Tips Dec 5, 2025 07:32

Sorry for the back-to-back questions (sweat). I’m planning to attend the party on the 18th♪

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But I’m worried it might be awkward if I run into a man I’ve met before… Do any of you ever feel anxious about accidentally seeing someone from your past when you attend?
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I go every time feeling a little anxious. Since the 18th and 19th are the lounge’s final parties, I’ll be attending on the 18th too. If I run into a woman who suddenly stopped replying, it might be a little awkward, but I’d ask something like, “How have you been?” If she seemed receptive, I might want to see her once or so. It’s kind of exciting (I’m such a perv lol). Things didn’t end that badly with Fuu, so I think I can go.
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If it’s someone from the past, you can just avoid them on the spot, but I really wouldn’t want to meet someone I’m still seeing...
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Do you ever worry about running into someone you’ve met before when you participate? I feel like it really shouldn’t matter what other people do. Also, whenever I see this phrase, I can’t help thinking that one of the regulars must be feeling lonely and posted it. As for the main point: since you’re both adults, I think you’d just act normally. I don’t think it would become awkward. I believe the information sheet also mentioned that you might run into someone you’d been matched with in the past.
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Well, I say this as someone who’s never actually taken part, but I imagine it depends on your relationship with the person you met before. If you simply turned each other down, that’s pretty common at a dating club, so just say something like, “Sorry about the other day. How’s everything going with your activities?” and greet them normally. With anyone, it’s best to participate under the dating club’s rules while assuming you may run into them again someday. I’d say having new opportunities come your way is more important than feeling awkward about it. Thick-skinned, humble, and generous with your wallet—that was Date’s basic motto(笑)
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