Nearly 30 women have apparently added me to their “You’re Lovely” lists.
I’m happier about it than I ever expected, but I can’t respond with an offer,
and I don’t know of any other way to reach out.
My question is whether there’s some way, other than making an offer, to at least say thank you.
(This isn’t a question from someone living in a fantasy world—please take it as a question from a kindly old gentleman.)
I think the number increased after I added a little more to my profile a few months ago.
I wonder if women see this as me living in a fantasy world…
Related, at least somewhat, to this question:
I’ve seen answers here saying that wealthy men attract far more women than the questioner might imagine.
In general, how do you think women identify wealthy men?
I’m not being modest when I say I’m not wealthy.
In reality, my income consists of receiving my full pension.
Sometimes I wonder whether there’s something about my profile that gives the impression I’m rich.
If I were a wealthy man living in a fantasy world… even as an old man, I suppose I really would be the best.
Just to be clear, I still have plenty of sexual desire left, but I have little need for validation.
I’d rather be teased than praised.
If you tease me, please give me a few answers in return (smiley).
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> Is there really no other way besides making an offer?
No, there isn’t.
And even if there were another way, do you really think telling her about it would make her happy? It seems to me that the way forward is for you to make an offer and properly give her an allowance of, say, ¥50,000 or ¥100,000.
If you can’t make an offer, I don’t see any point in joining.
> As for my income, I receive my full pension.
Is this some kind of trick question?
As far as I know, you can still receive your full pension regardless of how much income you have besides your salary. I’m not sure whether you’re trying to say you don’t have any money with that one statement, but receiving your full pension and having money are two separate things.
If this isn’t a trick question, it would feel more realistic to write, “I have no income besides my pension and no assets.”
Or are you one of those people living in a flower garden, enjoying trying to trick people?
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Kiju means 77 years old.
If you like someone, add them to your favorites.
At that age, are financial assets more important than annual income?
Please list your assets in your profile, and don’t be stingy with the allowance—make it six figures. Then we can get along well.
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A little while ago, I added “watching ◯◯◯” to my hobbies, and suddenly I started getting over 4.5 times as many “That’s lovely!” messages as before.
I was honestly surprised:
“Oh? Wait… they actually read my profile?”
It seems that even small, everyday details can make people feel a sense of familiarity.
Maybe the questioner’s profile is like that too?
Asker GuestNov 3, 2026 16:26
So you really do read quite a lot after all. That’s good to hear for an old guy like me. Thank you.
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It really is amazing that, even at over 70, you can get “You seem wonderful” from 30 women here at this club.
I’m grateful for this system.
Thank you for creating such a beautiful fantasy world.
Don’t worry about it. The women who send “You seem wonderful” send it to almost everyone, so you really don’t need to take it that seriously.
The men women genuinely think are “wonderful” are the ones who make offers and spend money—not someone like you, who can’t make an offer. Lol.
You can safely ignore it. Other men will make offers, and the women will feel happy because of that… probably.
Just keep attracting people with your profile, rack up your likes, and enjoy yourself.
Everyone has their own way of enjoying this dating club, after all. Do as you please.
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It’s lovely. I understand that this “nice” list is the questioner’s own personal fantasyland.
Are you trying to gather answers from this Q&A site and build a second fantasyland?
Rather than a need for validation, it comes across more like the loneliness of an older person who’s gradually being ignored by society.
Apparently, people’s sense of happiness bottoms out in their 40s and then increases through their 50s, 60s, and 70s, so maybe everything starts to look like a fantasyland. If that’s the case, I’m looking forward to seeing what I’ll be like in ten years.
Also, I don’t think women feel even the slightest bit happy when a man who hasn’t even made them an offer says, “You’re lovely—thanks for liking me.” It’s just sales.
Could it be that the questioner actually feels happy when they receive lots of scam emails?
Asker GuestNov 3, 2026 16:23
It’s direct and easy to understand.
It really is unmistakably a sales pitch, after all.
I was just being greedy and thought I could enjoy even the list itself a little more.
I’m actually happy when I get scam emails, too…
I have fun thinking mischievous thoughts like, “They could improve this part to make it look more like a real scam email.”
Sometimes I also think about why it’s possible to definitively identify something as a scam.
I always enjoy your insightful answers.
Thank you.
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