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Feb 12, 2025 00:59
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Since I had sex with all three during the time I was infected, there’s a chance they’ve all been infected as well.
I’ve told each of them, “You’re the only one for me,” so I can’t tell them I have an STI. They’ve also each told me I’m the only one they’re seeing. I’d like to avoid trouble by making it seem as though they were lying and that I caught it from one of them.
But that only works if all three of them were definitely seeing multiple other men.
I don’t want to break up with any of them, and I don’t want an innocent woman—someone who has nothing to do with STIs—to be disappointed in me and leave me.
How can I resolve this without it coming out that I infected them? Is there any way to cover it up if I’m found out? I don’t want to rely on expensive gifts or increasing their allowance.
6 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
No, no—every woman knows that “you’re the only one” is a lie.
The person asking probably caught it from one of those four too, haha.
You need to tell everyone. If they don’t all get treated, it’ll just keep getting passed back and forth, and you’ll catch it again, haha. You won’t develop immunity.
Your only option is to tell them. If that means breaking up, then break up and look for offers from new people at the club.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Could it really be the same person changing computers and posting questions all over the place…?
Or are there two or three of them?
Maybe they’re just baiting people… and others are taking the bait…
Even when they change the wording, it’s become pretty formulaic…
You can sense it…
Are they trying to tackle writing something completely incomprehensible?
Do they want to look down on someone… or are they just here to vent?
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
About a papa who pays travel expenses afterward. I have a long-distance arrangement with a papa. About three times a month, I fly to his place every time I...
2024/11/05 16:23 Female, 20s, Universe Club female member 42381
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17336
The ID is the same as well.
I have absolutely no idea what the purpose of posts like this is, and even if I tried to speculate, I’d probably be wrong. But if I had to guess:
There’s a rule of thumb that says, “The profile in someone’s first question is usually accurate. Any changes to age or gender tend to happen from the second question onward.”
So perhaps the questioner is a woman who caught gonorrhea from someone, assumed that person must have been her papa, and then wrote an intentionally crude, insulting question to vent her frustration and get the other users to abuse him on her behalf.
Can anyone think of another possible reason for this questioner’s behavior? If any of the other respondents have ideas, please share them.
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Incidentally, the following series of questions also has the same ID—though it’s probably a different person from the questioner this time. This person changed from a man in his 50s to a woman in her 20s. I’m a little late to the party, so I’ll add this note to the answer section of the newest question.
“Having an adult relationship as a prerequisite is just too much.” I’m a female member. A staff member told me that Type A women receive very few offers, so I changed to Type B, but...
2025/02/11 21:40 Female, 20s, Universe Club female member 89301
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17519
“At the dating club, some clients say, ‘I don’t want a pro; I want an inexperienced girl.’ But I think an inexperienced girl would run away after seeing a naked old man.”
2025/02/02 22:38 Female, 20s, Universe Club female member 89301
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17496
“There’s an older guy who’s terrible at being on top. It’s like... even though I’m moving, he thrusts upward from underneath too, so we end up moving together...”
2025/01/28 00:52 Female, 20s, Universe Club female member 89301
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17489
“A platinum woman in her mid-20s whom I’m seeing told me, ‘I’ve hardly had any adult relationship experience.’ However, the dating type she registered as was Type C...”
2024/08/26 11:27 Male, 50s, Universe Club male member 89301
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17117
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> Maybe the same person keeps changing computers and posting questions everywhere.
You can’t say that for certain.
The person below may seem, at first glance, to be posting questions just to troll, but this is their 27th question. Their profile details haven’t changed, and when you read through their previous questions, there’s a fairly coherent storyline. It’s actually quite interesting.
“What is the sex life of Type D women like? Are many of them involved in group sex on a regular basis?”
2025/02/11 10:40 Male, age not answered, Universe Club male member 84692
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17515
The person below is also posting for the second time, but they come across as a genuine beginner, which I find rather likable.
“I have a date with someone who’s Type B2... Could you advise me on negotiating the allowance for our next date? At the end of our last date, we only agreed to meet again and exchanged contact...”
2025/02/11 20:08 Male, 50s, Universe Club male member 71495
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17518
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> I tell her things like, “You’re the only one for me,” so I can’t tell her that I’ve contracted an STI.
> I don’t want her—an innocent woman with no history of STIs—to become disillusioned with me and break up with me.
> I don’t want expensive gifts or an increased allowance, either.
“Geshu” is generally used to describe someone with a vulgar, despicable personality—in other words, a sleazy person.
Basically, it refers to someone lacking in decency: a lowlife or morally base person.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you don’t tell them, you’ll just keep reinfecting each other, so give it up.
As an apology, maybe one of them will forgive you if you give everyone ¥1 million.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
That’s not something a grown adult should be saying. You should start by reflecting on how self-serving your expectations are.