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📅 Aug 5, 2026 18:08
I’d like some advice on how to handle a man who regularly invites me out for tea or a meal for about one to two hours. I’ve continued to receive an allowance when we go to a hotel, as before. Recently, though, I’ve also been getting more work from his company—fairly light duties paying around ¥100,000 a month. He’s been increasingly inviting me to join him for tea or a meal for an hour or an hour and a half during breaks in his workday....
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
Are you saying that, rather than being an employee, you’re taking on work for ¥100,000 as an independent contractor or something similar?
If so, I’m not sure what things are like between work assignments, but you could either turn them down by saying something like, “I’m tied up right now,” or assume that tea and meals are included in the ¥100,000 and continue seeing them.
If you’re being invited out more than ten times a month and feel that, at ¥10,000 per meeting, you sho…
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📅 Aug 5, 2026 12:54
I’d like advice on how to deal with a man who sends me a lot of LINE messages every day. I’m currently seeing a 70-year-old man. He’s very youthful for his age and has a wonderful personality, so I’d like to continue our relationship. However, perhaps because he no longer works, he messages me extremely frequently. He reads my messages almost immediately, and it’s not unusual for him to send around three replies to a single message. I’m...
💬 Answer from マックさん:
If you can write this much in the question box, why not reply to that old man’s LINE message?
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📅 Aug 4, 2026 17:00
I’m a 29-year-old woman. I’ve really enjoyed my time with Universe and have received so much support, but I’m turning 30 soon, and I’m worried that offers might stop coming once I do. I often hear that men prefer to make offers to women in their early 20s, so does it become difficult to receive offers after entering your 30s? At the moment, I receive offers from about two or three people a month.
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I occasionally get questions from women who want to receive lots of offers, but I sometimes think they’d be happier finding a good man and dating a few specific men instead.
Of course, from the standpoint of introduction fees, it’s helpful when someone stays registered with Universe for a long time. But more than that, I feel it’s better for them to have a genuinely good encounter.
> Is it difficult to receive offers once you’re in your 30s?
I think you’re generally fine u…
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📅 Aug 3, 2026 22:51
After being involved with someone for many years, have you ever come to feel that they’re truly important to you? I started papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) about ten years ago. I’ve met and parted ways with all kinds of people, and have seen more than 300 people in total. Among them, there are occasionally people I continue seeing regularly, with a few relationships lasting several years. And, very rarely, there’s someone among...
💬 Answer from 紙ひこうき:
Are you a dominant too???
I honestly can’t understand what’s so enjoyable about paying women to meet you when you’re in your 20s or 30s…
It’s like catching a fish at a stocked fishing pond…
Having someone who fishes at a stocked pond lecture you about fishing…
It’s only out in the rough waves of the open sea that it really counts…
Having to meet over 300 people at a stocked pond… That practically amounts to admitting that you weren’t chosen (or were you just that despera…
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📅 Aug 3, 2026 12:59
I’d like to get a better idea of what’s expected of women in their late 20s, so I can use it as a reference when considering offers. Could you be specific about things like appearance, figure, vibe, personality, and so on?
💬 Answer from マックさん:
My main focus is women around 20, so I’m generally not very interested in women in their late 20s unless they’re virgins.
The reason is that, besides being younger, women around 20 are still in the process of developing their personalities. It’s interesting to watch them gradually grow from children into adults. Once they’re over 25, who they are as people is more or less set.
It’s like how I’m not interested in finished plastic models or figurines—I enjoy looking at the un…
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📅 Aug 2, 2026 22:56
I’m a married man in my early 40s. I’ve been seeing a woman who is seven years older than me for about five years. She’s married as well, but I’ve heard that she and her husband have been living separately for many years. We meet about twice a month on average, and usually exchange messages on LINE once to three times a week. When we meet, we have dinner and then go to a hotel. We often stay overnight, and when our schedules allow, we s...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
I don’t see how someone who has never met him could possibly understand his psychology better than the person who’s been dating him for five years.
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📅 Aug 2, 2026 14:49
I met her when I was 64, when she was 22, and we’ve been together for 10 years now. While I was in my 60s, we met twice a week, and even after I turned 70, we continued seeing each other about once a week. Recently, though, I’ve been getting tired more easily, so when we meet, we often go straight to a hotel and spend our time in bed. We still have sex every time we go to a hotel. I’m now 74, and she’s 32. I’m unsure how to move forward...
💬 Answer from 前澤（スタッフ）:
What This Text Really Is
The closest description would be a sexual boast disguised as a request for advice—a humblebrag.
The Main Psychological Motives on Display
1. Wanting to confirm that he is still sexually active
He may be trying to dispel anxiety about aging through sexual relationships with younger women.
Details such as “twice a week,” “once a week even in his seventies,” and “without fail, even now” are not particularly necessary to address his concern. They are…
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📅 Aug 2, 2026 02:35
I’d like to earn around ¥1.3 million a month. Which is more lucrative: papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) or the adult entertainment industry/delivery escort services? I want to spend as much as I like on beauty treatments, travel, and other things I enjoy!
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
If you become popular at an establishment that suits you, you could expect around 15 days of work at a high-end soapland, taking into account days with no bookings.
At a high-end delivery health service, perhaps around 20 days.
With papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), it’s hard to say, since it depends on your partner, your own appeal, and the relationship you build.
If your goal is ¥1.3 million a month, I recommend doing plenty of research yourself first and compari…
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📅 Aug 2, 2026 01:38
Hello, I’m a male member. Due to my location and schedule, I don’t often get the chance to use the service. So I always read everyone’s “after-date impressions” for reference. I have a question: - Is there any way to find out which female members have received high ratings from male members after their dates? I understand that this information probably can’t be disclosed, but I wanted to ask just in case. Thank you.
💬 Answer from ダイ:
If you’re a Platinum member or above, you can ask the club by email for feedback on women’s dates and so on.
There are women with negative feedback even if they have a five-star rating. If they have a large number of positive survey responses, though, the minority opinions tend to get outweighed.
Incidentally, there was a woman I recently made an offer to, and the club staff advised me that she might be best avoided. I liked her looks, so I decided to go ahead anyway—but un…
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📅 Jul 30, 2026 16:52
It’s been about two months since I signed up, but I still haven’t received a single offer… I don’t have many people adding me to their favorites either, so I’m wondering if it’s because I’m not attractive enough… The staff have given me advice, and I feel like I’ve been trying everything I can, but things haven’t really changed. Is it common not to receive any offers? I’d really appreciate any advice.
💬 Answer from シアトル:
I had a look.
① Would you say the biggest reason was that you were a B1? There are plenty of beautiful competitors, so I feel that A/B1 women only get offers if they’re beautiful.
② Personally, I don’t make offers to smokers.
③ You seem like a nice person with a good personality, interests, and so on. It might be a good idea to mention your favorite baseball team. Five years ago, I once made an offer solely to go to Osaka Dome together.
④ Saying in your video that it take…
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📅 Jul 30, 2026 13:09
A man I met through Universal, whom I see regularly, told me that one of his parents has passed away. He still plans to meet as usual, with no changes to our schedule, but is there anything I can do for him? Is there anything in particular that would make him happy? Would it be strange to give him some money in an envelope?
💬 Answer from 横断歩道:
If he’s a papa’s parent, he must be fairly old, right?
I don’t think you need to do anything unusual—just act as you normally would.
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📅 Jul 30, 2026 01:12
What do you do if the condom breaks during intimacy? The first time I was intimate with my papa, the condom broke. Since he had already ejaculated, I went to a gynecologist, but he never brought up covering the medical expenses. When I asked him about it, he said he only had ¥10,000 in cash and didn’t use PayPay, so he would give me ¥10,000 and pay the rest the next time we met if it wasn’t enough. The visit and medication ended up cost...
💬 Answer from 片瀬(牝):
You must have been so shocked by the sudden mishap that your mind went completely blank 😢
I’ve had a similar experience myself. I did reflect on the fact that I hadn’t educated myself enough, but more than anything, I was honestly furious, thinking, “How can someone be so irresponsible?”
In situations like this, I really wish the man would take proper responsibility by saying things like, “Are you okay?” “Let’s go to the hospital,” or “I’ll cover the expenses.”
I’ve had a …
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📅 Jul 29, 2026 12:49
I understand that when someone re-registers, it’s noted on their profile. Is taking a leave of absence also mentioned on the profile or in the staff comments? If so, how does it come across to male members? I also have another question for the women here. I believe you can have new photos taken every six months, but do most people regularly update their photos? Or do most simply continue without having new ones taken? Does having multip...
💬 Answer from カズ:
As far as I know, you can’t suspend your membership for very long, and it probably won’t be listed.
If you stop looking for someone over an extended period, you’ll need to withdraw once. To resume afterward, you’ll have to register again. Re-registration is listed on your profile. Personally, I don’t have a bad impression of women who re-register.
Like Yokudō-san, I think the ratio is about half and half between women who have had new photos taken and those who haven’t. Wom…
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📅 Jul 29, 2026 08:06
Does Universe have any female members registered in Miyazaki or Kagoshima?
💬 Answer from カズ:
Since they won’t pressure you into signing up, I think it’s best to request a consultation with a staff member and ask them directly.
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📅 Jul 28, 2026 06:30
I’m a male member living in the Kinki region. I believe the allowance varies depending on the woman, the papa’s financial means, and other factors. Since income levels and other conditions differ by region, I also assume that the going rate varies from one area to another. Recently, I discussed allowances with a female member. Her argument was as follows: 1. Looking at the “Anonymous Papa-Katsu Q&A Box,” there are many posts mentioning ...
💬 Answer from 日月新:
I live in the Kinki region.
The word “going rate” is a difficult one, isn’t it? Especially since it often sounds like a reason, but really isn’t one. People tend to make broad claims about “what’s normal in society” or “the standard in the community,” but it simply means the amount that person considers reasonable.
They’re only saying it because they personally think ¥100,000 is fair.
In my case, dinner is a fixed ¥10,000. If things continue beyond that, I’d say ¥30,000–¥5…
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📅 Jul 27, 2026 12:00
A question for the women here: What goes through a woman’s mind when she watches AV involving rape fantasies, bondage, NTR, and similar themes? Does she actually have those desires? My girlfriend told me she never watches AV, but I happened to catch a glimpse of her search history recently, and it was full of that kind of content. It made me a little insecure—does that mean she isn’t satisfied with our nights together?
💬 Answer from Fuu:
Sorry, but I’m answering as a guy, lol.
You’re still so young, 20-year-old.
You remind me of what I was like in my twenties. Fuu was just like that too.
There are plenty of guys who are into NTR or BDSM, and that doesn’t necessarily mean they aren’t satisfied with normal sex with their girlfriends.
Also, women have sex drives too and can be pretty horny, so you should probably stop assuming that women are all pure and demure.
Once you’ve had more experience and started …
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📅 Jul 25, 2026 05:36
I’ve never had a boyfriend. I’d say I’m slightly above average-looking, and I work part-time. The only men who approach me seem to be after my body. I don’t think I’m being overly picky. I’m genuinely struggling with this. Would spending more money on my appearance help me find a boyfriend? Please tell me.
💬 Answer from Meg:
You’re not spending money on your appearance.
It doesn’t benefit anyone,
and it doesn’t make you any money.
But somehow, it’s fun.
I feel like I could keep this up naturally.
Once you start doing things like that, I think you’ll gradually gain confidence in yourself.
It’s hot, so stay hydrated, and let’s get through today with a positive attitude.
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📅 Jul 24, 2026 23:32
There’s a section where you can search for male members, but no matter how I search, I can only see Black, Platinum, and Gold members. There aren’t any Standard members listed at all. Does that mean my account is currently set to Platinum? If so, I haven’t received any offers yet, so I’d like to be changed to Gold. Is that possible?
💬 Answer from シアトル:
Men can hide their membership class, so he may simply be embarrassed about being a Standard member and keeping it hidden.
As for your class, you won’t know until you receive an offer. If you get an offer from a Platinum member, then you’re Platinum.
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📅 Jul 23, 2026 20:27
I have a question about having sex with a plus-size papa. With men who are slim or only have a slight belly, I can feel the penetration in missionary or cowgirl and enjoy the experience. But when a man has a much larger belly, I can’t tell whether he’s actually inside me or not—perhaps because of his stomach. As a result, I can’t really enjoy the experience anymore. Cowgirl is difficult to move in, and in missionary I feel crushed under...
💬 Answer from マルケス:
It’s true that, at hot springs and other communal baths, you sometimes see men whose lower abdomen is covered in fat, while their actual symbol is so small that it’s barely visible.
Your papa (a male supporter) is probably like that. Since sexual incompatibility is even recognized as grounds for divorce, sex that feels like nothing but a chore and leaves you unsatisfied could be seen as a sign that it’s time to part ways. Breaking things off may be the best option.
Even if …
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📅 Jul 22, 2026 17:01
It’s been a week since I made my profile public, but I haven’t received a single offer. I only have three favorites, too. I’ve heard that some women don’t get their first offer until six months later, but realistically, if things are still like this after a week, does that mean it’ll be difficult to receive any offers? I’d appreciate hearing from those with experience. If it seems unlikely, I’m thinking about trying something else.
💬 Answer from シアトル:
You’ll probably only get an offer from about one in every ten people who favorite you, so it sounds like it’ll be tough.
Unless you’re exceptionally beautiful, you need something that sets you apart.
Nothing to lose—try highlighting your appeal in the comment you can write yourself.