I don’t know the exact percentage, but there are probably quite a few women who don’t receive any offers.
Clubs don’t get paid by the women, and their interviews are relatively lenient
(which is fine, really).
Papa (a male supporter) won’t pay money to make an offer to someone who isn’t his type.
With papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) apps, there aren’t even interviews, so unattractive or unkempt people can join freely. That probably means there are even more women who don’t get approached.
Unless you have a certain level of looks or appeal—or something that attracts men even if you’re not conventionally attractive—you won’t receive offers.
But that’s just reality. That’s how it is.
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Because of the 80/20 rule, it’s possible that around 70% of both men and women aren’t getting the kind of arrangement they hoped for.
Men in that position tend to keep participating, but women seem more likely to eventually give up and leave.
From the club’s perspective, they want men to stay for three to five years. At the same time, the business wouldn’t work if women simply remained registered indefinitely, so systems that are almost like automatic withdrawal after six months do exist. I think there needs to be an atmosphere where women who receive no offers give up and leave sooner.
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These days, the gender ratio has improved and is getting close to 1:1, so that’s not really the case anymore. Only a small minority receive no offers at all.
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I used to hear that about half of the women who registered went six months without receiving a single offer, but later I heard that the percentage of women who received no offers during their first six months had improved.
This is the first time I’ve heard that 70% give up and leave. What I’d heard was the situation described above.
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