with ease—
> Like fireworks in the night:
> Beautiful, yet fleeting.
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In my experience, about 80% of women in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) fake their orgasms.
Why? Because a lot of fantasy-driven men don’t have much experience with ordinary women, so they’re catering to that demand. In their fantasy world, fake orgasms don’t get found out, so it’s all good.
Sometimes I can barely keep from laughing at the orgasm acting. Normal women don’t come like they do in porn.
When you want him to stop the fingering already, that’s when you deploy the fake orgasm.
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Whether she finishes or not isn’t the main issue; I think what matters more is whether she shows any reaction.
So when a woman just lies there without reacting at all—the “dead fish” type—I think whether a man wants to see her again ends up depending on fairly strict criteria, like her personality and whether the conversation is enjoyable.
That’s because there are women who are responsive, kind, and fun to talk to.
So, rather than whether she finishes, I think what matters is whether she responds.
> Men are happier when the woman finishes too, right?
I’d say that’s true to some extent, but it’s not something you need to worry about too much.
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I can’t feel anything in my nipples either, and it’s honestly frustrating. Even when a girl works hard at licking them, it doesn’t feel good at all—about the same as having my arm licked.
I don’t think not being able to finish during sex is necessarily a problem, but it is sad when you can’t even get there on your own. I get the impression that quite a lot of people who can’t finish naturally can do so within a few minutes when they use toys.
There’s no question that not being able to finish is a disadvantage in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). So in that case, maybe you should switch tactics: give really passionate Koiking kisses, shower together and cheerfully wash her body every time (including afterward), become a master of oral sex—in other words, if you perfect your “offensive moves,” I think you’ll be incredibly popular in papa-katsu too.
Time to change strategies☆
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Is this a troll post?
If you genuinely feel the financial need, then I think it would be fine to sign up. Otherwise, judging from your wording, it could turn into feeling obligated to have sex, so I wouldn’t really recommend it. If you’re unsure, I think it’s also perfectly valid to choose a way of life that makes your own life shine.
You’re still young, so there’s every possibility of building a fulfilling, satisfying life on your own.
> Men are happier when the woman orgasms too, right?
Of course they are.
> Do you think I could do it even in my current condition…?
You don’t have to do it yet…
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You should be able to register. If a woman receives offers, what happens afterward is of little concern to the club.
Men vary, too. Some can’t see through a woman’s act, while others can.
If I were a woman, I’d casually ask about his relationship history during the first dinner.
If he’s never been married and has only ever had sex with professionals, there’s a good chance he’ll be poor at foreplay and unlikely to see through a woman’s performance. Just put on a convincing act and get him hooked on you.
If you put on a poor performance with an experienced, skilled man, there’s no way the arrangement will continue. With that kind of man, a woman doesn’t need to force herself to climax; he might even become determined to make it happen.
Personally, I think an adult relationship is an adult’s game, so experienced women need to engage in a certain amount of give-and-take.
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Compared with my first Fuu, this married woman in her late 30s, who had been doing papa-katsu longer than I had, was in a monthly arrangement.
She said herself:
“It feels good, but I’ve never reached climax.”
“I just can’t.”
She was a bit of a wild child and had gotten around fairly extensively, including being very active in college clubs. (Women’s conversations can be unbelievably explicit.) She’d had a generous (well-paying) papa since her 20s and had continued papa-katsu even after getting married, so she’d had a lot of experience. She has a husband and two children, and has given birth—but apparently, some people still just can’t reach climax.
She says, “It feels really good, so don’t worry about it.”
In private, she gives off major girlfriend vibes. She’s incredibly tight, has a lot to offer, looks amazing when she’s enjoying herself, and is very devoted. No wonder a generous papa would get hooked.
Everything about her is better than my woman in her 20s on a monthly arrangement. The only things she loses on are youthful looks and skin firmness. Overall, she more than makes up for the age difference.
Conclusion:
Even if you can’t reach climax, it’s fine as long as you genuinely enjoy sex and it feels good.
What matters to Fuu is making a real effort, being devoted, and showing that you’re willing to accept your partner.
On the other hand, I’m sure there are papas who find that kind of innocent, inexperienced vibe appealing.
If you’re really a woman, I’m waiting for your reverse offer to Fuu, haha. Fuu would definitely be into it.
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You’re the person who asked a question before, right?
You still haven’t gone to the interview? Rather than posting here, you should take action first.
Give it a try, then come back and ask again.
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This is a dating club, isn’t it? Aren’t you mistaking it for a sex service establishment?
A dating club is a place where you meet all kinds of people and can pursue different types of relationships.
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