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📅 May 13, 2026 13:43
I’m in my mid-30s and my overall “specs” are just over 110. I don’t have a nightlife-industry look at all—I have more of a regular day-job appearance. My biggest concern is my age, but is it still possible that I might receive offers?
💬 Answer from マックさん:
Personally, I’ve only ever made offers to women in their 30s or 40s a couple of times—both were women who answered questions on this site. But a friend of mine was really into women in that age range for a while, and his only criterion was “as sexy as possible.”
I’ve met one of those women, and she has exactly what you’d call a “professional working-woman” look.
So as a strategy, maybe it would be good to have that kind of professional look while filling your profile with a…
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📅 May 12, 2026 12:57
What traits are popular among women these days? - Age - Appearance (refined, idol-like, youthful-looking, etc.) - Personality (affectionate, sincere, cheerful, easygoing, etc.) When it comes to appearance, I’m also curious whether men generally prefer women with the polished, surgically enhanced look often seen in the nightlife industry, or a more natural, everyday look with little or nothing done.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Looking at the women who received the most offers last month, one stood out: she was a teenager with a natural, girl-next-door look, the kind of petite, slim build—just over 40 kg—that you might have seen in a girl group from years ago, and an F-cup figure.
Some people even wrote in their post-date feedback, “I was amazed by how good her figure was!”
However, much of the feedback after meeting her wasn’t particularly positive.
It seems to follow the usual pattern:
Looks a…
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📅 May 12, 2026 11:57
About Being Late I got the time wrong for dinner with someone I was meeting for the second time and ended up being 30 minutes late. I called and messaged him as soon as I realized, but he seemed really disappointed. Is there any chance I can turn things around? I’ve been doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for over five years, and this is the first time I’ve ever been late. I completely misunderstood the time, and I feel trul...
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
How your partner takes it will probably depend a lot on whether you realized your mistake before or after the agreed-upon time.
That said, if this was your first time being late in over five years of doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and you called and contacted them as soon as you noticed, I think your sincerity probably came through.
Of course, being late isn’t ideal, but we’re all human, and misunderstandings and mistakes happen. What matters is how you han…
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📅 May 11, 2026 13:10
Have you ever become so deeply involved with someone that it nearly ruined your life? What made them different from everyone else? What kind of relationship did you have, and how did it ultimately end? I’m asking because I’d love to hear about a world that makes you think, “I didn’t know something like that existed!”
💬 Answer from フラグメーカー:
I’ve had two times in this scene where I just completely broke down crying.
It was kind of around saying goodbye, I guess. I didn’t actually say anything clearly—the tears just came first.
And no, it wasn’t just me. The woman I was with cried too.
I remember trying to take off her panties while crying, and her saying, “That’s not what this is about.”
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📅 May 10, 2026 19:43
I’d like to bring some food for my papa (a male supporter), who I’ve met a few times and who always takes me out for delicious meals. Would that be okay? I think homemade food might make him nervous, so I was thinking of buying some prepared dishes or a bento and eating it together at the hotel… Should I ask him beforehand?
💬 Answer from アンディ:
Ask the papa (a male supporter) right away whether it’s okay! There’s no harm in asking. He’ll probably appreciate your thoughtfulness, but he may have already made a reservation at a restaurant or somewhere else for your meeting. So it’s definitely best to check with him in advance.
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📅 May 9, 2026 00:54
You really can’t know without meeting someone, but if I wanted to gauge from a woman’s profile or the club’s introduction whether she’s open to intimacy, what should I pay attention to? I understand that with Relationship Types C and D, things may progress depending on the chemistry. However, in a deeper relationship, I’m looking for something more ongoing and mutually enthusiastic—meeting more than twice, for example—and I haven’t been...
💬 Answer from フラグメーカー:
Aren’t you misunderstanding what an escort club is?
That isn’t a service the club provides.
It’s the man’s job to make the woman want a second time.
Start by learning what you can to make that happen. Once you do, you’ll probably realize, “Oh, that’s not the kind of sex I’m looking for.”
Once you understand that, you’ll likely think, “If it’s through an escort club, once is probably enough.”
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📅 May 7, 2026 22:21
I’ve heard of people receiving money from seniors in their 60s to 80s through papa-katsu (sometimes called jiji-katsu). In these cases, is there usually an adult relationship (intimate)? I imagine they may not have much stamina at that age, but what is it actually like?
💬 Answer from シアトル:
You can keep doing it into your 70s. I think getting someone to pay a large amount for dinner only (no intimacy) takes more skill and is harder.
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📅 May 6, 2026 14:30
I really like how the Universe Lounge system works. Are there any other places that offer something similar? I’m wary of places that are too open to the public, like aiseki bars. I also occasionally get invited to members-only parties, but do you have to be exceptionally beautiful to attend?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Ginza’s Universe Lounge was really good, wasn’t it? It’s a shame it closed.
Universe Club does have its highest-tier “Salon,” but it’s an elite system where only exceptionally beautiful women with good personalities are selected.
Yozakura, I see—you mean aiseki bars. I’ve heard they’ve become less popular and the number of locations has decreased. There are also rumors that dating apps are taking their place. I’ve never been, though, so I wouldn’t really know.
I looked it …
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📅 May 2, 2026 14:51
I’d love to hear from the answerers about how to spot a good papa (a male supporter)—whether it’s possible to tell from the messages or over tea at the first meeting. I think it’s wonderful how thoughtfully everyone here considers the girls they support. In my experience, though, there are so many men who try to get the best of everything while offering only a small allowance, and I often end up feeling hurt.
💬 Answer from フラグメーカー:
Even though I’m spending money on the offer fee, allowance, and other expenses, there are hardly any women who make me think, “I’d like to keep seeing her.”
I end up feeling depressed on the way home from these dates.
The information you get beforehand is basically useless. Every time feels like a gamble, just trying your luck.
Please tell me how to spot the good ones in advance 🙏
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📅 May 1, 2026 22:48
I’m a female member. I believe female members are divided into different classes, but are we able to find out which class we’re in? I’ve done some work in the entertainment industry and have even ranked among the top hostesses at a cabaret club. However, I haven’t received any invitations from male members at all. I’m worried that perhaps I’ve been placed in a lower class and am not getting noticed. If anyone knows, I’d really appreciat...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I’m not looking for someone in the adult entertainment or nightlife industry—I want to date ordinary college students or office workers.
There are a lot of papas (male supporters), so this is purely speculation since I haven’t seen your profile, but if you’re not receiving any offers, could it be because your profile prominently mentions things like having worked in show business or being a top-ranked hostess at a cabaret club, making people assume you’d be expensive?
I’m i…
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📅 May 1, 2026 16:23
How should I handle a papa who tries to hold my hand or kiss me during the first meeting or our second dinner? It’s not like my allowance goes up when he does that, and he asks me to do it while we’re eating out or in front of the station, so I really don’t want to.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Even Fujiko Mine says:
“A truly good woman is one who can protect herself.”
So I think it’s perfectly fine to gently say, “L-a-t-e-r…♡” while giving his hand a little pinch.
She also says:
“A strong woman isn’t one who uses strong words. That’s just a harsh woman. A strong woman is one who doesn’t give up.”
You’ve got this.
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📅 Apr 30, 2026 13:30
I’m thinking about going for an interview at Universe Club, but I’m overweight and lack confidence. I’m considering losing weight before applying for hostess positions and interviewing at Universe Club. So my question is: Is there more demand for slimmer women? Would losing weight first improve my chances of being accepted? Please let me know.
💬 Answer from フラグメーカー:
Just come as you are. Someone will make you an offer.
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📅 Apr 29, 2026 17:38
It was my first time having an adult relationship (intimate), and he asked, “Is it okay if we go without a condom since I’ll pull out?” I couldn’t understand why not using a condom was even an option, so I told him I’d leave if he didn’t put one on, and he agreed. Is going without a condom actually pretty common? When he gave me my allowance, he also said, “I would’ve added another bill if we hadn’t used a condom…”
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
Using protection is basic etiquette, and I believe it’s also very important for protecting yourself. So I think you made the right call by clearly saying, “If you won’t use one, I’m leaving.”
Unfortunately, “It’s fine because I’ll pull out” isn’t a genuinely safe precaution, and it’s hard to relax when you’re feeling anxious. You shouldn’t have to go along with anything when you don’t feel safe or comfortable.
I’ve been in a similar situation myself. At the time, I said som…
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📅 Apr 29, 2026 15:45
Is it normal to feel that someone is being stingy when the allowance is the same even though the meeting lasts way too long? Regarding the idea that the richer someone is, the stingier they are: Sure, they may spend a lot overall on meals, hotels, and so on, but from the woman’s perspective, it often takes up a considerable amount of time, while the allowance is still just the going rate. In my experience, many of them prioritize gettin...
💬 Answer from 横断歩道:
That’s because you’re looking at it as 100% work.
I often go on driving dates, but I discuss the destination with the woman. She can listen to music or watch YouTube in the passenger seat, and she’s welcome to sleep on the way back.
Women who love driving tell me it’s the best because they can get paid just for going on a drive.
(I don’t stay overnight, and I do increase the allowance depending on how long we’re together. Still, I realize that, to women who prioritize time…
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📅 Apr 28, 2026 22:17
I’ve been invited to Universe Club’s club-selection party. Apparently it’s a seated event at a venue with entertainment areas. What kind of outfit do you think would be best? I have long black hair—would a white shirt with bottoms be poorly received? Or would a classic dress and heels be better...?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
If you have long black hair, and a white shirt with a nice pair of bottoms suits you, that works too.
For Fuu, though:
If you have a cute, youthful-looking face, a GRL dress.
If you have elegant, more mature features, a Darich dress.
Personally, I’ve been into Darich lately.
Once you’re undressed, DRW lingerie.
Ideally a thong or string panties ^_^
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📅 Apr 28, 2026 22:08
The photos are absolutely awful. I understand that the photographer’s skill can vary somewhat from person to person, and I know I’m not exactly blessed in the looks department. But using a photo of me mid-conversation during the shoot is just unacceptable. I’m self-conscious about my gummy smile, yet they chose a photo where I’m laughing with my mouth wide open. They’re truly the worst. Do I really have to wait six months before I can h...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Apparently, there’s a trick that lets you have your photos retaken after three months.
Night Sakura told me about this. It seems an automatic survey is sent out during your third month. One of the questions apparently asks whether you want your photos retaken, so first, select “Yes, I would like a retake.”
However, you probably still won’t hear anything afterward. That’s because none of the staff actually look at the survey.
The survey responses are still on record, though…
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📅 Apr 28, 2026 20:31
I’m registered as Type A. To be honest, I’m not confident about my looks, and I still don’t understand why I was accepted as Type A. I’m guessing it may be because I’m 18. At my interview, I was told that it’s important for Type A members to actively send ♡, but I still haven’t received any offers. I do have one letter date ongoing, but the man seems to be participating mostly out of curiosity. From a man’s perspective, what kind of mes...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Unfortunately, with Plan A, you generally won’t receive any offers unless you’re exceptionally beautiful or have something truly remarkable going for you.
Of course, a papa might make an offer simply because you happen to have the look he likes, but I think it’s best to assume that offers usually won’t come.
> From a man’s perspective, what kind of message would make him interested?
Something unexpected, like having an unusual preference (for example, “Why would someone on…
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📅 Apr 28, 2026 09:33
I have four regular papas. I see one once a month, another twice a month, and another once a week, so I go on hotel dates up to eight times a month. I also have a boyfriend. I enjoy being intimate with both him and my papas. I’ve always been naturally very lubricated, but recently I haven’t been able to get wet at all. I used to get very wet with both my boyfriend and my papas, so I’m not sure what’s changed… Lately, I’ve been using lub...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
Politely tell him that the foreplay is too long and ask him to keep it shorter. It’s harder for a papa (a male supporter) when you just endure it without saying anything.
Even so, you should cut off the one with the longest foreplay first. Sex puts a strain on your mucous membranes, so there are limits. If you’re seeing a lot of people, you’ll end up passing something on to your boyfriend.
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📅 Apr 28, 2026 01:11
Are there wealthy men who spend money on women, and wealthy men who don’t? After reading some of the questions here, I was moved by how generously some wealthy women are treated, but at the same time, I felt pretty discouraged by the gap between them and me, so I wanted to ask. I joined UC when I was 18, and it’s been about ten years now. I feel like I’ve met quite a few men who were probably wealthy. I asked a question here before, but...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
If her schedule is fully booked every day, she’s probably above average. Is she making a living through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
If she seems to have a lot of men around, you’ll be treated accordingly. Unless you can make a wealthy papa (a male supporter) genuinely fall for you, you won’t be able to bring in the big money.
If her schedule is packed every day, a papa may back off, assuming she has other men. You may need to be selective about which papas you…
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📅 Apr 27, 2026 14:08
It seems like there have been more female members in the Premium Black tier lately. Is this part of the company’s policy? Personally, I can see the benefits in having attractive female members and increasing revenue for the company, but I also wonder whether it’s difficult to determine from an interview alone whether someone qualifies for Premium Black. Also, is there any possibility of creating a plan above Black for male members in th...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I don’t know what the person asking the question is implying, but have Platinum and Black members suddenly increased? That’s just your impression.
As Mr. Maezawa has said, the company’s policies haven’t really changed. Didn’t you know there’s a salon above Black? Does that mean you might not even be a member?
Is there any alternative to interviews?
It’s not based on looks alone. Maybe in 5–10 years, as AI advances, it’ll be possible to make decisions by taking everything i…