Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Jun 24, 2025 14:47
I want to tell a papa (a male supporter) I’ve only met once or twice—and whose allowance is on the lower side compared with my other papas—that I’d be willing to see him again if he could raise it by about two, but otherwise I won’t be able to because my schedule is limited. Should I phrase it more indirectly? If negotiating for a higher allowance like this rarely works, I’m also considering simply saying I’m busy and gradually fading o...
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
I’m not the type who can speak up about things like that, so I’d probably just say, “I’m sorry,” part ways, and wait for the next opportunity to meet someone~ (T^T)
If he’s two sizes off from what you ideally want, I do think that’s a significant difference, but I wouldn’t say anything.
Still, like the other male respondents said, maybe it’s worth being honest first, then deciding whether to end things afterward!
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📅 Jun 24, 2025 14:20
I have a question about offers. I’d prefer to avoid men who are older than my father. Would it leave a better impression to tell the club directly, or should I just avoid coordinating my schedule when I receive an offer and let it fall through? My father is in his mid-50s, and most of the men who make offers are in their 30s or 40s, so I don’t think I need to worry about running out of offers.
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
You can discuss it at the first meeting, or even afterward (｀・ω・´)ゞ
If you have such a specific age range in mind, you should be able to avoid people outside it and still get offers.
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📅 Jun 22, 2025 15:23
I signed up, but I haven’t received any offers. What can I do? I registered five months ago.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
There’s an event at Universal Lounge on Friday the 27th, and Fuu will be there too, haha.
Why not give it a try? If no one approaches you there, maybe accept that you’re not quite at the level for this site and try papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) elsewhere—lower your target level and move your main platform to places like Happy Mail or X, perhaps.
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📅 Jun 22, 2025 12:07
I’m looking for a papa (a male supporter) who would agree to a monthly allowance of ¥300,000–¥600,000. How many times would we need to meet, and how many adult relationships (intimate) would that involve? Does the monthly rate also vary depending on the woman’s class? I’m Gold. I’d appreciate an idea of the going rate.
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
Men who are looking for a monthly arrangement usually bring it up from the very first meeting. So I don’t think you need to try too hard. After that, it’s all about working on yourself. :( ;´꒳`; )
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📅 Jun 22, 2025 08:31
I don’t want my activities with Universe to be found out by my friends, acquaintances, family, or anyone I may meet in the future. Here’s what I’m currently doing: - Going on dates at stations far from home - Carrying two phones and keeping the accounts separate - Managing the money I receive separately from my living expenses so I don’t change my spending habits—and of course, not buying brand-name items - Changing my usual clothing st...
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
Ironically, being that self-conscious will make people suspicious.
If you’re meeting him three or four times a week, and you properly introduce him to the people you normally see—even around your neighborhood—no one will assume it’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
These days, everyone walks while looking at their phones, and people are constantly using them on trains, in shops—everywhere. Even a nationally famous celebrity could blend into a crowd in ordinary clot…
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📅 Jun 21, 2025 14:06
I’d really appreciate your honest opinions: do you think there’s demand for a chubby woman in her mid-20s who’s 160 cm tall and weighs 75 kg? I’m about an I-cup, with a little spillage over the top. I enjoy both listening and talking, and although I’m involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I’d also like to meet people who are genuinely successful and hear about their experiences in person. I keep telling myself I’ll apply...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
If she has a cute face, then yes—definitely yes.
Conversely, even if she’s moderately slim, has a large chest, nice-looking nipples, and is perfectly pink down there, if her face looks like Jaiko, then it’s a no.
I’d say that’s the unfiltered opinion of about 99% of men.
By the way, I’ve never seen a woman in her mid-20s who’s 160 cm tall, weighs 75 kg, and has an incredibly cute face. I wonder why. It seems like there should be someone like that.
Also, whenever I used to…
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📅 Jun 21, 2025 10:00
About how many people check this Q&A site every day? I have something I’d like advice on regarding my relationship with my papa (a male supporter), but if he happens to see it, he might figure out it’s about him...
💬 Answer from アンディ:
Personally, I don’t think many people are looking at it.
None of the female members I’m seeing knew about it either, lol. Of course, I haven’t told them that I recently started answering questions here.
There may actually be quite a few people who follow papa-katsu-related posts on X, but I really can’t imagine anyone figuring you out just because you asked an anonymous question here.
Hope that helps.
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📅 Jun 21, 2025 01:56
I’m the person who asked a question yesterday. Thanks for the answers, Mac and everyone else. I’ve had monthly arrangements through apps, other dating clubs, and introductions around Minato Ward, but I’ve settled everything with them, so I’m thinking of trying Universe Club. This is a little embarrassing to admit, but I’m interested in being with multiple people, and I get a bit excited when they compete for my attention. (Haha.) Has an...
💬 Answer from アンディ:
By all means, become a member and enjoy making lots of offers. If your wife controls the finances, it might be difficult to come up with the money, but since you’ve apparently done this elsewhere, you should be fine, shouldn’t you?
I’ve never tried group play through papa-katsu, so I can’t say.
Hope this helps.
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📅 Jun 21, 2025 01:27
Thanks as always. I used to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) while working as a flight attendant, but I’ve stopped now. I feel like allowances used to be higher, and there were more generous (well-paying) papas (male supporters) back then. These days, it seems like allowances have gone down, and monthly arrangements don’t last very long either. Recently, a company-president papa I had a monthly arrangement with ended things, ...
💬 Answer from だて◎ゆめ:
I agree with this as well…
It’s probably better not to set the allowance too high.
Since this is a dating arrangement, it’s better to maintain it for a while. Over time, your partner will come to appreciate the benefits of being in a relationship through a dating club.
If the allowance is too generous, she may start looking for an even better partner.
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📅 Jun 20, 2025 15:46
Have you ever gotten into a fight with another papa-katsu girl over a papa (a male supporter)?
💬 Answer from 負け男:
They’ll probably end up competing for me.
I usually have them come to my place, and several of my monthly partners leave their things behind—like underwear—to stake their claim and discourage other women.
The sink and bathroom are overflowing with women’s belongings, and I can’t even remember who left what anymore. My regulars are used to it, but I do wonder what the new women think.
That said, none of the new ones have become monthly partners.
I have a meeting set up nex…
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📅 Jun 20, 2025 14:06
I’ve been seeing a papa (a male supporter) I truly love through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for three years. He has a wife and three children: an eldest daughter, a second son, and a younger daughter. Whenever he talks about his family, I feel envious, empty, and jealous, and I start wondering, “Am I really important to him?” After we part, I’m often overcome by emptiness and end up in tears. Having grown up in a dysfunctio...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
A papa is ultimately just a papa.
Find other papas, a boyfriend, or a friend with benefits, and enjoy your life. Don’t get too wrapped up in your papa; it might be better to date your boyfriend with marriage in mind.
The idea that you should only have one person you love was something people in the past said. It isn’t an instinct humans have as animals. Since humans naturally have an animal side, apparently people in the Jomon period had sex in groups, lol.
So I don’t thin…
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📅 Jun 17, 2025 13:38
I’m new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and I’m a man in my 50s. I’d appreciate some advice. I’d like to have a long-term arrangement with one person. Ideally, I’d want her to see only me. ① Women often list their desired monthly amount in their profiles, but if I want her to be exclusive to me, would I need to offer several times that amount? ② Should I tell her what I’m looking for at the first meeting? ③ Is it creepy to w...
💬 Answer from 横断歩道:
I think young women should date different kinds of people to gain life experience.
Women who especially want children have only a limited amount of time to enjoy dating freely. They may date and break up with a boyfriend, try papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and so on. During that process, there may be periods when they’re exclusive with one person, and periods when they aren’t.
However, forcing someone to be exclusive takes away opportunities to gain life experien…
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📅 Jun 16, 2025 17:28
I’m new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). I’m in an adult relationship (intimate) with someone I see regularly and receive about ¥300,000–¥350,000 a month in allowance. I’ve never filed a tax return and don’t understand how the system works or what I’m supposed to do. What should I do?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
If you consult the tax office, they’ll explain everything in detail.
That said, it seems possible that you may also be charged taxes on amounts you haven’t paid in the past. If the deadline has passed, interest may also apply.
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📅 Jun 16, 2025 07:34
I joined last year, and thankfully, I’ve been enjoying a good relationship with one woman. However, I’m a little embarrassed to admit that since I went to the trouble of joining a dating club—and there are so many wonderful women in the profiles—I’ve also started feeling tempted to meet various other women just once or twice, separately from my current partner, and be intimate with them. Is that kind of approach frowned upon at Universe...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
The woman you’re currently seeing is probably seeing other papas as well. I think it’s fairly common for people in papa-katsu to date multiple partners.
So you might want to consider seeing several women too—for example, finding a few more regular partners you meet once a month.
If she’s still the only woman you’re seeing, you probably have plenty of availability on the other days.
People looking for a transactional relationship often go to sex-work establishments or upsca…
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📅 Jun 15, 2025 13:13
Lately, I feel like I’ve been getting fewer offers than before. It’s been especially noticeable since around May or June. Does papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) have seasonal cycles, like a “busy season” and an “off-season”? I’d like to know if there are any seasonal or social factors that might be affecting this.
💬 Answer from 負け男:
I’ve been making offers at a good pace this month too. If anything, I’ve been making more offers than I did in March and April.
**Update:**
Last night, I went on my first date with a C-type woman (black), which isn’t usually my preference.
We met at my usual cheap café, and after admiring her truly beautiful face, I brought up the allowance. We settled on 8, the same amount she received from her previous papa.
Her voice was fairly loud, which made me wonder if she was act…
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📅 Jun 15, 2025 06:05
Someone named Manami Nishino, claiming to be a receptionist at Universe Club, kept pressuring me to pay a registration fee. Does someone like that really work there? They said I can’t go on a date unless I pay the registration fee, and told me to make the payment at a convenience store.
💬 Answer from アンディ:
Take a breath first.
Regardless of whether that Nishino person actually exists, if you have time to post here, you could resolve this in an instant by calling through the official Universe Club website.
I honestly can’t understand choosing to post a question here when someone is telling you to pay or transfer money, so I’m actually curious about your thinking.
Hope this helps.
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📅 Jun 14, 2025 15:42
I heard that only Black members can make offers to women in the Black rank. I have some non-Black members in my favorites as well. Is there any point in adding them if I can’t make them an offer?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> Is there any point in registering if you can’t make offers?
Apparently, some people use it for something completely different from its original purpose: they have no intention of making an offer and just want to browse, viewing it as a “Universe women’s zoo.”
There are also men who complain, “Why do the women disappear from view after I make an offer? Stop doing that.” So I guess some people have preferences that ordinary people just can’t understand.
Women originally po…
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📅 Jun 14, 2025 13:21
A Black-ranked male member I met told me that I’m a Black-ranked woman. However, I’ve also received offers from Gold and Platinum male members, not just Black members. I was told that Black-ranked female members only receive offers from Black-ranked male members. Is that not the case?
💬 Answer from ダイ:
As others have mentioned, during campaigns, Gold or Platinum men may sometimes be able to make offers to Black women.
By the way, I often hear women talk about being taught their place by men.
In my experience, men who want to teach women their place usually do it because they think the woman will be pleased, so it’s often not necessarily a mistake on their part.
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📅 Jun 14, 2025 05:38
Recently, I’ve seen impersonators on social media (X) post LINE links to lure people onto Telegram, where they demand ¥5,000 to create a Universe Club membership card. Are they scammers? Just in case they are, I’ve saved photos of the impersonation accounts and several bank account numbers as evidence.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
It’s scary that some people can’t recognize this as a scam.
The person asking the question opened it too, after all—and even took a screenshot of their bank account. It’s dangerous, so you have to ignore it.
Unless people’s general online literacy improves, the number of people who fall for scams on social media—and those who keep making money by scamming others—probably won’t decrease.
Instagram and X are both contributing to this unhealthy trend.
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📅 Jun 14, 2025 03:10
What kind of women in their 40s qualify for the black class? I’m thinking of getting started after my divorce. I’d love to reach the black class so I can receive lots of offers, so I’d appreciate any advice you can give me. I’m 39 right now.
💬 Answer from 向日葵:
39?! At that level, being considered unattractive is celebrity-level.