I’d like to go to the upcoming standing buffet, but I’m worried that since I’m not cute, I might end up all alone.

I go to Fuu pretty often. I’m going again on the 18th this time. The impression I get is that there are usually more men than women, so if there are more men again, you probably won’t be left without any offers. At the last one I attended, the ratio of men was especially high, and there was even one where men were crowding around a woman who said she didn’t get many offers. Even if you’re not particularly cute, you might still get some interest if you come with a clean, classy vibe. I’m always worried that it might be awkward with someone I ghosted, too. It depends on the person, but since it was a connection worth having, I might ask if they want to start things up again after all this time—lol.

Since joining partway through can feel like starting at a slight disadvantage, I think it’s perfectly fine to wait until you can participate from the beginning. Even if you reconnect with a man you’ve met before, you’re both adults, so I don’t think it would have to be awkward.

I attended one of the standing social events held at Universe Lounge in September. I didn’t see any women left standing alone, so I think you’ll be fine. I was also a little concerned about possibly running into someone I’d met before. If you’ve received offers from hundreds of people, there might be a chance, but if it’s only a few dozen, you probably won’t run into them. Even if you do, I personally think you can get through it by simply not talking to each other. Hope this helps.