I’d happily date someone in their 50s! lol
But simply looking younger probably isn’t enough to keep things going… Just like men, you need to have a clean, well-groomed appearance and maintain a youthful figure—even when your clothes come off. And when it comes to conversation, do you do anything to keep things interesting and have plenty to talk about? Without that overall appeal, I think it would be difficult to continue.
My monthly partner, who’s in her late 50s, is already in her third year. She’s active and youthful in her everyday life, and we laugh and say, “It’s a competition to see how long we can both keep being intimate!” Rather than just hoping for a little longer, I hope we can continue enjoying this for many years to come.
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“I’m often told I look younger than my age.”
↑ This is such a painfully lame phrase that it’s practically become an internet meme.
There are plenty of college girls with flawless skin, too. There’s definitely demand from men who are tired of college girls, so compete on a different playing field by highlighting the appeal that comes with your age.
There will always be men who take the bait if you write something like, “I’m lonely because things have been quiet with my husband…”
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You may be able to register, so it might be worth going through the interview.
That said, the reality is that you’ll probably receive very few offers.
Personally, I think people in their 40s are about the oldest I’d still consider spending money on for an adult relationship through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone in their 50s doing it.
If you don’t set an age limit, there may be demand from men over 80—men that women in their 20s would turn down…
If your main goal is to enjoy yourself as a woman with someone around your age or younger, rather than to make money, you might have better luck looking for someone through married-people dating apps, mixers for married people, matching apps, or drinking groups.
Fuu organizes drinking communities, and everyone is pretty active. Since there are lots of men, a well-groomed woman who joins gets incredibly popular and is pursued by men nonstop.
You’ll probably be happier in a setting where you can really shine.
Here, there are just so many beautiful, fit women in their 20s and 30s that competing at 50 may be far too tough…
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Since the main target demographic of Uchu Club is people in their 20s and 30s, there may not be much demand.
That said, compared with when I joined, I do see more mature women, including women in their 50s and 60s, so it’s not entirely out of the question.
However, as Seattle-san pointed out, you should never say, “You look younger than your age.” Why? Because women in their 50s who believe they look younger than they actually do are, without exception, painfully deluded.
By all means, put your motivation—“I want to enjoy myself as a woman”—front and center!
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In their late 50s, that kind of wording may be a bit much.
Even if someone in their 50s looks young—say, like they’re in their late 40s—what benefit would there be for the man?
It doesn’t seem like she could generate much “demand.”
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I do think the bar is pretty high.
You might be able to sign up, though. When I had my profile visible on Patro, I received a message from a 50-year-old woman, but when I politely declined, she blocked me immediately.
To be honest, I can’t help wondering: why would someone doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) want to meet an older woman? I honestly don’t get it.
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Previously, the application page didn’t specify an age range—it just said “18 and over”—so I was able to apply to Universe. Now that it says ages 18–45, it’s become difficult to apply in the first place.
That said, if you go through an agency specializing in mature women, I think you should be able to register, and once you’re registered, you’ll probably receive offers.
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The Universe Club information page states that applicants must be between 18 and 45, so the question of demand is beside the point.
Personally, I wouldn’t want to meet someone who asks, “Is there any demand for me?”
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