I’ve been seeing my papa (a male supporter) for a little while now, and his shedding has started to bother me.
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He has a lot of body hair, and whenever we take a bath together, so much hair floats in the water that I find it unpleasant and lose the mood before intimacy.
Even after we get out, there’s so much hair scattered on the floor that it’s difficult to find anywhere to step.
He’s a serious, nice person, and our conversations are easy and uneventful. He also doesn’t take up much time, so meeting him is relatively easy for me. But if possible, I’d like him to do something about it. Is there a tactful way to bring it up without hurting his feelings?
Am I being overly sensitive?
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Once that issue is resolved, I think you’ll start noticing the man’s next shortcoming.
The reason is that the questioner isn’t being overly sensitive—they simply haven’t fallen for this man. They don’t dislike him; that’s all.
I’m not saying you have to fall in love with him. It’s just that this is the kind of distance people naturally keep from someone they don’t like romantically. Since you’re setting that aside and having sex with him, there’s not much to do but put up with it.
Once the questioner finds a boyfriend they genuinely love, even his shed body hair will probably seem endearing.
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If you can’t stand something on a visceral level, you can’t stand it.
If the man is married, it may be difficult, but full-body hair removal takes time; once it’s done, unwanted hair will be almost nonexistent.
If you’re going to recommend full-body hair removal, it should be enough to simply put a positive spin on it by saying that you prefer a completely smooth look.
I’ve been kind enough to spell it out this much, so you can come up with your own lines for persuading him to get full-body hair removal.
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