Tips Oct 23, 2026 18:43

I’m considering joining.

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I’m 74, and my erections have become weaker, making penetration difficult, and I can rarely ejaculate. However, I strongly wish to spend time with younger women. I wouldn’t be satisfied with just having tea together. I would still like to meet a younger woman, share a bed, kiss, caress each other, and engage in intimate contact. If I’m able to get an erection, I would also like to have intercourse. Given my condition, would it be possible for me to join your club and fulfill these wishes? If so, is there a good chance I could find a partner without putting undue pressure on myself? Also, which type of woman—A, B, C, or D—should I choose? I’m sorry to ask so many questions, but I would greatly appreciate your guidance.
👤 Asked by Guest 👨GenderMale 🎂 70 or older 👑 No experience yet
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
> Would I be able to join? As for membership, you can join if you pass the screening process. For your interview with the staff, I think you’ll be fine as long as you come dressed neatly and with a clean, well-groomed appearance. Naturally, it’s also important that you have enough income to participate. There are, of course, other undisclosed screening criteria as well. > Is it possible to find a partner without too much difficulty? That depends on what you mean by “without too much difficulty,” but if you can treat women kindly, be considerate of their feelings, and offer an allowance of at least ¥70,000–¥100,000 per meeting, I imagine you could find one after making offers to around ten women. If that allowance seems high to you, try searching through past questions. You’ll likely find comments from respondents saying that men should increase their allowance as they get older. In other words, your allowance needs to increase with age, and that makes perfect sense. (I haven’t searched for the original discussion, but at age 74, I think ¥75,000 would be a reasonable allowance. However, since an odd amount looks somewhat undignified, ¥80,000 would probably be the appropriate figure.) That said, some women may be receiving ¥150,000 or ¥200,000 from other men, so in those cases, I think it’s best to accept it gracefully and move on. Of course, experienced men eventually learn to make up for things with technique. But if you’re just starting out, you’ll develop those skills over time, so for now, you should stick to the standard approach. After dating more than ten women over the course of a year or longer, you can gradually transition to your own style.
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迷わない70代
パパ活歴12年目、回答者歴9年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中(笑)
Age: 70 or older 👨 Male Former Universe member
74, huh? You’re four years my senior. That’s impressive, especially since I’m already winding down my papa-katsu days. At the moment, I’m seeing four women—one in her 20s and one from each decade through her 50s. As for whether I can perform, medication should help when needed, and as long as they understand that whether I finish is an age-related issue rather than a reflection of their attractiveness, it shouldn’t be a problem. That said, even if your erections aren’t as strong as they used to be, you still need to keep your oral and finger skills polished, haha. As for whether you’ll be accepted, that will depend on your appearance. Still, anyone determined enough to join at 74 probably has a fair amount of confidence, so I imagine you can get in. However, I remember there being very few women who were open to men over 70, so even getting to the first meeting will likely be quite difficult. Be prepared for that. I left because I felt 70 might be a difficult age barrier. You probably don’t need to overdo the allowance. If you have a decent build, good hygiene, and behave like a gentleman, the usual amount at the club should be fine. In my case, I average less than that, actually. (汗)
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横断歩道
🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I think the key is to keep making offers until you find a good match. With this kind of thing, you won’t really know what it’s like until you try it.
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Your eagerness really comes through, which is kind of funny, haha. Unless you have a condition like heart disease or diabetes, you might be able to get hard by taking ED medication or using an erection injection. If it’s due to an illness, though, it may not be possible… It might be a good idea to take medication before your papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) date and get some practice at a host club for adults first. If you want to make out, fondle each other, and so on, you should probably make an offer to someone in the same C or D category as those who offer sex. It depends on what age range you mean by “young women,” but at this dating club, your wishes can come true if you’re willing to pay. That said, since you’re over 70, you should understand that getting women in their 20s or 30s to be interested in you will be difficult unless you offer considerably more allowance than a papa (a male supporter) in his 40s or 50s. There are women who will consider men of any age if the money is right, so you might want to make offers to that type. Even younger women may accept if the terms are right—for example, if they can receive a high allowance just for oral attention. Ultimately, it will also depend on how clean and well-groomed you are. If things are too difficult, you might have better luck raising your target age range to women in their 40s or 50s, making generous offers, and approaching several women. It won’t be easy, but it’s not impossible. Still, given how eager you sound, it’s surprising that you haven’t tried having sex at an adult entertainment venue before.
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アンディ
オファー減って申し訳ないですが、顔合わせは続けます。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
That should be fine. Some women set age limits—up to their 40s, 50s, or 60s—so your offer might get turned down, but there are also plenty who don’t have an age limit at all. Go to the interview and take it from there while hearing more about things. If you’re hoping for things to progress to the bedroom, I’d suggest making offers to women around C or D. Let’s stay positive and enjoy it! It’s always a good thing when the membership grows.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Since Universe Club’s business is arranging dates, you should be able to join without any particular difficulty. Women indicate the maximum age of men they’re willing to date, so basically, choose someone with no upper age limit. Also, if you’re considering physical intimacy, I recommend choosing a C or D type. After that, it comes down to the allowance.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m devoting myself to burning through my worldly desires by sleeping with young women every day, so I don’t end up like the elderly man who asked this question. As for my answer: What are you accomplishing by complaining here and still hesitating at this late stage? I don’t know how much financial freedom you have, but time is more precious than money. You’ll be one day older tomorrow than you are today. Do you understand that? Whether a woman will accept you is up to her, so I can’t say. But if you want to sleep with women, you have no choice but to keep making offers, even if you embarrass yourself or get laughed at. You should have realized something that obvious by your age. I’ll say it again: you don’t have time to keep hesitating. You’ll probably start losing your faculties soon, and then you’ll become a filthy old man in a care facility, constantly shouting obscene things. You’ll be nothing but human garbage. By then, even if you regret not sleeping with young women when you were 74—without agonizing over it, and even if you had to rely on money, crawl on the ground, or beg on your knees—there will be nothing you can do. Tonight, I’m staying over with a 25-year-old office worker who’s an expert at oral sex. This morning at 6:30, I climaxed with the 22-year-old I stayed with last night, and at lunchtime I climaxed with a 26-year-old nurse, so tonight will be my third time today. Tomorrow afternoon, I’m going to sleep with an 18-year-old. I’m still not sure I can burn through all my worldly desires, though. But I hope to reach 74 in better shape than the person who asked this question.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Universe Club acts as an intermediary for compensated relationships between men and women by arranging dinner dates. So if you’re looking for a compensated relationship, you meet the eligibility requirements in that respect. However, there is still a screening process, so there’s no guarantee you’ll be accepted. Whether you can find a partner without too much difficulty depends on you. As for the women’s relationship types, if you have an intimate relationship in mind, I think types B1 through D should all be suitable. After that, try making offers to a variety of women yourself and figure out what approach works best for you.
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