I’m not very familiar with this, so I’d appreciate some insight.
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Are there people who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) while also working in the adult entertainment industry?
If so, is the way they spend time together (dinner, then a hotel, etc.) completely different when they’re with a sex worker versus a woman doing papa-katsu?
I’m sure it varies from person to person, but I’d appreciate hearing about your experiences.
About ten years ago, before I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I went to adult entertainment venues a few times. But often the women looked nothing like their photos or seemed completely unmotivated.
Papa-katsu is overwhelmingly better. I’ve also heard that around 70% of women in the adult-entertainment industry who see multiple clients in a day may have some kind of STI, so I don’t go anymore.
There are two main types: venue-based services, where you visit an establishment (such as a soapland), and delivery services, where a woman comes to your hotel or home.
I think the questioner is referring to the delivery type. In most cases, there’s no meal beforehand—just the activity. Generally, full sex isn’t included, and oral is the norm, though sometimes you can pay extra discreetly for full sex.
With papa-katsu, on the other hand, it’s often dinner followed by sex. Since papa-katsu is based on mutual agreement, some women prefer dinner only, with no sex. The allowance is lower if it’s dinner only, though.
For the record, Fuu only does papa-katsu that includes sex.
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Before getting into papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I used to visit adult-entertainment establishments quite often.
Since starting papa-katsu, I’ve cut back on that because I’d feel terrible if I passed an STI on to someone.
I never cheated when I was married, and I never visited those kinds of establishments either.
After getting divorced, I became really hooked on them. Now I’ve settled down and am enjoying papa-katsu. For better or worse, I’m the type who can keep the two separate.
I’ve never met a provider outside the establishment, but once, when a woman I was close with was finishing her last appointment of the day, we had drinks and enjoyed ourselves at a hotel.
She got extremely drunk, and it was quite a struggle getting her back to the waiting area.
Once you become close with someone, enjoying various things together may not be all that different in either adult entertainment or papa-katsu.
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Me too, to some extent.
In my case, various circumstances prevent me from visiting sex workers, so I stick to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and I only see one person.
The technique is probably much better with sex workers, but we’ve been seeing each other for a long time, so there’s no awkwardness between us, and she’s considerate in many ways. I don’t feel the need to visit sex workers anyway.
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I used adult entertainment services for 20 years, but I haven’t since joining a club.
That said, there are various types of services—soaplands, delivery services, hotel-based services, massage parlors, and so on—and the way you spend your time differs with each.
Generally speaking, you spend most of the time indoors, with little or no going out. (Usually there’s no meal, or if you do eat, it’s at the establishment or hotel.)
I also want to go on dates outside with women, so I often used the date option for outings.
For dates without an adult relationship (intimate), I more often used companion arrangements or after-hours meetups with women working in nightlife, such as hostesses and girls’ bars.
So, some people use clubs more like adult entertainment services, while others use them more like nightlife venues.
For me, it’s about 70% nightlife and 30% adult entertainment.
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I’m scared of STIs, so having both arrangements at the same time is impossible, right?
Recently, I hooked up with an adult video actress, and afterward my penis swelled up like crazy. I thought my life was over, but all the STI tests came back negative. Man, that really scared me...
If I passed an STI on to my main partner, my life would be over.
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