Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Sep 12, 2026 18:07
Do I need to file a tax return for the allowance I receive through a dating club? Will I have to pay income tax or anything like that?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Try asking Gemini.
Lately, I get the impression that ChatGPT has stopped answering questions about erotic topics and papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). There may be a way to phrase things in the prompt, but Gemini seems a little more lenient.
To the person who asked the question, let me offer a few phrases:
- Sometimes it’s better not to say anything.
- Poking around in the bushes only brings out snakes.
- You’re digging your own grave.
- Missing the mark with your …
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📅 Sep 10, 2026 08:29
I’d like to know my rank. I’ve received offers from both Black and Platinum members, so I’m not sure which one I am. Is asking the clients the only way to find out?
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
There are so many things to pick apart in this question.
The club has a rule against telling women their class. And even if a woman finds out her class, there’s nothing to be gained from knowing it. If you ask them to change your class, they’ll simply ask, “How did you find out your class in the first place?”
If she says she was told by Mr. X, that man would receive a stern warning. If he kept doing it repeatedly, he’d be expelled from the club.
It’s better to enjoy your d…
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📅 Sep 9, 2026 22:08
I’m considering signing up for this site. I live with my parents and have a 11 p.m. curfew. Would I still be able to participate under those circumstances? Overnight stays are okay as long as they’re arranged in advance. Please assume that it takes about an hour to get from central Tokyo to my home. Thank you in advance 🙇♀️
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Having days when you can meet during the day (around lunchtime) should be enough.
For evenings, if you tell the staff and clearly note something like, “I’d like to be finished by 10 p.m. in Tokyo because I have a curfew,” a papa (a male supporter) will probably make an offer for a date that fits within that time.
For a first meeting, the club’s rules limit it to four hours, so ask the papa to arrange something like 6–10 p.m. or 5–9 p.m.
As an aside, please be extremely car…
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📅 Sep 9, 2026 20:28
Thank you for all your answers about my question on being affectionate during an overseas date. When we traveled, if I cuddled up to him or held his hand, he would say, “If you’re going to do that, I’ll do this to you,” then put his hand inside my clothes and try to touch my breasts. He also deep-kissed me whenever he got the chance, and repeatedly groped my breasts. When I got fed up and stopped cuddling up to him, he got angry. When I...
💬 Answer from フラグメーカー:
“Keep that up and I’ll do this to you, okay?”
That line alone gives me the creeps. You’d have to be pretty bold to say something like that.
If it were me, I’d get away from him. I’d probably have an allergic reaction.
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📅 Sep 8, 2026 15:39
My boyfriend and younger men don’t French-kiss except during intimacy, and I feel the same way. So why do men over 40 want deep kisses even outside of intimacy—like in the car or while we’re just relaxing together?
💬 Answer from フラグメーカー:
What are you talking about? It’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), obviously.
It’d be horrifying if every guy over 40 in Japan were making out with someone in public in broad daylight.
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📅 Sep 8, 2026 01:43
We had an argument on my first overseas date. I received an allowance for each day and went abroad with him, but he got upset, saying that even though we had sex, there wasn’t enough affection. I can’t leave because we’re overseas. Even when I ask him to explain, he won’t tell me. We did hug and kiss, but what does a man mean when he says there wasn’t enough affection?
💬 Answer from フラグメーカー:
If you look up something like “managing expectations consulting,” you’ll probably find ideas that can be applied to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) too.
I’ll be blunt: when men expect a trip in papa-katsu, they’re not expecting an ordinary vacation.
They’re expecting an “erotic trip.”
My guess is that there just wasn’t enough sexiness. Don’t take things like cuddling too literally. I mean eroticism—direct, memorable erotic experiences that stimulate the brain.
Fo…
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📅 Sep 7, 2026 22:17
Could someone explain how to read the “Female Members List”? When I look at the members list, there’s a class and relationship type below each member’s name and age, along with labels such as B or C. I assume these are different from the relationship type, but what exactly do they represent? I’d appreciate it if someone could explain. Thank you.
💬 Answer from カズ:
Please paste the Japanese text you’d like translated.
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📅 Sep 5, 2026 01:48
Where do you think the line is for being emotionally unstable? If I don’t get a reply on LINE (within a few hours), even though they had been responding quickly before, I get asked, “Why did you unsend that message?” Is it really that unpleasant? I send messages because I’m worried about them, but when I don’t get a reply—or only receive a thank-you—I feel uncomfortable, thinking that’s all they feel, so I unsent the messages. The perso...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
From the question, he doesn’t come across as emotionally unstable so much as self-centered and awkward, with rigid expectations about messaging and a desire for the other person to match his pace. In short, he’s a “high-maintenance papa.”
Money is necessary in these relationships, but paying doesn’t mean you can do whatever you want, so he also seems to lack humility. If you write, “I’m paying you, after all,” in this context, of course people will react negatively. The pers…
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📅 Sep 3, 2026 18:30
I’m meeting a papa for the first time tomorrow. Is ¥5,000 for visiting dessert spots and ¥3,000 for the first meeting reasonable? I’m in my early 20s.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Is this your first time doing papa-katsu through an app?
Actually, that’s what I’m curious about too lol
How old is your papa?
Sweets-hopping usually means being surrounded by (young) women, so I feel like you might stand out if you go with an older man lol
Afternoon tea is different, though, so that might be a better option.
You decide your own value. Try to eliminate wishful thinking as much as possible and calmly assess the value of your personal brand compared with …
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📅 Sep 3, 2026 05:30
Question for the men: I believe my allowance was set at 6, but I occasionally received offers from men offering 10 or even 20. I had assumed that men chose from the women’s lineup based on their budget, but do they not know a woman’s desired allowance when making an offer? I was once told that setting the allowance too high would lead to fewer offers, so it’s better not to set it too high, but is that really the case?
💬 Answer from マックさん:
The girl I met on Patro had originally been using another app, but apparently switched because Patro has a field where women can state their desired allowance. She had written “4,” but I gave her 5 since I give every girl 5 across the board.
I don’t do this myself, but apparently quite a few financially comfortable papas will offer double—or even more—after seeing the requested amount, just to outbid the other papas.
Unrelated, but yesterday I took a girl to a southern isla…
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📅 Sep 2, 2026 19:13
I’m meeting two new men through Universe Club next week. If my period starts right beforehand, should I let them know in advance? Since I’m Type C, I should tell them, right? I’m very confident when it comes to oral, but that doesn’t mean everyone likes it—the men may have their own preferences, too.
💬 Answer from 日月新:
Please tell him in advance.
Even if he hasn’t said it directly, I think it’s important to meet the expectations he likely has.
If he’s expecting something after dinner, you’ll be disappointing him. If that happens, the arrangement probably won’t last.
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📅 Sep 2, 2026 09:31
Is it wrong to assume that an allowance of 10 means we can go for two rounds? The woman I met before requested an allowance of 10, and I paid her exactly what she asked for. I’m embarrassed by how stingy this sounds, but I thought that for 10, maybe we could go for two rounds. However, after the first round, she took a shower, got dressed, and seemed ready to leave. I’m timid by nature, so I couldn’t ask for another round, and I just go...
💬 Answer from フラグメーカー:
You’re not wrong. Absolutely not wrong. I’ve felt that way too.
The only difference is that if I’m thinking I’ll give her 10 and go for a second round, but she starts getting ready to leave right away, I just grin to myself. From an outside perspective, it’s kind of a funny situation.
Then I leave the hotel, have a cigarette, let one rip, get on the train, and head home quietly like normal while listening to the radio or something.
Even if I kept repeating this kind of thi…
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📅 Sep 1, 2026 21:18
Hello. I’m new to an exclusive dating club. Thankfully, I received my first offer the other day. To be honest, I had been prepared for the possibility that no offers would come, so I’m truly happy and really looking forward to meeting him! However, since I’m a beginner, I’m still unsure about many things, and I’m a little nervous too. I’ve been wondering about everything from what hairstyle to choose to whether I should pay more attenti...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
“Don’t show bare legs,” “Wear shoes with heels,” “A classy dress is best,” “You shouldn’t show your shoulders,” and so on…
↑ None of that matters at all. Sneakers are fine too. They may not even notice. There’s no need to buy anything.
More importantly, even if you don’t speak perfectly, smile and talk as if you’re enjoying yourself.
That’s the only thing that matters most.
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📅 Aug 31, 2026 21:52
I have a question about women’s profiles. There are women who are newly uploaded as “new members” and then disappear almost immediately, presumably because they’re extremely popular and receive a flood of requests. Even some of these women are listed again as “reposted” a month or so later. I assume this may be because things didn’t continue with the person they met through a request when they were first listed, which is why they were r...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
Women who get so many offers that their profiles are temporarily hidden, but reappear after a while, are probably either asking for a high allowance or are busy and have very few days available for dates.
By the way, what kind of period do you mean by “long-term”? Three months or three years? I’m guessing you mean wanting things to continue beyond the second meeting? After that, you can just end it whenever you get bored and want to move on.
I don’t think you can tell from …
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📅 Aug 30, 2026 23:42
How should I deal with my emotionally unstable papa? He gives me work separately from my allowance, and I work at his company, but he sends a huge number of LINE messages and got extremely angry when I fell behind on replying. We talked it out once until I cried, but it happened again this time, and I’m thinking about ending things. However, I receive work from my papa’s company, so I’m worried that quitting suddenly would look bad in f...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
The possessive old man seems to have deep feelings for you.
Try negotiating with him by saying, “I’m quitting because your possessiveness has gotten too much.” He might panic and back down when you play the quitting card.
If you’re making a decent amount, just think of replying to his LINE messages as part of the job. Personally, I hate people who let messages pile up.
But if you’re not making much and quitting wouldn’t affect your life, tell the agency, “I’m quitting beca…
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📅 Aug 30, 2026 22:36
I’ve been seeing a woman through a dating club for three months, and we’ve met around ten times. We get along well, and her stories have been consistent. She doesn’t seem like the typical transactional type, but I still don’t feel like I really know her. We’re usually both considerate and hardly ever message each other on LINE, so I wonder if that’s part of the reason. Is this what it’s usually like for people in long-term arrangements?...
💬 Answer from シアトル:
I think it’s a good idea to gradually deepen the relationship without making her uncomfortable. If you only ever talk about superficial things, it’ll get stale and probably won’t last a year.
With someone you’ve been seeing for several years, you can share some personal information and talk about your everyday life—but be careful not to turn it into bragging. Try to listen to her as much as possible.
If you approach things from the perspective of how she can live happily fo…
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📅 Aug 30, 2026 20:51
Has anyone here married their papa? I recently ended things with a papa who had been causing me a ton of stress. Even though he was married, he became extremely fixated on me and started acting like a stalker. He also demanded a lot in return for the money he gave me and was very controlling, which was incredibly stressful, so I finally ended things. I’m single and have one child. There’s an unmarried papa I’ve been seeing for about thr...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
That sounds like what people call the jitters before marriage. Maybe they’ve lost confidence because their first marriage didn’t work out.
Some people find happiness through marriage, but not everyone does. I suppose you could approach it like drawing a lottery ticket that says, “You might be happy if you’re lucky.” Who knows, though.
The reason I say “who knows” is that I myself wasn’t able to find happiness through marriage—I got divorced and ended up where I am now. Most…
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📅 Aug 29, 2026 15:09
Thank you all for your answers. A lot of the comments sound rather condescending and definitive, so please go easy on me. That said, I do agree with part of Mack’s answer. What are women looking for in men? What do you all think? (Mack, you’ve never really thought about that, have you?) ※I’ve edited part of the question.
💬 Answer from Fuu:
LOL
Sure! As requested, I’ll kindly share Fuu’s thoughts.
I’m pretty simple, so I don’t overthink things. Since this is a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) setting, what women are looking for is money—how to receive as much as possible while keeping things easy and comfortable.
Men, on the other hand, want to get a young, beautiful woman and enjoy a girlfriend-like or pseudo-romantic experience, as well as satisfying intimacy, for as little as possible.
When men do…
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📅 Aug 28, 2026 17:50
I want to be popular! I want to be loved! Taking the age gap into account as a disadvantage, I work toward that goal. But when I asked myself where it was all leading, the answer was sex with love（笑）。 In the end, it’s just sexual desire, which even I have to laugh at. There’s a level you can’t reach through ordinary sex or sex for an allowance. I feel that you need to genuinely like or love each other to experience it. Does anyone else ...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
If you want sex with love and affection, I think you should simply date someone your own age.
Your goals seem different from those of a dating club, so you should leave the club and focus on finding a relationship.
Age-gap marriages do happen, so I’d suggest starting by working on becoming more attractive yourself.
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📅 Aug 28, 2026 00:50
I gave a Type B woman 20, and we stayed overnight, but we didn’t have sex. If she agreed to an overnight stay, doesn’t that normally mean it would develop into an adult relationship (intimate)?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
I see—so the argument is: “I agreed to stay the night, but I never said I’d have an adult relationship.”
Scary. That would be treated as non-consensual sex, lol.
With Fuu, sex after a date is normally the default even before staying over, so it’s not like it can’t happen just because we’re spending the night.
But when I’ve gone to a hotel and nothing happened, it was because:
・Her vaginal odor was so strong that I couldn’t do it
・She kept demanding extra payment for ev…