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Sep 9, 2026 22:08
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I live with my parents and have a 11 p.m. curfew. Would I still be able to participate under those circumstances?
Overnight stays are okay as long as they’re arranged in advance.
Please assume that it takes about an hour to get from central Tokyo to my home.
Thank you in advance 🙇♀️
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🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Having days when you can meet during the day (around lunchtime) should be enough.
For evenings, if you tell the staff and clearly note something like, “I’d like to be finished by 10 p.m. in Tokyo because I have a curfew,” a papa (a male supporter) will probably make an offer for a date that fits within that time.
For a first meeting, the club’s rules limit it to four hours, so ask the papa to arrange something like 6–10 p.m. or 5–9 p.m.
As an aside, please be extremely careful not to let your live-in parents find out.
One of Fuu’s regulars, who was really wonderful, was suspected by her parents when she suddenly seemed to have more money. Her parents looked through her phone without permission, and she had to stop papa-katsu and end things with him.
(She was working and living with her parents.)
She was the most refined-looking woman I’d ever met, sexy, and absolutely amazing. After we finished the second round, she asked me if I wanted to go again. When she got excited, she was an incredible kisser—she covered my mouth so much during the moment that I could hardly breathe. Maybe it was because she worked out and had great stamina… Anyway, they’re all good memories.
Since you’re doing it anyway, be careful not to get caught so you can enjoy yourself, save up quickly, and move out on your own. lol
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オファー減って申し訳ないですが、顔合わせは続けます。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
There’s absolutely no issue with your availability—there’s also demand for daytime or early-evening meetings.
If you’re within an hour of central Tokyo, there are plenty of male members. The next step is simply to take action and go in for an interview.
I hope you have a wonderful encounter.
Just for your reference.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
You can absolutely sign up, and there’s definitely demand for you. Some girls can only meet during the day, while others can only meet late at night.
It’s not about what time of day you meet. What matters is whether you click in conversation and physically.
By the way, Shin Hibiya, why did you use two exclamation marks? I found myself wondering, “What was he reacting to besides the chin?” lol
I’m the opposite of Mac—I actually sent a girl home last night when she said she wanted to stay over. It was raining, but the trains were still running and it was early enough for her to get home safely. I just saw that she messaged me saying, “I’m lonely.”
There’s a world of difference between a girl who wants to stay over and a girl like in Mac’s case, who really needed to go home but lied to her parents that she was staying at a friend’s place so she could spend the night. Thinking about it, I guess I might just be a total mess for worrying so much about the situation even though both involve staying over, lol.
Same with the question before this one. Older guys are basically all emotionally needy, aren’t they? Some may act like they have it all together, but deep down, they’re all lonely.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> My curfew is 11 p.m.
That’s perfectly fine.
We’ve had women register with curfews around that time before, and they dated normally. If a man is genuinely interested in meeting you, he’ll work around your 11 p.m. curfew.
Some women have been hurt when men said things like, “You really have a curfew that early? That can’t be true.” But there aren’t many men like that, so as long as you can cut them off quickly, I think you’ll be fine. In fact, you probably won’t run into many of them in the first place.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If you’re still unsure, it’s perfectly fine to wait until you’ve made up your mind before joining.
🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。
最近、筋トレにて、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を目指しています。現在、意図しない増量期です。
スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
You can do it!!
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think it’s possible.