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📅 Aug 11, 2026 16:57
I’ve fallen for someone who’s more than 30 years older than me. We were intimate once. He became distant afterward, but recently he’s started talking to me again. I was happy about that and confessed my feelings. He turned me down, but he’s still kind to me even after I told him how I feel. I’d like to understand the male psychology behind being kind to someone after rejecting them. Please help.
💬 Answer from カズ:
Being kind and dating someone are two separate things. I honestly don’t understand why they’re being treated as a package deal.
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📅 Aug 9, 2026 22:33
When I asked about the allowance over LINE, the person I’d been seeing long-term suddenly stopped contacting me. We had been messaging every day, and he was the only papa (a male supporter) I was seeing. We always met on a pay-per-meeting basis, sometimes staying overnight and sometimes meeting for the day. He had also said he wanted to take a trip together, and we’d been planning it, so I was really looking forward to it. But when I as...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I get the impression that there are quite a few men who don’t like being asked about an allowance for a trip.
That’s probably because they see the trip itself as a gift for the woman (and traveling does cost money). So when she brings up an allowance, they may feel as if they were saying, “If you accept this gift, how much allowance will you give me?” when they were simply trying to give her a present.
From the woman’s perspective, though, I think it’s less about whether it…
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📅 Aug 9, 2026 22:19
What goes through the mind of a married man with children who has a good relationship with his wife, yet still does papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), including an adult relationship (intimate)? Is he simply looking for some excitement?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
As animals, men are wired to pass on their genes, so the male body is designed to get bored with one woman after about three years.
With a new woman, our genes make us feel joy and pleasure, haha.
Fuu has written about this in columns and said the same thing in an interview for the book *Papa-Katsu Report*:
My wife was the one who cheated first, so that’s why I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), haha.
In a divorce, property is basically split 50/50. As for …
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📅 Aug 7, 2026 12:55
Am I the only one who feels that men who block you when things end are being really immature, especially in an adult relationship? I’ve met some men more than five times, enjoyed lots of meals and dates together, and yet when it came time to say goodbye, they sometimes left me on read, stopped replying, or simply blocked me. Most men don’t do that, but unless the other person has done something seriously rude, being treated that way at ...
💬 Answer from 日月新:
It seems unusual to suddenly stop seeing someone after meeting five times. Usually, people figure things out after about two meetings and then stop seeing each other. The fact that things continued for five meetings is impressive in itself. You should take pride in that.
Unless you actually confirmed that you were blocked or left on read, assuming either is just speculation. I have many women who haven’t even opened my messages for months, but I think it would be interesting…
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📅 Aug 6, 2026 10:00
I’ve been seeing a woman regularly for about a year, around three or four times a month. At first, I gave her money for an adult relationship, but lately—maybe because we’ve gotten used to each other, or because I’m getting older—I sometimes feel like I’m having an adult relationship just so I can give her money. Is it normal to start feeling this way after about a year?
💬 Answer from 福岡まさと:
I know exactly what you mean.
At first, it’s more like:
“I want to have sex with a young, attractive woman” → give her money
But over time, the balance can shift toward:
“I want to support this woman” → give her money.
As my sexual interest in her fades, I start to feel something like attachment—or even a fatherly affection—for her. Sometimes I’ll even give her the amount I would have paid for meeting up and being intimate, even when we haven’t actually met.
What each p…
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📅 Aug 5, 2026 18:08
I’d like some advice on how to handle a man who regularly invites me out for tea or a meal for about one to two hours. I’ve continued to receive an allowance when we go to a hotel, as before. Recently, though, I’ve also been getting more work from his company—fairly light duties paying around ¥100,000 a month. He’s been increasingly inviting me to join him for tea or a meal for an hour or an hour and a half during breaks in his workday....
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Are you saying that, rather than being an employee, you’re taking on work for ¥100,000 as an independent contractor or something similar?
If so, I’m not sure what things are like between work assignments, but you could either turn them down by saying something like, “I’m tied up right now,” or assume that tea and meals are included in the ¥100,000 and continue seeing them.
If you’re being invited out more than ten times a month and feel that, at ¥10,000 per meeting, you sho…
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📅 Aug 5, 2026 12:54
I’d like advice on how to deal with a man who sends me a lot of LINE messages every day. I’m currently seeing a 70-year-old man. He’s very youthful for his age and has a wonderful personality, so I’d like to continue our relationship. However, perhaps because he no longer works, he messages me extremely frequently. He reads my messages almost immediately, and it’s not unusual for him to send around three replies to a single message. I’m...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
If you can write this much in the question box, why not reply to that old man’s LINE message?
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📅 Aug 4, 2026 17:00
I’m a 29-year-old woman. I’ve really enjoyed my time with Universe and have received so much support, but I’m turning 30 soon, and I’m worried that offers might stop coming once I do. I often hear that men prefer to make offers to women in their early 20s, so does it become difficult to receive offers after entering your 30s? At the moment, I receive offers from about two or three people a month.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I occasionally get questions from women who want to receive lots of offers, but I sometimes think they’d be happier finding a good man and dating a few specific men instead.
Of course, from the standpoint of introduction fees, it’s helpful when someone stays registered with Universe for a long time. But more than that, I feel it’s better for them to have a genuinely good encounter.
> Is it difficult to receive offers once you’re in your 30s?
I think you’re generally fine u…
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📅 Aug 3, 2026 22:51
After being involved with someone for many years, have you ever come to feel that they’re truly important to you? I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) about ten years ago. I’ve met and parted ways with all kinds of people, and have seen more than 300 people in total. Among them, there are occasionally people I continue seeing regularly, with a few relationships lasting several years. And, very rarely, there’s someone among...
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
Are you a dominant too???
I honestly can’t understand what’s so enjoyable about paying women to meet you when you’re in your 20s or 30s…
It’s like catching a fish at a stocked fishing pond…
Having someone who fishes at a stocked pond lecture you about fishing…
It’s only out in the rough waves of the open sea that it really counts…
Having to meet over 300 people at a stocked pond… That practically amounts to admitting that you weren’t chosen (or were you just that despera…
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📅 Aug 3, 2026 12:59
I’d like to get a better idea of what’s expected of women in their late 20s, so I can use it as a reference when considering offers. Could you be specific about things like appearance, figure, vibe, personality, and so on?
💬 Answer from マックさん:
My main focus is women around 20, so I’m generally not very interested in women in their late 20s unless they’re virgins.
The reason is that, besides being younger, women around 20 are still in the process of developing their personalities. It’s interesting to watch them gradually grow from children into adults. Once they’re over 25, who they are as people is more or less set.
It’s like how I’m not interested in finished plastic models or figurines—I enjoy looking at the un…
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📅 Aug 2, 2026 22:56
I’m a married man in my early 40s. I’ve been seeing a woman who is seven years older than me for about five years. She’s married as well, but I’ve heard that she and her husband have been living separately for many years. We meet about twice a month on average, and usually exchange messages on LINE once to three times a week. When we meet, we have dinner and then go to a hotel. We often stay overnight, and when our schedules allow, we s...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I don’t see how someone who has never met him could possibly understand his psychology better than the person who’s been dating him for five years.
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📅 Aug 2, 2026 14:49
I met her when I was 64, when she was 22, and we’ve been together for 10 years now. While I was in my 60s, we met twice a week, and even after I turned 70, we continued seeing each other about once a week. Recently, though, I’ve been getting tired more easily, so when we meet, we often go straight to a hotel and spend our time in bed. We still have sex every time we go to a hotel. I’m now 74, and she’s 32. I’m unsure how to move forward...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
What This Text Really Is
The closest description would be a sexual boast disguised as a request for advice—a humblebrag.
The Main Psychological Motives on Display
1. Wanting to confirm that he is still sexually active
He may be trying to dispel anxiety about aging through sexual relationships with younger women.
Details such as “twice a week,” “once a week even in his seventies,” and “without fail, even now” are not particularly necessary to address his concern. They are…
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📅 Aug 2, 2026 02:35
I’d like to earn around ¥1.3 million a month. Which is more lucrative: papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) or the adult entertainment industry/delivery escort services? I want to spend as much as I like on beauty treatments, travel, and other things I enjoy!
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
If you become popular at an establishment that suits you, you could expect around 15 days of work at a high-end soapland, taking into account days with no bookings.
At a high-end delivery health service, perhaps around 20 days.
With papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), it’s hard to say, since it depends on your partner, your own appeal, and the relationship you build.
If your goal is ¥1.3 million a month, I recommend doing plenty of research yourself first and compari…
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📅 Aug 2, 2026 01:38
Hello, I’m a male member. Due to my location and schedule, I don’t often get the chance to use the service. So I always read everyone’s “after-date impressions” for reference. I have a question: - Is there any way to find out which female members have received high ratings from male members after their dates? I understand that this information probably can’t be disclosed, but I wanted to ask just in case. Thank you.
💬 Answer from ダイ:
If you’re a Platinum member or above, you can ask the club by email for feedback on women’s dates and so on.
There are women with negative feedback even if they have a five-star rating. If they have a large number of positive survey responses, though, the minority opinions tend to get outweighed.
Incidentally, there was a woman I recently made an offer to, and the club staff advised me that she might be best avoided. I liked her looks, so I decided to go ahead anyway—but un…
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📅 Jul 30, 2026 16:52
It’s been about two months since I signed up, but I still haven’t received a single offer… I don’t have many people adding me to their favorites either, so I’m wondering if it’s because I’m not attractive enough… The staff have given me advice, and I feel like I’ve been trying everything I can, but things haven’t really changed. Is it common not to receive any offers? I’d really appreciate any advice.
💬 Answer from シアトル:
I had a look.
① Would you say the biggest reason was that you were a B1? There are plenty of beautiful competitors, so I feel that A/B1 women only get offers if they’re beautiful.
② Personally, I don’t make offers to smokers.
③ You seem like a nice person with a good personality, interests, and so on. It might be a good idea to mention your favorite baseball team. Five years ago, I once made an offer solely to go to Osaka Dome together.
④ Saying in your video that it take…
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📅 Jul 30, 2026 13:09
A man I met through Universal, whom I see regularly, told me that one of his parents has passed away. He still plans to meet as usual, with no changes to our schedule, but is there anything I can do for him? Is there anything in particular that would make him happy? Would it be strange to give him some money in an envelope?
💬 Answer from 横断歩道:
If he’s a papa’s parent, he must be fairly old, right?
I don’t think you need to do anything unusual—just act as you normally would.
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📅 Jul 30, 2026 01:12
What do you do if the condom breaks during intimacy? The first time I was intimate with my papa, the condom broke. Since he had already ejaculated, I went to a gynecologist, but he never brought up covering the medical expenses. When I asked him about it, he said he only had ¥10,000 in cash and didn’t use PayPay, so he would give me ¥10,000 and pay the rest the next time we met if it wasn’t enough. The visit and medication ended up cost...
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
You must have been so shocked by the sudden mishap that your mind went completely blank 😢
I’ve had a similar experience myself. I did reflect on the fact that I hadn’t educated myself enough, but more than anything, I was honestly furious, thinking, “How can someone be so irresponsible?”
In situations like this, I really wish the man would take proper responsibility by saying things like, “Are you okay?” “Let’s go to the hospital,” or “I’ll cover the expenses.”
I’ve had a …
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📅 Jul 29, 2026 12:49
I understand that when someone re-registers, it’s noted on their profile. Is taking a leave of absence also mentioned on the profile or in the staff comments? If so, how does it come across to male members? I also have another question for the women here. I believe you can have new photos taken every six months, but do most people regularly update their photos? Or do most simply continue without having new ones taken? Does having multip...
💬 Answer from カズ:
As far as I know, you can’t suspend your membership for very long, and it probably won’t be listed.
If you stop looking for someone over an extended period, you’ll need to withdraw once. To resume afterward, you’ll have to register again. Re-registration is listed on your profile. Personally, I don’t have a bad impression of women who re-register.
Like Yokudō-san, I think the ratio is about half and half between women who have had new photos taken and those who haven’t. Wom…
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📅 Jul 29, 2026 08:06
Does Universe have any female members registered in Miyazaki or Kagoshima?
💬 Answer from カズ:
Since they won’t pressure you into signing up, I think it’s best to request a consultation with a staff member and ask them directly.
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📅 Jul 28, 2026 06:30
I’m a male member living in the Kinki region. I believe the allowance varies depending on the woman, the papa’s financial means, and other factors. Since income levels and other conditions differ by region, I also assume that the going rate varies from one area to another. Recently, I discussed allowances with a female member. Her argument was as follows: 1. Looking at the “Anonymous Papa-Katsu Q&A Box,” there are many posts mentioning ...
💬 Answer from 日月新:
I live in the Kinki region.
The word “going rate” is a difficult one, isn’t it? Especially since it often sounds like a reason, but really isn’t one. People tend to make broad claims about “what’s normal in society” or “the standard in the community,” but it simply means the amount that person considers reasonable.
They’re only saying it because they personally think ¥100,000 is fair.
In my case, dinner is a fixed ¥10,000. If things continue beyond that, I’d say ¥30,000–¥5…