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May 2, 2025 22:56
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Ideally, I’d like it to jump all at once to ¥400,000 or ¥500,000, like with hosts or cabaret clubs. But I have no idea how to make that happen.
I want to make him feel good and inspire him to give me more on his own, without constantly talking about money. How do you get your clients to raise your rate and make tens or even hundreds of thousands in one go?
I’d really appreciate any advice. Looking forward to lots of replies.
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Well, there’s no easy, dreamlike deal like that in the real world.
It sounds like H○ka, the Osaka hostess, was ultimately going all out for her big-spending clients, too.
You might have a chance if you have exceptional qualities and receive an offer from a wealthy, generous papa (a male supporter), but…
Unless you become No. 1 at a major hostess club and go all out for several big-spending clients, I don’t think what you’re hoping for is realistic. That’s simply the reality.
It’s probably almost impossible to get much more from your current papa. You need to rethink your strategy from the ground up.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If money is what’s on your mind, it’s okay to act like money matters to you. If you’re struggling financially, it’s okay to ask for advice.
Above all, don’t overthink things.
And most importantly, don’t read this Q&A box.
If you can’t act naturally, nothing about you will come across to the other person—your personality, for example…
I’m at the Kansai Expo with a woman from the club right now, and it’s absolutely amazing—the scale is incredible. We both loved it so much that we immediately bought season passes. It’s surprisingly pleasant just walking around.
アンディ
Male
Send a reverse offer to this responder
顔合わせの刺激が好きすぎてオファー続けてます。町中華をこよなく愛してます。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
Nice to meet you, I’m Andy.
I’m sorry to repeat what others have already answered so accurately, but I hope this is helpful.
I’ve been with Universe for just under two years and have met around 40 women, including through Patro. I only meet people on a pay-per-meeting basis, but regardless of how long it’s been, I can still meet more than 10 of them. We’re also open to all types of adult relationships (intimate).
That said, there has only been one person whose allowance I increased.
In short, she was someone I couldn’t control—someone who seemed incredibly popular with men.
If you can throw a male member’s usual way of thinking out the window, increasing the allowance is definitely possible. But in addition to looks, you’d need to be about three levels above average in terms of compatibility in an adult relationship and communication skills, too. This isn’t like working at a bar or being a hostess, so give it your best shot.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m stuck in bed with a cold over Golden Week, so I thought I’d write something.
For me, it was only when I could honestly say things like, “If you don’t pay my tuition, I’ll be out on the streets.” He knew my home and school, so it wasn’t a lie.
Of course, I also knew how to make him genuinely fall for me.
Making him feel happy is probably the right approach, along with acting like I can’t survive without my papa (a male supporter).
Just be careful not to cross the line into fraud.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Since Maezawa-san got involved in the staff blog, I thought I’d talk about allowances for a change.
I’m seeing two women whose pay-per-meeting amount for an adult relationship is 200,000 yen or more.
One of them is what I call my “ace.” She’s an ordinary woman, but so unbelievably cute that she’s extremely well-known, making it difficult to go on dates with her in public. She’d be recognized.
I gave her a large amount of money right from the beginning. I even had ●● made for her.
I can’t exactly say she was very attached to me at first, but after five years together, she’s become someone who could be said to be even more important than a girlfriend, and we’re co-dependent.
I’ll probably keep giving her money until I go bankrupt.
The other woman receives slightly less than my ace, but she hasn’t had an adult relationship in over a year and has no plans to do so for the foreseeable future.
Our chemistry in that regard is the best, but she’s the only woman whose value doesn’t drop at all even without an adult relationship. In that respect, she surpasses my ace.
And there’s nothing in particular these women need to do to receive even more money from me. In the end, it depends on the papa’s business situation.
When business is doing well, I give them as much as they want. When it isn’t, they understand that I may need to reduce the amount.
Both of them naturally understand that if things go up, they can also go down. I’ve never actually lowered their allowances, though. But if my business went south, I’d obviously discuss reducing them, and we’re close enough to be able to have that kind of conversation.
The person asking this question doesn’t seem to be giving her all for her papa. So even if, hypothetically, you were the most beautiful woman in the world and met me, I probably wouldn’t invest in you.
The two women I mentioned above have looks surpassing those of celebrities, and they’ve also actively given me all kinds of things. That’s why I’ve been able to receive enormous benefits from them.
Among my long-term monthly arrangements, there are also women who have remained pay-per-meeting. Compared with my aces, they’re more calculating, and because I can see that, my purse strings don’t loosen.
Incidentally, I spend my days working while thinking almost exclusively about how I can give a house to the woman who isn’t my ace.
For me, the peak isn’t ejaculation—it’s the moment I hand over the money.
If I managed to give her a house, I think I’d experience the same excitement as Harrison Yamanaka in *The Real Estate* described as “an ecstasy and thrill more pleasurable than sex or drugs.”
That’s why I’m working straight through Golden Week without taking a single day off.
But I started feeling a little empty, so I asked my coordinator if there were any new women I could meet today. I probably won’t be able to meet anyone, though, lol.
Sorry to my coordinator for making such an unreasonable offer m(__)m
By the way, someone mentioned Kawasaki Medical University. For someone like me, who is effectively a junior-high-school graduate, Kawasaki Medical University is a god—an elite among elites.
I looked it up just now, and its deviation score is around 63–64.
As I was writing this, my ace invited me on an adult date, saying, “Want to go to a hotel tonight?♡”
Because we’re on a monthly arrangement, the more often we meet, the more she loses out. But she’s a goddess who invites me anyway, without caring about that.
Of course I end up giving her a huge amount of money.
So, Coordinator, sorry, but I’m withdrawing my offer m(__)m
Joe-san, Seattle-san, and Mac-san give their monthly partners as much money as I do, or even more, so it might be good to get advice from them as well.
Each of them has a different way of giving money. I like Joe-san’s style of getting deeply invested and continuing to give money, Seattle-san’s style of suddenly handing over a huge amount for someone’s dream is wonderful, and Mac-san is also incredibly cool for mailing 10 million yen to a former monthly partner after they broke up.
Papas who give high allowances want to meet someone worthy of receiving a large amount of money. They can’t help wanting to give money away.
Because isn’t that how it is? The only real value we middle-aged men have is our ability to earn money.
How we use the money we earn—that’s the question. For those of us clearly entering the second half of our lives, we want to give away the money we’ve worked hard to earn throughout our lives, without asking for anything in return.
That’s why we’ve remained members of Universe Club all this time.
Joe-san seems to be completely taken with one woman at the moment, so I think he’s having a good papa-katsu experience. But I’m sure Seattle-san and Mac-san also want to meet a new woman worthy of receiving a large amount of money. Probably.
I’m also looking for “successors” to my aces. I recently found one candidate, but she’s still nowhere near the level of my aces, so I think I’ll continue making new offers.