How is it different from nightlife work?

Why not give it a try? You won’t know whether it suits you until you do. The business owners you go drinking with might just be saying that because they won’t be able to go out drinking with you anymore.

If you usually prefer spending time one-on-one with a female friend and feel more relaxed and comfortable that way, you may be better suited to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). If you feel more comfortable in a group setting, you may be better suited to working as a hostess—and your sociability will also help you handle papa-katsu. If you’re not comfortable in spaces with several people, working as a hostess can be extremely demanding. And if you don’t like alcohol or smoking, it can be even more unpleasant…

I only recently found out that “food and beverage” in a profile means a hostess at a cabaret club or lounge, while “customer service” means sex work. If you can meet a good papa, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is definitely easier. If not, working at a nightlife venue could be worth considering. Even if you’re not good with alcohol, in that world, having a beautiful face can get you pretty far. Speaking of looks, I’ve had a string of cancellations lately, so—not exactly as a good-luck charm, but—I reached out again to a girl who says, “My only asset is my face.” I might meet one of them again next week—the girl who asks for 15 per pay-per-meeting arrangement. She never uses her tongue when kissing and is incredibly quick about everything. But her face and figure are on another level, so I think meeting occasionally would be fine. There’s also a lounge hostess I consider even prettier—like the most beautiful woman in the history of the universe. She asks for 10 per meeting and doesn’t offer oral, but she’s unbelievably cute and a feast for the eyes, so I’m sure there’s demand for her. If you’re reasonably confident in your finances, I’d suggest applying for interviews at a cabaret club, lounge, or Ginza hostess club.

> I’ve been approached by nightlife recruiters a lot lately. Some have told me things like, “I think you could get into places in Tokyo, like Ginza.” If you think about it rationally, there’s no way they can know your personality or other qualities just from a quick glance. So you can probably tell that the recruiters are just saying whatever they can. The more women they bring to clubs, the more they can keep earning a percentage of those women’s income indefinitely. Naturally, they want to bring in as many women as possible. That said, taking women who are likely to be rejected by the club would just waste their time, so they’re simply approaching women who are above average in appearance. Also, they said, “I think you could get in,” not that you’re necessarily suited for the work. It only means that if they take you to the club, you have the looks to be hired. Whether you’re actually suited for it is a separate issue. > papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) carries risks such as illness. I feel like nightlife work carries those risks too—sleeping with clients for work, for example. Besides, even if you don’t do anything else, being intimate with your boyfriend can still carry a risk of illness. (Of course, the degree of risk may differ.) > I’m thinking of going for a trial shift, but I’m wondering whether I should quit if I’m not suited for it. It seems simple enough: go for the trial shift, and if you find it’s not for you, quit.

I’m Andy, a male member. I think both sides have their strengths and weaknesses depending on the person. But if you’re serious about either one, you’ll need to put in a lot of effort. Personally, I think both are better suited to people who are attentive and responsive. Why not try both and then continue with whichever one you feel suits you better? I believe taking action is what matters most in anything. I hope this helps.

High-end cabaret clubs and luxury clubs in Ginza aren’t jobs you can do unless you’re good with alcohol. If you can’t drink, it’s basically impossible. Also, the work mentioned above requires teamwork among the staff. You have to take your support shifts seriously, too. Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is basically individual sales where you lure in older men. P.S. I ended up searching for “Dom/Sub.” It’s interesting. I’m definitely an M-type Dom—I give orders like “Be my chair.” “Dom/Sub” refers to a genre derived from overseas fan-created works, similar to the “Omegaverse,” which depicts a world where genders such as Alpha and Omega exist in addition to men and women. In this genre, there are two genders: Dom and Sub. Broadly speaking, Dom (Dominant) is “the one who protects,” while Sub (Submissive) is “the one who is protected.” Everything is built on trust, but outside of play, they don’t behave as Dom or Sub. The origins and meanings of “Dom/Sub” Dom (Dominant): The protector; someone who wants to dominate Essentially the “always-top” role, with desires to control, protect, look after, praise, and punish the Sub. Sub (Submissive): The one who is protected; someone who wants to be dominated Essentially the “always-bottom” role, with desires to be controlled by the Dom, praised, devoted to them, and given attention.