I’d like to bring some food for my papa (a male supporter), who I’ve met a few times and who always takes me out for delicious meals. Would that be okay?
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I think homemade food might make him nervous, so I was thinking of buying some prepared dishes or a bento and eating it together at the hotel… Should I ask him beforehand?
Ask the papa (a male supporter) right away whether it’s okay! There’s no harm in asking. He’ll probably appreciate your thoughtfulness, but he may have already made a reservation at a restaurant or somewhere else for your meeting. So it’s definitely best to check with him in advance.
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I think you should do whatever feels right, but if I had to answer…
The papa may already have a dinner plan in mind, so personally, I’d appreciate being told in advance.
Something like, “You’re always taking me out to dinner, so I’ll plan our next outing” would make me happy.
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The reason you thought to ask whether it was okay is that you realized yourself it might not be.
As you thought, I think you should talk to the other person about it.
Personally, I really dislike people imposing things on me under the guise of “doing something nice” or “surprising” me.
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So sweet—I’d totally fall for you.
Some people aren’t comfortable with homemade food, so ask him first. If he’s a decent papa (a male supporter), I’m sure he’d be thrilled.
Personally, I like buying deli food or bento boxes and eating them in the room.
The other day, when I stayed in a love hotel VIP room with a private open-air bath, we brought in snacks, wine, beer, and other drinks from Don Quijote and had a great time. We even lined the drinks up along the edge of the outdoor bath ^_^
We actually wanted to enjoy plenty of adult relationship time (including things like standing), but we both got drunk and fell asleep. So we did have a little morning activity before he left for work.
Either way, it sounds more fun if you talk to your papa and prepare everything together, so I think you should ask him.
I’m jealous of that papa!
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Homemade is definitely appreciated—very much…
You can tell him beforehand, but keeping it a surprise makes it even more exciting and appreciated!!
If it’s something store-bought, I think it’s fine either way—whether you give him one or not.
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