Tips Jul 23, 2026 20:27

I have a question about having sex with a plus-size papa.

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With men who are slim or only have a slight belly, I can feel the penetration in missionary or cowgirl and enjoy the experience. But when a man has a much larger belly, I can’t tell whether he’s actually inside me or not—perhaps because of his stomach. As a result, I can’t really enjoy the experience anymore. Cowgirl is difficult to move in, and in missionary I feel crushed under his weight, so it’s becoming painful. Could you share any techniques or ways to enjoy intimacy with a plus-size partner? Thank you.
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Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s true that, at hot springs and other communal baths, you sometimes see men whose lower abdomen is covered in fat, while their actual symbol is so small that it’s barely visible. Your papa (a male supporter) is probably like that. Since sexual incompatibility is even recognized as grounds for divorce, sex that feels like nothing but a chore and leaves you unsatisfied could be seen as a sign that it’s time to part ways. Breaking things off may be the best option. Even if you tell him to lose weight, it probably won’t be that easy for him to do so. Alternatively, you could both focus more on foreplay and work on increasing your satisfaction that way. Since moving around may also be difficult for him, you might consider pleasing him with your mouth and hands.
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m on the papa’s side, so that’s a difficult question. If you ask Google or an AI something like, “What positions do sumo wrestlers enjoy?” I’m sure it’ll give you an answer. They’re probably chubby with small packages, so I guess it can’t be helped if they don’t enjoy it. Just resign yourself to doing it for the allowance and laugh it off. If you prefer a lean, muscular guy with a big package, feel free to send a reverse offer to Fuu lol.
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Maybe try it from behind, in a way that doesn’t seem to involve his stomach? If you can’t enjoy it no matter what you try, I think it’s fair to say you simply weren’t compatible and end things. If you’re already thinking about breaking up, though, you could just be honest with him about how you feel. Whether he’ll lose weight is up to him. You could even suggest he try Mounjaro, which was talked about quite a bit recently. I feel like Rybelsus was also a hot topic at one point.
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