Unfortunately, with Plan A, you generally won’t receive any offers unless you’re exceptionally beautiful or have something truly remarkable going for you.
Of course, a papa might make an offer simply because you happen to have the look he likes, but I think it’s best to assume that offers usually won’t come.
> From a man’s perspective, what kind of message would make him interested?
Something unexpected, like having an unusual preference (for example, “Why would someone on Plan A write about that? She sounds interesting”), or saying, “I’m actually a virgin, which is why I chose Plan A.” A papa might think, “If she’s a virgin, maybe we could take our time getting to know each other, and become closer after about six months.”
If you write something unexpected that piques his curiosity, he may think, “I’ll invite her out to dinner and see what she’s like.”
By the way, why did you choose Plan A?
With Plan A, you won’t have an adult relationship (intimate), no matter how long you’ve been seeing someone. So, realistically, a man may think, “She wants money just for dinner… I’m not really interested in that kind of person.”
If it were Plan B1, he might think, “Dinner sounds good, and if we become close and there’s a possibility of an adult relationship (intimate), a dinner date could be worthwhile. I’ll try to build a connection over dinner so we can develop that kind of relationship in about a month.”
First, why not consider how you would feel if you were the man?
I really like Type A women, so I sometimes make them offers. However, only a small number become ongoing arrangements. I currently have just two Type A regulars.
Looks are important too, but it’s extremely rare to find a Type A woman who can make me feel like I’m genuinely having fun just being together. Most of them seem to have chosen Type A simply because they don’t want an adult relationship.
Incidentally, both of my Type A regulars have boyfriends, but they often come stay over. We’ve never even held hands, let alone kissed, but I don’t want to change this precious relationship either. They’re the kind of women who make me feel that things are perfectly fine just as they are.
I’m replying in the hope that my experience might bring back some fond memories or be useful to you. You’re 18 and registered as Type A, the same age as the woman who was probably the only Type A offer I made during the second year of my 10-year involvement.
At the time, I was seeing more than 10 women in adult relationships (intimate). She was still only 18 and had the kind of looks that suggested she would become even more beautiful in the future. What particularly drew me to her was that she planned to become a flight attendant after graduating from university.
It was the age when women change the most, so I wondered how she would grow and become more sophisticated, and whether she would achieve her future goals. I thought it would be nice to make an offer to at least one person I could look forward to seeing in the future, and that’s how our relationship began.
Apparently, she received quite a few offers right after registering, but they were all from men trying to turn things into an adult relationship. She had registered purely out of curiosity and wasn’t interested in an allowance, so she ended up leaving the club fairly soon by continuing her relationship with me.
We’re now in our eighth year together, still under the original Type A arrangement. We made it through the COVID years, and this year she finally became a flight attendant.
Are you asking out of curiosity, or is receiving an allowance your main priority?
I tend to see changing from Type A to another type as being aimed at getting more offers, so I wouldn’t make an offer myself.
Polish your selling points—though there’s also value in simply letting things develop naturally—and if you stay true to being Type A, I think you’ll still receive offers, even if they may be limited. Best of luck.
