I’ve really enjoyed my time with Universe and have received so much support, but I’m turning 30 soon, and I’m worried that offers might stop coming once I do. I often hear that men prefer to make offers to women in their early 20s, so does it become difficult to receive offers after entering your 30s? At the moment, I receive offers from about two or three people a month.
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I occasionally get questions from women who want to receive lots of offers, but I sometimes think they’d be happier finding a good man and dating a few specific men instead.
Of course, from the standpoint of introduction fees, it’s helpful when someone stays registered with Universe for a long time. But more than that, I feel it’s better for them to have a genuinely good encounter.
> Is it difficult to receive offers once you’re in your 30s?
I think you’re generally fine until around 35. After that, it seems to depend on how attractive a woman is.
In that sense, I think it’s amazing when women in their 40s or 50s still receive offers.
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At 29, the question you should be asking isn’t, “Will I still get offers when I turn 30?” It’s, “Should I really still be doing this when I’m 30?” Are you okay?
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In real life, there’s no difference between me at 29 years and 364 days old and me at 30 years and one day old.
But digitally, there is a distinction between 29 and 30, isn’t there? Once you turn 30, you’re excluded from searches limited to women 29 and under.
That said, in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I don’t think men who are okay with women in their late 20s would actually reject a 30-year-old woman.
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It depends on your qualities and potential, but you should expect the number of offers to gradually decrease, even if you’ll probably be fine for a little while longer—until your early 30s.
It might be better to be selective and build up a few good papas with monthly arrangements, though. How many regular papas do you want? You’ve been getting offers from two or three people every month—how many months has it been?
If you’ve been doing this for six months, you’ve probably met around 18 people. So if you have three to five pay-per-meeting papas each month, you should be okay even if you don’t get new offers every month…
Or are you the type of woman who doesn’t stick with it after getting started? If so, there may be a different issue here…
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The fact that you’re still receiving offers so consistently suggests that you’re a very appealing person, judging by your profile.
So I don’t think your offers will suddenly drop just because you’ve entered your 30s.
Once you reach your 30s, I think it’s important not to become too set in your ways. Recently, I’ve had several women in their 30s who were genuinely wonderful, but even after meeting multiple times, things barely changed. Whenever I suggested trying something a little different, they would respond with, “I’m not really comfortable with that,” and their enthusiasm would gradually fade. In the end, things just naturally fizzled out.
Having your own style in your 30s is perfectly normal, of course, but when everything becomes too routine, it can be a problem.
That said, I do often set my search age limit at 29, so I can understand where you’re coming from to some extent. Still, I think you’ll have a more enjoyable club experience if you focus on accepting offers, meeting people, and building a good relationship that lasts as long as possible.
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Since you’re currently receiving offers from around two or three people a month, I think offers will continue to come in even after you turn 30.
The number of offers may gradually decrease, but if each person continues seeing you more often, that shouldn’t be a problem.
People who make offers to women in their 30s and beyond probably place more importance on personality as well, so I think the number of repeat meetings will become even more important.
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> “I’m having so much fun with papa-katsu, and I’ve truly been very well looked after.”
As long as things continue that way,
> “I’m currently receiving offers at a rate of about two or three a month”
you can expect those offers to keep coming.
It’s extremely rare for someone to continue receiving offers for years on end like that.
Also, while there are fewer registered women aged 30 and over, the decline in supply is balanced by the decline in demand, so I don’t think you need to worry, no matter how old you get.
> “Many people said they would make offers to women in their early twenties.”
Nearly half of the registered women are in their early twenties, so the total number of offers from men is probably high—but competition is also fiercest among women in their early twenties. When you look at the number of offers per woman, the balance may not differ that much across age groups.
> “Is it really okay to keep doing this after turning 30?”
Well, yes…
Women don’t need to rely on men for money. It’s okay to become financially independent and let your own life shine… financially, too.
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Personally, I prefer women in their early thirties to those in their early twenties, and there seem to be other men who feel the same way, so I don’t think it’s necessarily difficult.
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