I recently started doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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I’ve met two papas so far.
The first is 63, and we’ve met three times for an adult relationship (intimate), but he hasn’t been able to finish any of the three times. He loses his erection partway through. Since it takes him so long, the encounter goes on for ages, and he puts his entire body weight into it and keeps pounding away at my lower body. It’s extremely painful and has been nothing but suffering for me.
The first time, I thought maybe that was just how things were and that it might get better as we met more often. But when he broke our agreement about contraception and I asked him to use protection, he slapped me on the head twice and told me not to say things like that. He also said that was why he couldn’t finish, and then told me, “Even if I finish inside you, I won’t get you pregnant.” In the end, he lost his erection and couldn’t finish, but the same thing happened the second and third times too.
I really hate his harsh tone, the fact that he raises his hand to me, and the dirty things he asks me to do. I’m also bothered that every time we eat, we only have one meal between the two of us. I hate it when he makes me eat food he has chewed himself. It made me realize that maybe I can’t be with a papa I’m incompatible with, even if there’s an allowance involved.
The other papa is probably close to 70. Before we even met, he told me that he has trouble finishing when using contraception and asked me to help him with my hand at the end. But after satisfying me, he didn’t want penetration. He said it takes him a long time to finish, so if I was okay with it, he didn’t need penetration either. After that, we took a bath and relaxed in bed.
Since he’s only my second papa, I felt a little guilty wondering if it was really okay not to have penetration.
We spent two hours together, with about 30 minutes of intimacy and the rest spent chatting. I was amazed by how different two papas around the same age could be.
The first papa messaged me constantly, talked endlessly about himself, and was difficult to have a conversation with, so honestly, he was exhausting. The second papa only sent me a message saying, “Thank you for such a fun time. I already want to see you again. Feel free to call me anytime,” and messages me about once a day.
The first papa kept me for nearly 10 hours, while the second papa spends only two hours with me, yet they give me the same allowance. It almost makes me wonder if this is really okay.
To me, the second papa is practically ideal, and I’d like to continue seeing him for a long time.
So, do you think it’s fine to say goodbye to the first type of papa?
And as a way of returning the favor to the second papa, should I let him finish?
Also, are papas around this age genuinely satisfied even if they don’t finish? I’m curious because they pay such a generous allowance.
Sorry, but does the first person really exist? That sounds like grounds for filing a complaint with the club and banning him. I felt sick just reading it. Please take care of yourself.
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You really shouldn’t force yourself to do this, so cut ties with your first papa (a male supporter) right away. Don’t keep going—he’ll get the wrong idea.
Please take good care of your second papa. You could suggest an ED medication, starting with something mild like tadalafil (Cialis), which is prescribed by a doctor. Maybe look it up together online while you’re in his room and suggest it to him.
If the allowance is generous (well-paying), and you can help him finish, he might become really into you and the arrangement could last longer.
Good luck—I’m rooting for you!
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I’d break things off with the first person.
No matter how things got to that point or what caused it, men are satisfied as long as they can get off. With the second person, it’s a win-win for both of us.
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First of all, you should break things off with your first papa (a male supporter) immediately. I know it may be none of my business, but there’s no bright future with someone who raises a hand to you. It will inevitably lead to a serious situation. I don’t personally like blocking people, but in this case, I think it would be perfectly reasonable. Please also contact the club to prevent anyone else from being harmed.
As for your second papa, you seem to feel bad, but there’s absolutely no need to. This is just my assumption, but I think he’s already quite satisfied. That said, I recommend learning more about handjobs to make him even happier.
Personally, I find handjobs more pleasurable than sex. You can find all sorts of information online, so discuss it with your papa and enjoy yourselves. Handjobs require more skill than sex, and you can’t really make them feel good unless you have a close relationship. They involve a lot of physical closeness and can sometimes take time, but your papa may appreciate it—and might even become more generous with his wallet. At least, that’s how it is in my case. Give it a try!
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I’m in my late 60s, and I have sex twice a day with different women. It takes about 10 to 15 minutes from penetration to ejaculation, based on how it feels—I haven’t actually timed it. The volume and concentration of my semen have decreased, but I’m still doing just fine. I appreciate the information, since it’s hard to know what men my age are really like. Honestly, it’s kind of pathetic. Even though it has nothing to do with me, I feel like apologizing as someone in the same age group. No wonder people write such harsh comments in the Q&A section.
If those two men in their 60s are like that, women should just say goodbye and look for someone else. I’m sure there are still plenty of men like me who are going strong, so ladies, please don’t be prejudiced against men in their 60s.
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I think it’s best to say goodbye to the first one and focus on making sure you feel satisfied with the second. I also care more about a woman’s satisfaction than ejaculation.
The second papa seems to be focused on your satisfaction, so rather than rushing into penetration, I think it would be good to explore more about how you climax and how to take things deeper. If that also increases his level of excitement, it may eventually progress to using his hands or penetration.
I’m getting an error when I try to edit it in English letters too.
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