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I’m 156 cm and 60 kg, with a body type that could be described as either slightly chubby or curvy.

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At first, I received offers from about two people a month, but now that it’s been a year, I hardly get any offers at all. Even when I send messages along with “You’re lovely,” or message people on PATOLO, it rarely leads to an offer. I was seeing someone for about a year, but we recently parted ways, so I’m looking for a new male member who would be interested in a long-term arrangement. I know it’s partly my own fault, but I never photograph well in the pictures taken at Universe. Every time I meet a male member, they compliment me by saying I’m cuter in person than in my photos. I recently uploaded some unedited selfies, but what can I do to start receiving offers? I know many people prefer slim, slender women… Even so, I’d really like to start seeing a new papa. I’d be grateful for any advice. Also, I’m going in for my semiannual reshoot soon, so I’ll do my best to look cute in the photos!
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I took a look at your profile. Despite the disadvantage in terms of your body type, I think the fact that you received multiple offers early on is a testament to your appeal. That said, I hope you won’t take this the wrong way, but since your target market is quite niche, I feel it may be difficult to receive many offers even if you have your photos retaken with your current figure. Rather than going on an extreme diet, if you could lose another 5–10 kg in a healthy way, I think the number of offers you receive could change considerably. As for the photos, you look cute in the private ones because you seem relaxed. In the photos taken by the club, you look tense, so even with the same smile, you inevitably come across as more stiff. That said, I think that’s somewhat unavoidable when someone else is taking your picture.
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ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
There are plenty of cute women out there, so simply trying to look cute won’t get you very far. Instead, for your reshoot, I think it would be better to have photos taken that show your cosplay or hobbies. Focus on one strong selling point.
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顔合わせの刺激が好きすぎてオファー続けてます。町中華をこよなく愛してます。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I took a look at your profile. I personally prefer slimmer women, but in my opinion, you might appeal to a wider range of people if you lost a little weight first. Your photos don’t give a bad impression at all. If your goal is to receive more offers, I think you should remove the age restrictions. Otherwise, you may be missing out on opportunities from people outside that range. Listing your schedule is a good idea, but it was quite tight, so it might help to add a few more days when you’re available. Messages like “You’re lovely” or “I’d love to meet you” are more likely to resonate when they’re thoughtful and detailed enough to show you’ve really considered the other person. Good luck!
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👨 Male Universe member
I just received the information, but I can’t contact anyone at the moment. Once I’m able to, I’ll send you something as well. I’ve left Universe, so I’m sorry about all the hassle and confusion (>_<)! Now that I can see your profile, I’ll share a few thoughts. Overall, you have a cute look, and I don’t think you photograph badly either. That said, at an escort club, there are always girls who are even more attractive, so I think that’s why you haven’t received any offers involving money yet. The staff comments also introduce you in a very positive light. For your next photo shoot, this 71-year-old grandpa wonders if you might want to go for a slightly more mature look, perhaps wearing a dress, and avoid being too particular about the age of men you’re willing to date. You don’t drink, but I think being able to accompany someone to a drinking occasion would broaden your opportunities. How does that sound? There’s no need to rush or push yourself. Just take your time and build a trusting relationship with the people you meet. Let’s keep at it! (Haha)
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To be completely honest, in my case, I wouldn’t consider someone for an offer at 156 cm unless she weighed around 50 kg or less. Of course, some people prefer curvier women, but there’s no question that women with average builds are the majority. You don’t need to go on an extreme diet, but if you’re seriously determined to increase the number of offers you receive, I think losing some weight would improve your chances. As for your concern about how you look in photos, keep in mind that the photos are taken by staff—not professional photographers—and aren’t edited, so I don’t think you need to worry as much as you are. Women may not realize this because they can’t view other women’s profiles, but even among the club’s unedited photos, there aren’t many people who look especially photogenic. You don’t need to force yourself, but it might also be worth considering raising the age range of people you’re willing to date. I can’t see the messages you sent, but you should write each one specifically for the person you’re contacting. Bad example: “I saw your profile and was interested, so I decided to reach out. I look forward to hearing from you.” If I received a message like that, I wouldn’t reply. It just looks like it was sent casually without much thought. If the person mentions hobbies in their profile, for example, start by commenting on something you genuinely have in common and then send your message from there.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I can kind of imagine what you mean. Everyone has different preferences, so if you’re healthy, I think that’s what matters. Writing sexy comments or mentioning your favorite kinks might lead to more offers. But it’s a double-edged sword—you might attract some kinky papas (male supporters). P.S. You’re already getting offers, and there are definitely people who like curvier women. I have friends like that too, so personally, I think you’re fine just as you are. Eating disorders are scary.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Thank you for contacting me on LINE regarding “Maezawa.” After looking over your profile, I’m going to be quite frank. Regarding your photos: > “I always look bad in photos.” Since I haven’t met you in person, I can’t say for sure, but comparing them with your video, I don’t think you look particularly bad in photos. You probably look fairly much like your real-life appearance. That said, I don’t think the photos really bring out your appeal. For example, I believe your current photos were taken during the reshoot, but I find the outfit in your original membership photos more appealing. The tight leather-like miniskirt looked good. The pose you took at the time—leaning forward on one knee—also suited the outfit, so I think the photographer’s skill played a part as well. So, I’d say the first two photos were good, while the remaining four were fairly ordinary. Your hairstyle was also more like a one-length cut at first, so your hair covered some of the fullness in your face and created a flattering look. Your current style looks somewhat like wispy side bangs, but I feel your previous hairstyle made your face look less round. So, if you’re going for another reshoot, I think these would work well: - Your previous hairstyle (from your initial interview) - Something similar to your previous leather miniskirt > “I tried uploading some selfies as well.” Your selfies are cute. If those are closer to how you actually look, then I do wish Universe had taken photos at that level too. So I do believe you when you say that you don’t photograph well at Universe. However, in general, most people assume that selfies are probably edited—even when they aren’t—and that selfies often make someone look better than they do in person, perhaps because of the angle. That’s why I think many people use the Universe photos as their basis. > “I’d be grateful for any advice.” When I checked your profile, I noticed that there was no audio in your video. I’m sorry—that was our oversight. Leaving it like that for six months is really unacceptable. Someone should at least have asked whether you wanted to reshoot just the video right away. Also, when I watched the video from your initial interview, some parts were difficult to make out, but you said things like: “I have a strong sex drive,” and “I want to.” I imagine many people decided to make an offer after seeing that. But since the video from your reshoot has no audio, I think some men may have decided not to make an offer because they couldn’t hear your voice. (I’m sorry if the problem is only on my end. I can hear the audio in other people’s videos.) We tell staff to wear earphones and monitor the audio while filming videos, but many of them seem to think, “I’m fine. Mine recorded properly. That happens to other people.” Then, when something doesn’t record, it turns into, “It normally works. It just happened not to record this time.” But the whole reason we tell them to monitor the audio is to prevent that “one time” from happening… Anyway, I’ve gotten off track. For your next reshoot, I feel it might be good to include something again about having a strong sex drive. Of course, it’s a double-edged sword, since you might receive offers from men who see women only as an outlet for their own desires. But if you’re able to deal with those men firmly after receiving an offer, I think it could be a worthwhile thing to highlight. As for the photos, I also think it might be worth trying something a little sexier. If you’re wearing a tight leather miniskirt on the bottom, the question is what to wear on top. Perhaps a leather jacket: https://c.imgz.jp/040/98304040/98304040b_b_30_500.jpg Or a leather jacket with a low-cut top underneath: https://jp.pinterest.com/pin/651122058649019639/ A knit top could work too: https://jp.pinterest.com/pin/144748575525478832/ You could even go all the way and wear a sheer knit top with nothing underneath. https://img.b-pep.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2021/03/01.jpg https://erologz.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/knit_suketikubi-06002.jpg https://erologz.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/knit_suketikubi-06003.jpg https://erologz.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/knit_suketikubi-06004.jpg https://erologz.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/knit_suketikubi-06023.jpg https://erologz.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/knit_suketikubi-06026.jpg Just to defend myself a little: anyone who has seen shop windows overseas probably knows that mannequins abroad are styled like this. Maybe it’s just a cultural difference. http://anglophobia.way-nifty.com/survival/images/mannequin.jpg https://pbs.twimg.com/media/Cp4Uv3ZVYAAI5Q5?format=jpg&name=900x900 https://i.redd.it/rhonq0blh2g81.jpg http://jolanta.blog.fc2.com/img/DSC_5587_copy_800x451.jpg/ https://blog-imgs-171.fc2.com/j/o/l/jolanta/DSC_5588_copy_800x451.jpg And celebrity actresses on the red carpet: https://pashalism.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/289-2.jpg https://pashalism.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/289-4-scaled.jpg https://pashalism.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/289-5.jpg https://pashalism.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/289-6.jpg https://pashalism.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/289-8.jpg https://pashalism.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/289-15.jpg https://pashalism.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/289-21.jpg That was a rather long defense, wasn’t it? As for the line in your profile: “・I love eating!” That might be a plus for someone who’s slim, but in this case, I feel it could work against you. Regarding the “age range for dates,” I think it would be better to remove the upper limit of 60s and allow any age. Are you worried that someone extremely frail might show up? Most men seem to be reasonably energetic, though.
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