Tips Jul 22, 2026 17:01

It’s been a week since I made my profile public, but I haven’t received a single offer. I only have three favorites, too.

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I’ve heard that some women don’t get their first offer until six months later, but realistically, if things are still like this after a week, does that mean it’ll be difficult to receive any offers? I’d appreciate hearing from those with experience. If it seems unlikely, I’m thinking about trying something else.
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 30s 👑 Universe female member
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
You’ll probably only get an offer from about one in every ten people who favorite you, so it sounds like it’ll be tough. Unless you’re exceptionally beautiful, you need something that sets you apart. Nothing to lose—try highlighting your appeal in the comment you can write yourself.
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アンディ
顔合わせの刺激が好きすぎてオファー続けてます。町中華をこよなく愛してます。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
It’s still early days. Also, on Pato, you can send messages yourself, so why not give that a try? Hope this helps.
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前澤(スタッフ)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
I don’t think you can judge based on just one week, so it might be best to wait a little longer before deciding.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
While I think one week is too soon to make a judgment, I believe who the other person is matters more than simply having an offer.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
Only God knows. It’s a shame you didn’t say what this “other activity” is—I could’ve called you out on it.
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Fuu
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彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
It may be that you’re looking in the wrong field—or simply the wrong place—so I think you should try some other options as well. It may be unavoidable. If you’re willing to try something as a last resort, you could share your profile only with our team of respondents. We’re experienced and can offer consulting and advice. If you’re interested, please email the club.
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