Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Jul 21, 2026 22:24
I’m currently a first-year graduate student. Since I’m in a master’s program, I’m scheduled to gradu...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
If it were me, when deciding about the next day, I’d say, “I’m going t…
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📅 Jul 21, 2026 13:58
I have a question about PATLO’s Order Date feature. I messaged a woman I’m interested in, but it’s b...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I’m guessing the first message you sent was pretty awful.
In that cas…
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📅 Jul 21, 2026 01:55
I’m a 30-year-old married woman. I’m planning to start trying for a baby soon, so I’m thinking of ta...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
If I’ve treated a woman really well while she was single, I’ll continu…
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📅 Jul 20, 2026 14:32
I’ve been seeing someone on a pay-per-meeting arrangement of 100,000 yen, usually staying overnight ...
💬 Answer from 横断歩道:
It’s completely different depending on whether you go somewhere the wo…
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📅 Jul 19, 2026 22:06
I’m feeling overwhelmed by stress from my monthly arrangement… Maybe papa-katsu (compensated dating ...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
The frustration comes from seeing him as a man, so just think of him a…
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📅 Jul 19, 2026 14:52
These photos were taken last week, and I’m still waiting for confirmation that my registration has b...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Even within Tokyo, there are four branches, and how busy they are vari…
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📅 Jul 18, 2026 22:40
Does anyone have a long-term contract with a city hotel? I’m seeing women about four times a week. I...
💬 Answer from フラグメーカー:
I rented a place as both a home office and a second home, thinking I c…
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📅 Jul 18, 2026 19:10
I’ve turned 30, so I’m no longer in the most advantageous age range, but I’m thinking about starting...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
You’re the same person who posted the previous question, right?
You w…
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📅 Jul 18, 2026 01:36
This is embarrassing to admit, but even though I’m in my 20s, I’ve never been with a man before, and...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Hmm…
If your papa (a male supporter) won’t stop even after you tell h…
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📅 Jul 17, 2026 13:05
I made an offer to a woman, but she turned it down because she felt we probably wouldn’t click—even ...
💬 Answer from 負け男:
Even popular women sometimes turn down a proposed date.
I’ve had seve…
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📅 Jul 17, 2026 01:44
In exchange for not seeing multiple men, he agreed to increase my monthly allowance. Since this invo...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
The unpleasant aspects include:
- He handed me an envelope inside the…
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📅 Jul 15, 2026 19:42
I’m thinking about signing up with a dating club. I have an average-looking face and a figure that’s...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
He’s an older man who invests in stocks. He likes curvy women.
I have…
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📅 Jul 15, 2026 09:47
The other day, I asked a question (or perhaps more of a rant) about being invited on a second date b...
💬 Answer from フラグメーカー:
It feels like 5–10 years ago, you didn’t even have to negotiate the al…
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📅 Jul 13, 2026 20:36
Are women registered as B2 generally offered higher allowances? I’m registered as type C, and I ofte...
💬 Answer from 横断歩道:
This doesn’t really answer your question, but here’s my honest reactio…
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📅 Jul 11, 2026 16:19
About a B2-type woman The other day, I had dinner with a B2-type woman and we exchanged contact info...
💬 Answer from 日月新:
True, if someone says they’ll pay ¥30,000 or ¥20,000 for dinner and th…
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📅 Jul 10, 2026 20:28
Why is she opposed to marrying someone much older, yet able to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in ...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
Is it the difference between free sex and paid sex?
Wouldn’t you hate…
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📅 Jul 10, 2026 13:53
I’m considering joining. I saw the news that card payments at nightlife establishments are no longer...
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Just wanted to say the trendy thing.
That’s fine—it livens up the Q&A…
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📅 Jul 9, 2026 22:12
I’d like some advice about a papa (a male supporter) with a very emotionally unstable personality. I...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
I don’t think he’s mentally unstable—he just wants constant attention.…
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📅 Jul 9, 2026 22:05
I can’t fall in love with anyone. I may long for romance, but my feelings don’t follow. What kind of...
💬 Answer from フラーレン:
Fullerene here!
Is there really any problem with not being able to fa…
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📅 Jul 9, 2026 12:04
I’m a married man in my 50s, and I’ve been seeing a papa-katsu girl in her 20s for dinner only—no ad...
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
If you’re thinking, “Am I just a meal companion to him??”
then you sh…