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Sep 8, 2026 15:39
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🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
What are you talking about? It’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), obviously.
It’d be horrifying if every guy over 40 in Japan were making out with someone in public in broad daylight.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
A truly generous papa (a well-paying supporter) wouldn’t do that—they’re already bored with it.
I think it’s only beginner papas or cost-conscious papas who do things like that.
Personally, I’m not interested in kissing or blowjobs, but I do like large breasts and chubby women.
P.S.
When you’re relaxing, try saying seductively, “A sudden deep kiss is ¥5,000 each time ♡”
They might be pleased and come back for more. Take a small hit to win big.
Put up with it and let him feed you mouth-to-mouth, and you could make a six-figure income from repeat visits. Since very few women stay with an unreasonable papa, you might even be able to claim all his assets for yourself.
マルケス
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クラブ活動歴だけは３０年以上と長いです。交際クラブの世界観は結構好きで楽しんでいます。60代後半になって大分以前とは活動内容が変わって来ていますが、まあ、楽しめる間は楽しもうと思っています。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Deep-kissing in public, wherever they happen to be, seems completely unhinged to me.
If you’re constantly getting offers from papas like that, maybe you give off some kind of unusual pheromone.
I’d guess that fewer than 5% of papas registered with Universe would be comfortable making out in public. So, in a way, you have an uncanny knack for attracting the rare ones.
ぬまちゃん
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🏅 素敵な女性のしもべ
クラブ活動を通して可愛がって頂ける中年を目指します。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
Let me answer your question.
The comfortable distance you maintain may be especially appealing to him. It’s not limited to men over 40—when a man feels comfortable and attracted to someone, wanting to kiss her may simply be part of being a man.
I’m shy myself, so I can’t make bold moves unless it’s dark, but if possible, accepting his advances without rejecting him may help the relationship last longer. If you’re really not comfortable with it, though, you may have no choice but to end things.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m over 40 myself, but I have no desire to kiss. Judging by the other answers, many people feel the same way. The idea that men over 40 want to make out is just the questioner’s assumption.
It sounds like your partner simply happens to be a man who likes deep kissing. If you want to know for sure, I think it’s best to ask him.
🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。
最近、筋トレにて、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を目指しています。現在、意図しない増量期です。
スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
To begin with, that’s a misunderstanding of the facts.
Maybe it’s because the men you’ve met are horny. If it’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), that would be expected—and it’s not as though doing papa-katsu means you’ll always kiss that way.
P.S. That was quite a sweeping question.
Apparently, speaking this way can cause problems such as:
- Ignoring diversity and spreading stereotypes—biased assumptions.
- Making the discussion overly simplistic, which can easily lead to misunderstandings or distortions of the facts.
- Giving listeners the impression that you’re careless or untrustworthy.
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Arbitrary labeling
People love putting everything into categories, lol.
It just so happens that the 40-plus papas the questioner has dealt with wanted to French-kiss.
It’s only that the questioner’s boyfriend and casual partner don’t French-kiss very much.
Some younger people like French kissing too, while some people over 40 probably dislike it.
Personally, I see it as an expression of affection, and I do like it when a woman initiates passionate kisses—it satisfies my need for validation.
There’s a woman in her 20s on a monthly arrangement who apparently gets turned on by making out, so she does it a lot and for a long time, saying how good it feels, lol. When she gets excited in the cowgirl position and kisses Fuu, it gets me excited too ^_^
It’s personally something I enjoy because it adds to the excitement, and it can definitely help heat things up during sex.
横断歩道
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in my 50s, and I’ve never once asked for a kiss outside of intimate encounters. How many people are you basing this question on, exactly?
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
During our intimate time, my monthly partner gets mad and says, “You don’t love me,” if I don’t deep-kiss her.
Outside of that, we don’t even share a light kiss, let alone a deep one. But she still asks for it. I think it’s not because she likes me, but because she wants to “keep this guy around somehow.”
If a generous papa or a papa you really like comes along, I’m sure there will be times when you’ll initiate kisses outside of intimate moments so you don’t get cut loose, too.
So maybe don’t look down on us guys over 40 too much.
For the record, I love kissing—and big breasts.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Please don’t lump all men over 40 together. I absolutely hate that kind of kissing—the slimy tongue is disgusting—and kissing doesn’t turn me on at all in the first place. I’ll occasionally kiss her on the lips while we’re having sex, but that’s because of the sense of dominance over her mouth, both top and bottom. Kissing by itself does nothing for me. I don’t get it.
Big breasts don’t do anything for me either. I wouldn’t know what to do with huge boobs. I’ve had women give me a tit job before, but the vagina feels a thousand times better.
I love deep penetration.
And of course, I don’t kiss in the car either. What’s that supposed to be? A girl once gave me oral sex while I was driving. It felt good, sure, but it was dangerous, so I wish she hadn’t. I don’t do it anymore, but I used to occasionally drive around with a naked girl in the passenger seat. That gave me some kind of sense of dominance—or maybe just satisfaction.
If someone suddenly French-kissed me while I was “casually relaxing,” of course I’d be completely shocked. It reminded me of an old manga called Komawari-kun. There was a gag where his homeroom teacher, Mr. Abe, was relaxing during an outdoor observation trip when Komawari-kun suddenly made him swallow a loach mouth-to-mouth, leaving him stunned. Right before that, it looked as though Komawari-kun was about to steal a kiss from Mr. Abe, but the absurd punchline was that he actually just wanted to pass the loach into his mouth.