I’d like to get a better idea of what’s expected of women in their late 20s, so I can use it as a re...

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I’d like to get a better idea of what’s expected of women in their late 20s, so I can use it as a reference when considering offers. Could you be specific about things like appearance, figure, vibe, personality, and so on?

マックさん · Answer

My main focus is women around 20, so I’m generally not very interested in women in their late 20s unless they’re virgins.

The reason is that, besides being younger, women around 20 are still in the process of developing their personalities. It’s interesting to watch them gradually grow from children into adults. Once they’re over 25, who they are as people is more or less set.

It’s like how I’m not interested in finished plastic models or figurines—I enjoy looking at the unfinished parts and imagining what the final piece will become.

Sorry this probably isn’t much help to the person who asked.

前澤 · Answer

People may be looking for different things, but when it comes to receiving an offer through Universe Club, it ultimately comes down to appearance.

From the listings:

① They look at your photo, and if they like what they see,  
② they open your detailed profile. If they like your profile as well,  
③ they watch your video to get a sense of your mannerisms and voice.

Once you clear those stages, you receive an offer and go on a date.

④ Then, if they meet you and find that you have what they’re looking for, it may develop into a long-term relationship.

The question being asked here is about that final stage. However, unless you make it through stages ①–③, you never reach the meeting stage. There may have been someone among the people filtered out at stages ①–③ who would have been a great match, but because things never progressed to the meeting, it simply ended there.

We already know that human eyes aren’t always reliable from optical illusions and trick art. If someone likes you, they may actually look even better in person than they did in a photo, so it feels like a shame not to meet because of stages ①–③ alone.

Still, it’s a difficult thing.

負け男 · Answer

In a word, I’m looking for a “mature woman.”

They seem like they should be out there, but they really aren’t. I tried reaching out to women around 35–40 because I wanted someone mature, but it was a complete bust. If anything, things got complicated and became more trouble than they were worth.

When I’m with younger women, I have to be extremely careful all the time, so every now and then I find myself wanting a mature woman.

Someone calm and composed who takes the initiative with deep kisses, helps undress me, and really moves her hips once things get intimate—but then goes back to being calm afterward and handles everything smoothly. The kind of woman who makes you feel like she has you dancing in the palm of her hand. Someone who lets you lean on her. I’m terrible at explaining this.

Update:

Yokandōho-san, exactly. It would be great if you could tell beforehand, but women like that are practically nonexistent, so I end up thinking, “Then I might as well go for someone younger.”

This is just based on my own experience, but women aged 34–39 are full of people to avoid. I’ve really had enough of it. m(__)m

シアトル · Answer

Isn’t it best to be cheerful, friendly, and fun from the very beginning?

Everyone’s probably already fed up with their ex-wife’s or wife’s sour expression and their boss’s face. If they’re paying, they want to enjoy themselves at least for a while, right?

Bottom line: If you act the same way you would on a women-first matching app, you’ll be dropped quickly. Think of it as your own personal hostess club and take the initiative. To keep things going, your vibe and personality matter.

やひろだいすけ · Answer

I generally don’t make offers to anyone over 25, so I’m not looking for anything in particular.

That’s all. Sorry.

カズ · Answer

I think most of the many female members receive offers because every man has different preferences.

I’ve been introduced several times to women who were seeing other male members, but I’ve never once felt envious. People really do have incredibly diverse tastes.

地井 智 · Answer

I prefer tall women, but would knowing that be helpful?

Edit:  
To “Mr. Loser”:

It would be great if I could find that out before making an offer. If someone has distorted their profile just to get offers, it’s disappointing after meeting them.

Fuu · Answer

Fuu’s favorite is definitely women in their late 20s who have regular jobs. If one spot in my rotation of monthly arrangements opens up, this is the age group I look for first.

They’ve experienced the working world and dealt with society, so many of them have basic manners down—being punctual, replying to messages promptly, and so on—which gives me a sense of security. They’re also used to dealing with bosses and older men in general. Plus, at that age, they’ve usually had plenty of experience.

After spending lots of time with young, handsome guys, you may start thinking, “Huh, they’re not actually that good in bed.” Older men aren’t bad, are they? Rather than something aggressive, I want calmer, more relaxed sex. (According to Fuu, lol.)

**Appearance**  
Healthy and clean-looking, with a refined vibe, black hair, and dresses.  
Unhealthy-looking or excessively thin: no. Black teeth: no.

**Figure**  
Slim, measurements around 110 ± 5, with a defined waist.  
Large breasts: no. No waistline: also no.

**Vibe**  
Gentle, smiley, kind-looking, and cheerful.  
Seems gloomy: no. Seems harsh: maybe.

**Personality**  
Charming, quick to reply, and seems like she’d keep her appointments.  
Seems emotionally unstable: no.

I place a lot of importance on videos, since I make my final decision after seeing how she talks.

I prefer women who have regular daytime jobs, rather than doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) exclusively or working in the sex industry, since they seem too focused on money. Nurses and women in the beauty industry—basically, women who work in female-dominated workplaces—somehow have a sexy vibe, so I recommend them. (According to Fuu, lol.)

That said, I get bored if everything is always the same, so they don’t necessarily last long as monthly arrangements. I sometimes see students too, get thrown around by last-minute cancellations, and occasionally see married women in their 30s or 40s for their emotional maturity and comforting presence. I’ll even try a hostess who seems a little intimidating now and then, though I usually regret it—a little spicy variety.

I love having dinner, but I’d get bored eating the same thing every day, so sometimes I want bread too, lol.

The fact that Universe Club’s papa-katsu system makes all of that possible is absolutely amazing! So grateful!

フラーレン · Answer

I’m Fullerene!

Personally, I don’t judge people by age, but if I had to put it simply:

“Looks like she’s in her early 20s, but has the maturity of someone in her 30s.”

ダイ · Answer

In my case, I mainly look for women in their early twenties, but I occasionally make offers to women in their late twenties as well.

Personally, I prefer women who aren’t the typical type you find at these clubs, so I’ll consider making an offer if she fits that description. From there, I look at her appearance and occupation before deciding.

アンディ · Answer

My main target age range is 25–29.

I don’t care what kind of work you do, as long as you have a steady job or run your own business. If you’re temporarily out of work, that’s understandable. I also prefer someone who isn’t overweight and doesn’t have visibly dirty teeth. There’s not much you can do about crooked teeth, though.

I’m fine with tattoos and smoking, although I imagine many people aren’t.

That said, I’ll completely ignore anyone 25 or older who’s trying to make a living solely through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).

Just something to keep in mind.

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