Tips Jul 30, 2026 16:52

It’s been about two months since I signed up, but I still haven’t received a single offer… I don’t have many people adding me to their favorites either, so I’m wondering if it’s because I’m not attractive enough…

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The staff have given me advice, and I feel like I’ve been trying everything I can, but things haven’t really changed. Is it common not to receive any offers? I’d really appreciate any advice.
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 20s 👑 Universe female member
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I had a look. ① Would you say the biggest reason was that you were a B1? There are plenty of beautiful competitors, so I feel that A/B1 women only get offers if they’re beautiful. ② Personally, I don’t make offers to smokers. ③ You seem like a nice person with a good personality, interests, and so on. It might be a good idea to mention your favorite baseball team. Five years ago, I once made an offer solely to go to Osaka Dome together. ④ Saying in your video that it takes you a while to open up is a negative. Popular girls can hook an ideal supporter within just a few minutes of meeting and reel them in with a smile, even on the first date. ⑤ At this point, the only thing you can do is follow up by writing in your own words that you’re motivated, I suppose.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
> The second photo is really great. Try asking the staff if they can make it your primary photo. The second one really is much better! I think that photo would make people more likely to click on your profile. Makeo, I was able to view all the photos, including the second one, just now. **Update** Makeo, I recently registered my ID with PATOLO, which let me reactivate my account, and now I understand why everyone makes use of PATOLO. These days, I mostly look at PATOLO profiles. I really like how strong the overall impression is—especially the fact that there’s a section showing how well the photos match the person! I tried sending an offer, and unlike before, it went directly through PATOLO but turned out better than I expected. The person was an exact match for the impression I got from the profile, which really surprised me. In that respect, it seems even better than Universe… Meanwhile, things with the woman from the premium thread are continuing at a comfortable distance—slowly but steadily, perhaps? Beautiful women really are wonderful!! It’s quite a privilege, haha.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
The second photo is really good. Try asking the staff to make it your first photo. The current first one is good too, but the second one is definitely better. The others aren’t great, so if you keep just these two photos and delete the two videos, I think you’ll start getting offers normally. I know this may sound rude, and I’m really sorry. And now I understand why 日月新さん reacted so enthusiastically lol It’s “〇ゴ,” right? lol Update: I can see it now. I wonder what happened. It wouldn’t load even after I pressed F5. Oh well, probably the usual glitch. Update 2: 紙ひこうきさん, how are things going? I’m doing terribly汗 I’ve almost only ever ended up with duds on PATOLO, so I guess I’m just bad at judging people汗 The other clubs are absolutely out of the question. I’d go with someone from Universe, or Patolo’s own Patolo service—the introduction fee is ridiculously cheap, so I won’t regret it even if it’s a dud.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I saw your profile. It says you don’t have much dating experience, but you’re not a virgin, right? If you were, I’d pay for your bullet train ticket and have you come to Nagoya. What a shame.
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I took a look at your profile. I was impressed that you promptly and honestly made the changes suggested in the other respondents’ feedback. The only negatives are that you smoke and seem a little shy around people. But given your figure and looks, you seem likely to receive offers. From Fuu’s perspective, if you get an offer, accept it, try an adult relationship (intimate), and everything goes well, changing your profile to C might bring you a few more offers. It depends on how you look at it, but honestly, the chances of meeting a good papa (a male supporter) without taking any risks at all are pretty low. It’s better to receive a relatively large number of offers—in other words, have plenty to choose from—and then select a few good papas from among them. If you don’t click with someone, you simply don’t meet him again. Filtering for good papas and ultimately building a long-term relationship with one of them is the best approach in the long run. But unless you receive enough offers to begin with, you won’t increase your chances of finding a good papa… Personally, there are also times when Fuu only makes offers to people with a C profile, though… lol
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I would still make an offer to someone I was interested in, even if she smoked. In your case, though, there simply wasn’t anything that made me want to extend an offer. That said, smokers do seem to be avoided in general, and if you registered as a nonsmoker despite actually smoking, it could lead to complaints from men and create an even bigger issue. So I think this is a difficult point. As Hinata Atarashii pointed out, the discrepancy between your club photos and your private photos is also something that may give people pause. This overlaps with what Hinata Atarashii mentioned, but based on your current profile, you come across as being very selective. At the very least, I think you should show more enthusiasm through your “papa-katsu interview” and comments. I don’t think compensated dating is something you should force yourself to do. Whether it’s smoking or showing more initiative, I think it would be best to consider what you can do comfortably.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’ve read it. As 日月新 mentioned in their comment, I also exclude smokers from the people I consider for offers. And as Seattle mentioned, B1 women generally tend to receive fewer offers. Since many women register with Universe Club, after a while you’re no longer shown as new and can get buried in the listings. A reshoot puts you back at the top of the listings, so now that you’ve been changed to B2, why not ask your branch if you can schedule a reshoot sooner? You mentioned having few favorites, but based on my experience making inquiries, if you have around ten favorites, you’ll probably receive at least one offer.
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日月新
🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。 最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。 スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
Additional Note / Private Message Makeo-san, you remember things so well. You hit the nail on the head. Sometimes you only notice things when someone else points them out—that’s the advantage of an outside perspective. You also looked closely at the photos. The second one is nice, isn’t it? The smiling photo is good too, though. —Additional Note— It’s great that you’ve incorporated so many suggestions. That said, I think all you really need is to connect with one person. Rather than trying to appeal to everyone, I think it would be better to think, almost like writing a love letter, about what kind of woman the man you idealize would like. —Original Answer— I took a look. If you were in the same area and quit smoking, you could potentially be someone I’d offer to meet. Being a smoker is clearly a disadvantage, so you might consider quitting. Of course, you could also decide not to quit because you don’t want an offer badly enough to give up smoking. Working out is a plus. In my case, I look at people who go to the gym, instructors, dancers, and people with track-and-field experience. You might want to highlight that. That’s from the perspective of a dirty old man, though. You should answer all the interview questions. Seeing that you’re selectively answering them is a little off-putting, so I think the way it’s currently written is a disadvantage. The private photos are also a disadvantage. They differ from your club photos, which makes me wonder whether there’s a gap between how you see yourself and how others see you. That feels a little risky. Some people are shy, but “I’m shy, so you need to adjust to me” is something I’d expect only from someone under 20. If you have work experience, I can’t help thinking you should be able to make an effort with someone you’re not comfortable with for at least an hour. Even if it’s two hours, couldn’t you take a short break by going to the restroom? Something like, “I may not be able to speak fluently when we first meet, but if I receive an offer, I’ll do my best to talk with you,” would show the right attitude without being dishonest.
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前澤(スタッフ)
前澤(スタッフ) Male Column Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
So you’ve already asked the staff as well. In that case, please contact Maezawa through the LINE chat you have with the staff. If I know which person you’re referring to, I may be able to offer different advice. I can’t say for sure without seeing the details, but I’d like to look at the profile first. Also, if you’re okay with showing it to the respondent, I can let them know too, and they may be able to answer from a respondent’s perspective.
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