Tips Jul 18, 2025 23:40

I’m a woman in my 40s.

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It seems my husband has signed up here and is doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). At first, I felt disgusted, but strangely enough, I’ve become curious. Do places like this only look for glamorous women after all? Once you’ve settled into family life, is it impossible to be seen as a woman anymore?
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 40s 👑 Not stated
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Even if you’re married and a homemaker, you can still be very much in demand if you: - Have an attractive appearance - Look clean and well-groomed, maintain your figure, and have nice skin - Are charming and sexy You may need to keep working on yourself, though.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Everyone has different preferences when it comes to the opposite sex, so it’s not as though men are only looking for glamorous women. To give an extreme example, some men prefer ordinary middle-aged housewives from their neighborhood. If you’re in your 40s, you presumably already know this, but people change in different ways after getting married. Some develop a more domestic, settled air, while others don’t. I’m sure you wanted to write something here and get a response, and perhaps you felt like adding hashtags too, but this isn’t social media. I’m sure Maezawa will remove any hashtags with strange intentions.
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