Tips May 7, 2026 22:21

I’ve heard of people receiving money from seniors in their 60s to 80s through papa-katsu (sometimes called jiji-katsu). In these cases, is there usually an adult relationship (intimate)?

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I imagine they may not have much stamina at that age, but what is it actually like?
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I entered a prompt into Gemini. According to various surveys available online: Statistically, the percentage of people who have had sex within the past year is roughly half among those in their 60s, one in three or four among those in their 70s, and one in ten among those in their 80s. Some wealthy papa (male supporters) in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) have the financial means to use all kinds of enhancements. There are also highly health-conscious men like Fuu, who work out and aim to stay active for life. So I think it’s fair to assume that many men in their 60s to 80s who do papa-katsu are doing it for sex.
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前澤(スタッフ)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
People in their 60s and 80s are completely different, so you shouldn’t lump them together. People in their 60s are still quite energetic. If someone is concerned about their stamina, I don’t think they’d be doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) in the first place. By their 70s, some are still energetic, but there are also more people who are satisfied as long as they can reach release, even without penetration. Once they’re in their 80s, the number of energetic people tends to decline, so I feel like more of them are likely to prefer no adult relationship (intimate). That said, some people remain sexually active for life, while others are simply happy to enjoy spending time together, so this is only a general tendency. Whether an adult relationship (intimate) is involved ultimately depends on the person. However, if you specifically look for someone in their 80s or older, there’s a greater chance it won’t lead to an adult relationship (intimate).
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
You can keep doing it into your 70s. I think getting someone to pay a large amount for dinner only (no intimacy) takes more skill and is harder.
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マルケス
クラブ活動歴だけは30年以上と長いです。交際クラブの世界観は結構好きで楽しんでいます。60代後半になって大分以前とは活動内容が変わって来ていますが、まあ、楽しめる間は楽しもうと思っています。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m in my late 60s now, but thankfully, there are still plenty of women willing to see me. I’m not really comfortable with women who openly make it all about the money from the start, so I usually don’t pursue things further. In my experience, only about three out of ten women are someone I can continue seeing for a while. Of course, I make sure their financial needs are properly met as we continue seeing each other. In terms of personality, I seem to encounter a lot of women who are the bodhisattva type—those with an aura that embraces all men—the masochist type (“I’m being held by an old man like this?!”), and the father-complex type, quite literally. Men are all different, and women are all different too. Basically, I’m always sincerely grateful that such beautiful women are willing to be intimate with an old man like me. And I feel that the women who stay with a man for a long time have some sense of gratitude toward him as well. People who don’t understand this feeling may never truly understand what makes dating clubs so appealing.
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50半ばのオッサン
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🏅 特に無し
ライトにやっています お互いのフィーリング重視です
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m still in my 50s, and with the good meds available these days, I think you should assume it’s definitely possible as long as you haven’t mentally retired. Personally, if someone thought, “He’s an old guy, so he probably can’t,” I’d feel like proving them wrong and giving them a surprise, haha.
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迷わない70代
パパ活歴11年目、回答者歴8年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中(笑)
Age: 70 or older 👨 Male Former Universe member
I’m in great shape—I can still cycle all the way from Kansai to Tokyo 🚴‍♂️ And I’m so energetic every morning that it’s almost a problem over there too lol 👍
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
When I turn 80, I think I’ll retire from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and start going to soaplands.
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