Tips Jul 30, 2026 13:09

A man I met through Universal, whom I see regularly, told me that one of his parents has passed away. He still plans to meet as usual, with no changes to our schedule, but is there anything I can do for him? Is there anything in particular that would make him happy? Would it be strange to give him some money in an envelope?

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横断歩道
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ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If he’s a papa’s parent, he must be fairly old, right? I don’t think you need to do anything unusual—just act as you normally would.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Since I don’t know what the man intended by telling you, I’m not sure what he wants you to do either.
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マルケス
クラブ活動歴だけは30年以上と長いです。交際クラブの世界観は結構好きで楽しんでいます。60代後半になって大分以前とは活動内容が変わって来ていますが、まあ、楽しめる間は楽しもうと思っています。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I think it would be enough to say, “That must have been really difficult,” and give him a hug the next time you see him. Personally, unless I need to reschedule because of a funeral or something similar, I probably wouldn’t bring up that kind of topic myself.
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Fuu
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
USJ, lol? Fuu gets it mixed up a lot too— Universe and Universal, lol. When you meet next, I think a hug in bed along the lines of, “That must have been really hard,” would be enough. You don’t need to give him any money, you can’t send a condolence telegram, and you can’t attend the funeral either. Maybe papa just wants to say something, or simply wants to be comforted? Isn’t that possible?
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関西在住で多趣味です。 最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。 スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
If their parent has passed away, I think it’s best to cancel for now and suggest meeting once things have settled down. If they still want to meet, then it’s fine to go ahead.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
By “Universal,” do you perhaps mean Universe Club? The only thing you can really do is respond kindly, I suppose. Unless you were close with the family as well, that’s probably just how it is.
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