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Jul 13, 2025 12:18
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A papa (a male supporter) who was denied a mere ¥20 million bank loan…
Apparently, he’s struggling with his cash flow after being turned down for the loan. The stress made him binge-eat sweets and gain 4 kg.
When I asked him, “Why don’t you pay for it yourself?” he said he didn’t have that kind of money.
Apparently, he also has over ¥1 million in unpaid tabs at a Ginza hostess club. To pay it off, he supposedly goes there about twice a month and just orders drinks.
When I asked, “Why do you order expensive bottles at the club if you don’t have the money? And why don’t you just pay off the tab in full?” he said that ordering bottles for the club’s anniversary or a hostess’s birthday was a matter of etiquette. He also admitted that, although it was embarrassing, he didn’t have the financial capacity to pay ¥1 million all at once.
This papa is a second-generation company president who apparently used to have much more money. He went to a Nittō Komaba Senshi university, which is actually a lower level than mine…
Does this mean he’s an incompetent man whose company is running at a loss, who has no personal assets, and who has ruined the company his father built because of his own lack of planning?
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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I’m also a business owner who struggles with cash flow.
Many successful business owners have gone through difficult times in the past. Conversely, even those who are doing well can go bankrupt in the blink of an eye.
You can’t judge someone that simply.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
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A ¥20 million loan is a really small business scale, isn’t it? There’s no doubt it’s a microbusiness.
> Does that mean this man is someone of limited ability whose company was already running at a loss, who has no assets, and who ruined the company his father built because he lacked foresight?
It’s possible he inherited a company that was already operating at a loss, but someone struggling with cash flow wouldn’t be doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
So I assume it’s a made-up story—either he wants to break up with you or simply wants you to lower your allowance.
Over the past year or so, I’ve occasionally made offers to women whose allowance expectations seemed to be around ¥50,000, just to get a feel for the going rates. I made a point of slipping in somewhere during the conversation that I didn’t have much money.
I’m in the black class, but I’ve switched to making offers with my class hidden.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
This was posted by the same person who asked the previous question, so I thought it would be fine to keep this one hidden. However, since it already had an answer, I made it public.
There’s not much point in asking the same thing twice with slightly different wording...
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Yes, he’s a second-generation heir with no real ability of his own.
If he can’t pay ¥1 million, maybe he only has ¥500,000.
I’m unemployed too—I’d probably be rejected for an American Express card, sometimes even fail JCB’s screening, and I couldn’t even borrow ¥500,000 from a consumer finance company. What a mess.
Apparently, Sato-su, a blogger in the papa-katsu community, doesn’t have much cash on hand either. However, it seems his real estate and his wife’s assets are worth over ¥1 billion.