Tips May 8, 2025 14:19

The photo they took for my profile is so awful that I feel like I probably won’t get any offers.

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I think the photos I took myself on my iPhone look better. If the main photo isn’t your type, you probably wouldn’t even bother viewing the profile, right? I’m not sure how it’s displayed on the men’s side, though.
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Our staff member Kosaka will answer as well. Our staff members receive training in photography, but after that, everyone develops their own style. Since we’re not professionals, differences in results are inevitable, depending on factors such as experience. Even if your profile photos aren’t great, there are plenty of ways to appeal to men. A well-written profile, for example, can still make them think, “Oh, interesting.”
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
If you’re not receiving any offers, I think it’s probably for one of two reasons: 1. There’s something in your profile that makes men hesitant to send an offer. 2. Even if your profile is well written, your appearance may be the reason you’re not getting offers. I understand wanting to blame the photos, and there are certainly people whose photos are genuinely terrible. But even if you look beautiful in heavily edited photos that appear to have been taken with an iPhone, most men can tell they’ve been edited, so they won’t send an offer. Even if you do receive an offer, they may be disappointed when they meet you in person, making it more likely that things will end immediately. That’s one of the differences between Universe and matching apps, where edited photos are the norm. If you really want to use heavily edited photos, a matching app might be a better fit. With Universe, people appreciate being able to judge you from natural photos, which makes it less likely they’ll be disappointed when they meet you in person. (Though I’ve heard some people are a little disappointed because the photos are too flattering.) Maybe Universe just isn’t the best fit for you.
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I also make sure to watch the videos, so I don’t judge based on photos alone. With videos, situations like that are less likely to happen than with photos. You could have posted a selfie, so why not try uploading a photo you took yourself? *It’s probably best to avoid heavy editing or filters.*
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Andy, a male member. The profile photo displays your age, relationship type, and class, but I would never make a decision based on that one photo alone. Personally, I make sure to watch the videos, so there have been women I was unsure about based only on their photos who still ended up receiving an offer from me. Quite a few women also upload photos taken outside the club’s official photo shoot, but I mainly use them to get a sense of what they’re like day to day. Hope this helps.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It’s a common topic, but men and women seem to see it differently. Personally, I don’t choose someone based on their photos.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
All the female members are photographed by staff who are, in a sense, amateurs. So the standards are more or less the same across the board. In fact, if club staff stopped taking the photos, photo editing and retouching would run rampant, leading to a “panel magic” effect, so I think things are fine as they are. You can also upload photos you took yourself to your profile, so I’d recommend doing that. Just be careful—if they look obviously edited, papas may be put off and you’ll receive fewer offers.
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