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May 6, 2026 14:30
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I’m wary of places that are too open to the public, like aiseki bars.
I also occasionally get invited to members-only parties, but do you have to be exceptionally beautiful to attend?
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Ginza’s Universe Lounge was really good, wasn’t it? It’s a shame it closed.
Universe Club does have its highest-tier “Salon,” but it’s an elite system where only exceptionally beautiful women with good personalities are selected.
Yozakura, I see—you mean aiseki bars. I’ve heard they’ve become less popular and the number of locations has decreased. There are also rumors that dating apps are taking their place. I’ve never been, though, so I wouldn’t really know.
I looked it up online, and apparently there are places called The Single that operate like aiseki bars but pair people one-on-one.
If the person asking is being invited to Club events, I think you should be fine. I don’t think they invite people unless they meet a certain standard, so maybe you should try attending an event sometime.
Fuu has been to lounge events too, and they were fun. It helps that the women are proactive.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I only went to Universe Lounge once, but I think the location was a mistake. I kept thinking they should’ve chosen Ebisu instead.
Ginza—or rather, Shimbashi, lol—has terrible access to the love hotels, so it’s not easy to take someone home on a whim.
Ebisu may not have quite the same brand recognition as Ginza, but it’s still considered an upscale area in Tokyo, and the route to the love hotels is perfect.
マルケス
Male
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クラブ活動歴だけは30年以上と長いです。交際クラブの世界観は結構好きで楽しんでいます。60代後半になって大分以前とは活動内容が変わって来ていますが、まあ、楽しめる間は楽しもうと思っています。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve been to lounges about three times and took two women home, but in the end, we only had dinner.
Both of them seemed interested in taking things further, but booking a hotel before going to the lounge felt awkward, booking one during dinner felt awkward too, and wandering around Ginza looking for a love hotel wasn’t ideal either. The location itself was another issue.
Still, there were plenty of positives: I could have a drink and chat with beautiful, non-professional women (at least they weren’t hostesses), kill some time, enjoy a nicer atmosphere, and spend less than I would at a club—even after choosing the option to take someone home.
So maybe the concept and pricing system would work better if it were designed as a relaxed place where you could exchange contact information with women you liked (for a fee), enjoy drinks and conversation that day in a club-like setting, and leave something to look forward to next time. I’ve never been, but perhaps something like a venue that’s always hosting party events—like a Ginza club where something more could potentially happen later.
Thinking about it this way, I have to say that the dating-club system really is quite well designed.
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve heard that something like that is held irregularly in Roppongi.
But it’s not open to the public—it’s more of an invitation-only thing.
You’d probably need to be connected with a female PJ attendant or someone similar.
アンディ
Male
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顔合わせの刺激が好きすぎてオファー続けてます。町中華をこよなく愛してます。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I attended something like a party last year. The venue was nice, and I had a great time. We may even have passed each other without realizing it, Fuu.
It seems Universe no longer hosts them, so maybe you’re thinking of waiting around in person and looking for a good deal?
I haven’t used it myself, but there’s apparently a place called Single, kind of like a bar where people go to meet others. Why not give that a try?
If Universe holds another event, let’s definitely go. I’d love to join and have fun too if I get a notification.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
If you’re occasionally invited to members-only parties, then I think you could go.
However, if you’re asking whether things will work out after attending, I’ve heard women say that people who excel in one-on-one situations may not be able to perform as well in a party setting.
Ultimately, I think it depends on your personal style.