Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Dec 16, 2025 17:42
Thank you in advance. I’m a female member who just registered this month. I have a few questions about Letter Dates. - In your experience, roughly what percentage of Letter Dates actually lead to meeting in person? An estimate is fine. - Approximately what percentage of all Universe Club members use this service? - When I went to my interview, I didn’t really understand what Letter Dates were, so I declined. Does declining leave a bad i...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
If you want to receive even a few more offers, I think it’s fine to allow letter dates as well.
Usually, you exchange LINE contact details directly and communicate that way, so it’s pretty much the same as Pato. If you’ve used Pato, you’ll know that cancellations at the last minute and suddenly losing contact can happen there too.
That said, even clubs have same-day cancellations.
Since the offer fee for a letter date is lower, if you don’t want to deal with stingy papas, …
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📅 Dec 16, 2025 14:30
What’s the appeal of making an offer to a B1 woman who’s just signed up and has no experience?
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
It can be a fun relationship when both people are looking for a B1-type arrangement—that’s all.
If the man is looking for a C-type arrangement, the woman may become fed up if things progress to an adult relationship and he then expects it every time afterward.
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📅 Dec 16, 2025 12:57
Is the transportation money I receive for dates (around ¥5,000–¥10,000) subject to tax? Since it’s considered transportation expenses, would it be tax-exempt? I’m embarrassed to say I don’t know much about this, so I’d appreciate any advice.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Yes, it is subject to taxation.
First, regarding Universe Club, the rules for transportation expenses have changed. It’s now a flat ¥10,000, rather than ¥5,000–¥10,000.
That said, it’s okay for the papa (a male supporter) to give more than the standard amount—for example, ¥20,000–¥30,000 for dinner only (no intimacy).
(It’s not okay for the woman to demand more than the standard transportation expense. Also, this “transportation expense” is actually compensation for accom…
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📅 Dec 16, 2025 00:42
The papa (male supporter) I’m seeing tried to book me for all day on December 23, 24, and 25, around Christmas. Do you think he’s genuinely falling for me?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
The chances are pretty high.
You may also be partly at fault for making the questioner catch real feelings, so be careful.
Or maybe you’re just bored.
Fuu is bored too. I try to be considerate of my monthly arrangement partners, so I don’t schedule dates on event days.
Last New Year’s Eve through New Year’s Day, I had a monthly partner who spent the holidays with me. Yes—after seven years of papa-katsu, Fuu finally caught real feelings for someone (gross, I know).
Then, …
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📅 Dec 15, 2025 16:55
What type do the men here usually make offers to? I was previously registered as Type C, but after changing to B1, I stopped receiving offers.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
C is the best.
After all, this is papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Most papas sign up because they want an adult relationship (intimate).
In terms of value for money, Fuu would only make offers to C.
There are women who’ll go out for meals or drinks without having to pay them.
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📅 Dec 15, 2025 14:10
When looking through the members’ page, I sometimes see profiles marked “available exclusively to secret female members.” How are arrangements with women whose profiles aren’t publicly listed handled? Do staff members approach you individually with recommendations, or do they suggest someone if you ask for advice? And do women who choose to remain secret tell the staff something like, “Please only introduce me to men like this”?
💬 Answer from ダイ:
When I was a Black member, a staff member introduced me to a secret woman.
I think you should become a Black member too and ask your assigned concierge for advice.
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📅 Dec 13, 2025 13:10
How many minutes before the scheduled time should I call a man meeting me for the first time after receiving his offer? I always call right on time, but would it be better to call a little earlier, like 5–10 minutes beforehand?
💬 Answer from 柄崎 一成（スタッフ）:
I’ll answer on behalf of Universe Club’s Yokohama branch as well.
Arriving too early can be inconvenient if he hasn’t arrived yet, while arriving exactly on time may make him feel uneasy. I think arriving five minutes early is ideal.
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📅 Dec 13, 2025 08:19
Honestly, this has really become a problem. I thought it would be fine to use the content of a trivial comment as a conversation topic, but I’ll be more careful from now on. I’m sorry.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Thank you for responding so candidly.
There’s a reason we don’t show staff comments to the women.
If those comments were shared with them, we’d only be able to write things that would be okay for the women to see going forward—in other words, they’d end up being nothing but bland, noncommittal remarks.
That would make them less useful as a reference, and I feel that if they’re going to be like that, there’s really no point in having them at all.
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📅 Dec 11, 2025 19:17
Are the staff comments meant to be funny? A woman I met before apparently told the staff during her interview that she liked cooking. When they asked what she had cooked the day before, she answered, “Gratin,” and the staff wrote in the comments, “Her specialty is gratin!” When I told her about the staff comment, she laughed half-heartedly and indignantly said, “That’s a lie!” That made me think the staff comments must be intended as a ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
No, that’s not right—you’ve got it wrong.
If a woman tells the staff that she enjoys cooking, she may not be able to answer when they ask, “What’s your specialty?” It’s perfectly normal to like cooking in general without having one particular favorite dish.
Since that alone wouldn’t give them anything to write in her profile comment, they may have asked, “What did you cook yesterday?” If she answered, “I had gratin yesterday,” it’s entirely possible they concluded that, sin…
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📅 Dec 11, 2025 17:04
When you do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) privately, you have to handle any problems yourself. But with dating clubs such as Universe Club, will the staff step in if an issue arises?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
The biggest advantage is the deterrent effect.
Members’ identities are held by the club.
Men have paid to become members, so if they do anything inappropriate, they risk being expelled and losing the chance to enjoy the service ever again. That pressure helps keep them in line.
Women, on the other hand, face the pressure of receiving fewer offers if negative feedback accumulates and their rating drops.
The fact that both sides have a place where they can tell the club, “T…
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📅 Dec 11, 2025 01:29
Since I don’t get aroused by a woman I’ve just met for the first time—someone whose background I know nothing about—I give even Type C women only the dinner allowance at the beginning. After we part, if she reaches out saying she’d like to have dinner again, I arrange our next meeting. I don’t give out my LINE because it’s registered under my real name. We communicate exclusively by SMS. Do any of you ever reveal your real name or your ...
💬 Answer from 横断歩道:
Giving her money right after meeting is a “transportation fee,” not an “allowance.”
As I understand it, with the current Type C arrangement, the first two hours are for the first meeting, and the next two hours are for private dating, where an allowance is paid.
During the first meeting, you agree on the allowance, and then:
1. You part ways without moving on to private dating (no allowance)
2. You move on to private dating without an adult relationship on the first day (p…
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📅 Dec 10, 2025 00:41
I’d like to ask the men here: How much weight do you give to information such as a woman’s photos, profile, and videos, compared with the staff’s comments about her? Based on my experience so far, men’s self-written profiles often feel rather formal and don’t reveal much about their personality, so I find the staff’s recommendation comments extremely helpful.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
> How much do you think people rely on it?
I don’t think there’s any set percentage.
They first look at the first photo and decide whether to view the profile. Once they open it, they look at all six photos, then read the staff’s comments, check any comments written by the woman herself, watch the video, and then decide whether to make an offer.
So it doesn’t seem to be a matter of relying on a certain percentage. When they make an offer, they appear to look at everything …
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📅 Dec 9, 2025 21:48
I’m 156 cm and 60 kg, with a body type that could be described as either slightly chubby or curvy. At first, I received offers from about two people a month, but now that it’s been a year, I hardly get any offers at all. Even when I send messages along with “You’re lovely,” or message people on PATOLO, it rarely leads to an offer. I was seeing someone for about a year, but we recently parted ways, so I’m looking for a new male member wh...
💬 Answer from ダイ:
I took a look at your profile.
Despite the disadvantage in terms of your body type, I think the fact that you received multiple offers early on is a testament to your appeal.
That said, I hope you won’t take this the wrong way, but since your target market is quite niche, I feel it may be difficult to receive many offers even if you have your photos retaken with your current figure.
Rather than going on an extreme diet, if you could lose another 5–10 kg in a healthy way, I…
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📅 Dec 9, 2025 13:43
I imagine an 18-year-old high school student would be flooded with offers, but are students still not allowed to join even if they’re 18? Sorry for asking such a creepy question at my age...
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
I don’t want to say it because you already seem aware of it, but you’re a million times creepier than you think.
Basically, what I’m saying is: you’re 50, and you’re still asking questions like this?
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📅 Dec 8, 2025 21:50
For those of you—women or men—who are seeing multiple partners, what’s the most people you’ve been involved with at one time? Thankfully, I’ve ended up with six regular papas (male supporters), which I’m grateful for, but I’ve started worrying about illnesses and wondering how many partners everyone else has. Is six considered too many? I’m feeling strangely worried and guilty about it... Papa ① and ②: I see them almost every week Papa ...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Before COVID, I had regulars in the cities I traveled to for work—Sapporo, Nagoya, Osaka, and Fukuoka—and around three or four, plus another two or so, in my home base of Tokyo whom I’d see occasionally. At my peak, I had about ten people.
Things have settled down now and I travel less, so I have around three or four regulars in Tokyo.
I do feel like STIs have become easier to catch. Besides the usual sex-work venues, it’s probably because of papa-katsu (compensated dating …
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📅 Dec 8, 2025 12:08
I’d like some advice because I’m feeling really upset after being canceled on the day of our second date. I’m a Type C woman. When I first met this gentleman through Universe, he said he had plans afterward, so we only had tea before parting, and he gave me transportation money. We also made plans for a second meeting then, but he canceled the day before because he wasn’t feeling well. We had arranged another date this time, but he canc...
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
I understand how you feel.
But you really shouldn’t get involved any further. If you demand payment, it’s highly likely to lead to even more trouble.
Let’s hope the next papa (a male supporter) is better.
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📅 Dec 8, 2025 08:06
Is it okay to confirm the terms of the arrangement and schedule with someone via messages on Patro, and then make them an offer through Universe Club? (If I use Patro’s messaging feature, would it violate the rules if I don’t submit the date request through Patro?) My Universe points are about to expire, so I’d prefer to use them there if possible. I’d just like to confirm the terms beforehand.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
There are plenty of men on PATOLO who don’t make an offer after sending messages.
Of course, I think it’s a different matter when the messages are malicious—like pranks or simply asking the other person questions without any real intention. But if someone chats with you and then decides they’re not interested after all, I think it’s perfectly normal for them not to make an offer.
Based on that, it seems like:
- Chatting and then not making an offer: no problem (unless the …
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📅 Dec 5, 2025 17:46
What would you do if someone you were dating had a strong underarm or intimate odor? - Put up with it silently and stay with them - Talk to them honestly, have them address it, and stay together - Date someone else I can see things turning into a conflict and ending the relationship the moment I tell them honestly, so if I wanted to keep things peaceful, it might be better not to say anything. I wish I could say, “I’ll pay for it, so ge...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
You don’t need to give her any money.
Just tell her. Say it kindly.
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📅 Dec 5, 2025 07:32
Sorry for the back-to-back questions (sweat). I’m planning to attend the party on the 18th♪ But I’m worried it might be awkward if I run into a man I’ve met before… Do any of you ever feel anxious about accidentally seeing someone from your past when you attend?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I go every time feeling a little anxious.
Since the 18th and 19th are the lounge’s final parties, I’ll be attending on the 18th too.
If I run into a woman who suddenly stopped replying, it might be a little awkward, but I’d ask something like, “How have you been?” If she seemed receptive, I might want to see her once or so. It’s kind of exciting (I’m such a perv lol).
Things didn’t end that badly with Fuu, so I think I can go.
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📅 Dec 5, 2025 01:29
I’d like to go to the upcoming standing buffet, but I’m worried that since I’m not cute, I might end up all alone. I’ll be arriving partway through—will it be even harder to find someone to talk to if I show up late? Also, would it be awkward if I ran into a man I’ve met before?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I go to Fuu pretty often. I’m going again on the 18th this time.
The impression I get is that there are usually more men than women, so if there are more men again, you probably won’t be left without any offers. At the last one I attended, the ratio of men was especially high, and there was even one where men were crowding around a woman who said she didn’t get many offers.
Even if you’re not particularly cute, you might still get some interest if you come with a clean, cla…