Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Oct 24, 2026 14:51
I have someone I currently rely on more than anyone else. He’s polite, treats me very well, and doesn’t interfere in my life, so at the moment, he’s the only person I have an adult relationship (intimate) with. He has also asked me to see only him, and because I trust him, I’d like to do that if possible. However, we don’t get to see each other very often, and sometimes we go about a month without meeting, so honestly, I feel it would b...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I was wondering what the best thing to do would be, but I thought simply making your profile visible again would be okay. Did you repost it, only to have him find out and cut things off?
The men you’ve gone on dates with should be hidden from view, so I wonder if he found out through PATOLO itself.
If you tell him you’re going to focus on just one person and then start looking for someone else, he may cut you off for lying. So even if he asks, “Why is your profile visible?”…
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📅 Oct 23, 2026 18:43
I’m considering joining. I’m 74, and my erections have become weaker, making penetration difficult, and I can rarely ejaculate. However, I strongly wish to spend time with younger women. I wouldn’t be satisfied with just having tea together. I would still like to meet a younger woman, share a bed, kiss, caress each other, and engage in intimate contact. If I’m able to get an erection, I would also like to have intercourse. Given my cond...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> Would I be able to join?
As for membership, you can join if you pass the screening process.
For your interview with the staff, I think you’ll be fine as long as you come dressed neatly and with a clean, well-groomed appearance. Naturally, it’s also important that you have enough income to participate. There are, of course, other undisclosed screening criteria as well.
> Is it possible to find a partner without too much difficulty?
That depends on what you mean by “witho…
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📅 Oct 23, 2026 16:14
I’m trying papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for the first time. Next week, I’ll be meeting at a café for the first time with a man who offered to be my papa (a male supporter). When I receive my allowance in an envelope, what would be the most tactful way to check the amount? Would it be rude or overly formal from his perspective if I hid the envelope in a fukusa, checked the amount, put it back in the fukusa, and left it at the...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
If you met through Universe Club, and you’re referring to the ¥10,000 transportation fee you receive during the meal, then I think you should handle it exactly as the club explains.
In other words, say something like, “The club always asks us to confirm this on the spot, so let me just check,” and then confirm it.
The club specifically tells members to do this to prevent issues within the club’s rules, so this is actually something you shouldn’t skip.
As for the allowance …
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📅 Oct 21, 2026 19:15
I’m asking because I don’t know what men generally think. I’m currently considering hair removal, including the bikini area, but would you dislike it if it were completely smooth? Or would you actually prefer it? For now, since I’m not sure, I’m thinking of leaving some hair on the front. I’d love to hear what different people think.
💬 Answer from バジル:
When I joined about ten years ago, they made up less than half the group. Now, my impression is that they account for about 90%.
Personally, I prefer a more natural look, rather than something that feels too professional. However, when it comes to girls from a club, as everyone says, they’re easy to work with, so I don’t see it as a negative.
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📅 Oct 19, 2026 23:23
Please advise. A girl I’ve gotten close to invited me to go on a trip. If I cover all the travel expenses, how much allowance should I pay her?
💬 Answer from カズ:
I think the allowance amount depends entirely on the person you’re seeing. Trying to base it on what complete strangers say is missing the point.
In other words, just discuss it with the person involved.
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📅 Oct 16, 2026 18:41
I remember having to show my driver’s license or something similar when signing up with Universe. Is my personal information being handled securely? How many years is it kept? If I leave, will it be completely deleted? Seeing news stories about Times and similar services makes me concerned.
💬 Answer from アンディ:
Most respondents aren’t employees of Universe Club, so they can’t give you a definitive answer. I recommend contacting the branch where you registered directly.
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📅 Oct 15, 2026 23:15
I have two things I’m concerned about. 1. Looking through this Q&A, it seems there are private photos in addition to the photos taken at the interview. If I don’t post any private photos, but do post the interview photos (showing my face and figure), will that have much impact on the number of offers I receive? ※I don’t really have opportunities to take or be photographed in personal photos, and I feel like selfies would look unnatural....
💬 Answer from 横断歩道:
I pay the most attention to videos. The way someone speaks and their mannerisms are big pluses.
Private photos are only a rough reference since they’re probably edited anyway. That said, if someone posts overly lavish photos, I tend to avoid making an offer.
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📅 Oct 13, 2026 20:39
I always enjoy reading the insightful opinions and columns shared by everyone who answers here. Recently, I matched with an 18-year-old Type A woman, and our dates have been going well. On our fourth date, we agreed that we would move on to an “adult relationship (intimate)” next time. However, she told me that kissing was off-limits. When I asked why, she said it wasn’t because of any dissatisfaction with me, but because of past trauma...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Rather than past trauma, it may simply be that she doesn’t want to kiss anyone she doesn’t like.
But since she can’t exactly say that, she seems to be framing it as trauma—though in a sense, that may not be entirely wrong.
If you look at it that way, it might be best to let go of the desire to ease her trauma and instead let her do things at her own pace.
And if she comes to like you, I think those boundaries will eventually disappear.
So rather than focusing on how to ea…
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📅 Oct 12, 2026 22:38
I always enjoy reading the heartwarming exchanges here. Since I can’t talk to anyone about my activities, the stories shared here are very important to me. I use them as references, for encouragement, and sometimes as reminders of what to avoid. But putting that aside… What I’d like to ask this time is: Is it common to visit a papa’s home? Regarding the person I’m asking about… He contacted me through this site, and we’ve met several ti...
💬 Answer from まさと:
As everyone has said, it’s not common.
In my experience, even among the people I had long-term arrangements with, I only met a select few whom I particularly trusted at their homes. And that was only after spending time together at hotels at least ten times over a period of six months or so, so I could determine whether I truly trusted them.
From a papa’s perspective, meeting at home certainly has many advantages: there’s no need to worry about time like you would at a hote…
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📅 Oct 12, 2026 13:53
I’m a man in my 60s and a club member. I’ve met a woman in her 30s several times after being introduced through the club. The other day, after we finished dinner and were settling the bill at a restaurant we were visiting for the first time, a staff member asked me, “Are you father and daughter?” (The woman had gone to the restroom and wasn’t there at the time.) I’ve never been asked anything like that before, so it’s been on my mind. N...
💬 Answer from 日月新:
They might ask if you personally know the owner or staff well.
Generally, they won’t ask questions that could make you feel awkward or uncomfortable. From the establishment’s perspective, all they really need is for you to pay properly and behave yourself while eating and drinking, so there’s no reason to take that kind of risk.
From a distinctly Kyoto-style perspective, I’d take it as a subtle message from the refined customer paying a woman young enough to be his daughter…
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📅 Oct 11, 2026 01:26
ユニバースクラブで1番人気な女性（過去、現在）はどのような方ですか？
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Interesting question.
I guess it depends on how you define “popular.”
The woman who receives the most allowance and the woman who gets the most offers aren’t necessarily the same, I think.
Rich men are constantly targeted by sharp, money-minded women like those “Minato-ku girls,” and they’re pretty tired of it. They may go to cabaret clubs for personal reasons, work, or socializing, but having to match the cast members’ conversation is seriously exhausting—like, “Why do I …
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📅 Oct 7, 2026 16:24
To all the papas, I’d love to hear your thoughts on birthday gifts from a monthly arrangement partner. ・Something you actually enjoyed receiving ・Something you’d be happy to receive or have done for you Either is fine—I’d really appreciate your input! He’s my papa of almost two years, and we’re relatively more like a couple. Last year, I gave him consumable goods worth around ¥10,000. This year, I’m thinking of treating him to a meal at...
💬 Answer from まさと:
For our one-year anniversary, my monthly arrangement partner gave me a “I’ll Do Anything for You” voucher—good for up to three requests over the next year—and I was absolutely thrilled!
It’s such a wonderful gift because it doesn’t involve spending any of my papa’s money; it’s all about doing something the other person wants.
Now I just have to decide what to ask for… My imagination is running wild, and I can’t stop grinning（笑）
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📅 Oct 6, 2026 12:16
I’ve been a member for a month and have met seven people, and I have a question. After the first meeting, if they ask, “What are you doing after this?” but they’re not exactly my type, what do you all do? Since I’m the one making the offers, it’s not as though they’re completely outside my preferences. However, they’re not exactly what I’m looking for either, and even when they invite me to meet again later, I don’t feel like seeing the...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
What a spoiled old bastard in his 60s.
Once you’ve made the offer, you’re the one who asked for the meal to be served, so stop complaining and finish what’s on your plate. She’s coming to meet you—at least initially—expecting an adult relationship (intimate) and motivated by money. Responding accordingly is simply a matter of courtesy and decency.
I can understand it if you decide not to meet a second time. This doesn’t apply to Type B arrangements, though—only to C, D, or …
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📅 Oct 6, 2026 08:24
Should I say “Thank you for the meal” after eating? Whether it’s at a first meeting or with someone I have a monthly arrangement with, I always tell them the food was delicious and send a thank-you message afterward. But I’ve never actually said “Thank you for the meal.” I do say, “It was really delicious, thank you very much,” but would you be happier if I also said, “Thank you for the meal”?
💬 Answer from 横断歩道:
I don’t really care whether you say “Thank you for the meal.” As long as we have a heartfelt conversation—whether it’s “That was delicious,” “I’d like to go to ___ next time,” or something along those lines—that’s more than enough.
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📅 Oct 4, 2026 16:53
I’m in my mid-30s. I take care to look clean and maintain my figure, but is there still demand for someone my age? I’m worried my age might be a drawback.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Age does have some impact on the offers you receive, but I don’t think you’re at an age where it would really become a major obstacle.
That said, your appearance has a much greater influence on offers than your age does.
So if you’re worried about whether there will be any demand for you, one option is simply not to do it.
But if you’d still like to register and give it a try, I think you should go ahead and apply.
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📅 Oct 1, 2026 22:11
I’ve been a member for almost six months now… What’s the specific difference between the club’s regular offers and Patro’s order dates? For female members registered with both, the setting fee seems to be the same, and in some cases Patro actually costs more. Are there any members who use the two services differently depending on the situation? I’d appreciate hearing how you do it.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
In Fuu’s case, it’s mostly Patro now that Patro is available. I only make offers through the club when there’s a woman I like who isn’t registered on Patro.
Order Date and club offers are basically the same, so I don’t really think of choosing between them.
If Order Date costs more, you can simply make the offer through the club instead. Since there are two systems and a large number of members, I occasionally see profiles that aren’t fully linked between them. (They’ve bec…
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📅 Oct 1, 2026 19:28
I don’t know how to meet women. Many of the men sharing their experiences here seem to be meeting women, but I have no idea how and it’s been bothering me. Could someone please tell me how? Thank you in advance 🙇⤵️
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
First, you need to be able to afford the costs involved in meeting someone.
Universe Club arranges dinner dates with women in exchange for a setting fee. So, at a minimum, you’ll need:
- A membership fee
- A setting fee (charged each time you’re introduced to a woman)
- A ¥10,000 thank-you gift to give her during the introductory dinner date
- Around ¥10,000–¥20,000 for both of your meals
After that, if you want to pursue a relationship with her, you’ll need to discuss an …
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📅 Sep 30, 2026 14:15
Could someone explain how to use the service? I recently joined and initially requested a standard arrangement through the club. I then tried Letter Date and Patro, and found them easier to use than standard offers, where you meet without knowing any of the terms beforehand. Since I joined the club, I do want to enjoy making standard offers, but I also worry that there isn’t enough information before meeting someone. At the same time, I...
💬 Answer from 迷わない70代:
I even became a Black member, but I never really saw any benefit to the regular offers. That’s why I came up with letter dating, lol.
As for the “best way to use it,” wouldn’t it be better to just send out as many offers as possible instead of overthinking it? Especially if letter dating and patro are already getting you results. Let go of that unnecessary pride.
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📅 Sep 30, 2026 00:21
Are there any people with severe germophobia who still do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? I’m honestly a germaphobe. I don’t mind a big age gap (I like older men). I just can’t stand things like bad breath. How do you all handle it when you’re not compatible with someone? I’d really appreciate any tips. (I’m thinking about registering with a dating club soon.)
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Humans are living beings too, so it’s pretty rare for anyone to be completely scentless.
Most people have some kind of natural smell. Women’s scent matters to me as well, so I’d like them to take good care of themselves. But being overly particular about cleanliness just makes things difficult, so I think it’s a delicate balance.
Besides, if you’re meeting someone for sex, you’re essentially exchanging mucous membrane cells, right? lol
If kissing or oral is off-limits, the…
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📅 Sep 29, 2026 23:27
I’m a woman in my late 50s. Is there any demand for someone my age? I’m often told I look younger than I am. I’d like to enjoy being a woman a little more, but…
💬 Answer from 迷わない70代:
I’d happily date someone in their 50s! lol
But simply looking younger probably isn’t enough to keep things going… Just like men, you need to have a clean, well-groomed appearance and maintain a youthful figure—even when your clothes come off. And when it comes to conversation, do you do anything to keep things interesting and have plenty to talk about? Without that overall appeal, I think it would be difficult to continue.
My monthly partner, who’s in her late 50s, is alrea…