Tips Nov 1, 2026 08:26

It’s fine when the first meeting is scheduled soon after making an offer, but if our schedules mean it’s about a month away, the profile is automatically hidden. Then I can’t check what the person is like right before meeting them. What does everyone do in that situation?

👤 Asked by Guest 👨GenderMale 🎂 50s 👑 Universe male member
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横断歩道
🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
As explained here, profiles are hidden 14 days after the date: https://www.universe-group.jp/portal/ja/kb/articles/hihyouzi With a regular date, it shouldn’t be possible for this to happen on the date itself. Could this happen with a letter date?
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日月新
🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。 最近、筋トレにて、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を目指しています。現在、意図しない増量期です。 スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
Since your profile is no longer visible, may I ask you something basic? Would it be okay to ask that after we meet?
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It’s not like there’s that much information to remember—can’t you just keep it in mind?
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I didn’t know that. Lately, I’ve mainly been making offers through Patro, but it feels like there might be a setting that hides someone after the date? On Patro, I’ve never had someone disappear between making an offer and meeting, so I’m not sure.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
If you tell the staff, they can make it visible again for a short time. I’ve asked them to do that several times. So this is Mac’s new game, huh? A while back, I followed a female friend-with-benefits who was on a date with her boyfriend at an amusement park. We’d meet up in a secluded spot, like a restroom or somewhere out of sight, whenever she had a moment during the date, and have sex. I did that several times, and it was incredible. She got extremely excited too. Even without foreplay, she’d be soaking wet, so I could slide right in. I mostly finished in her mouth. In that situation, I’d get so excited that three minutes was more than enough for me to climax.
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前澤(スタッフ)
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
If you ask the staff, they should be able to make it visible up until the date of the meeting. (I think making it visible until after the date would be difficult, though.) P.S. Mack-san, your insight is impressive. Indeed, if someone writes, “I took a screenshot,” it naturally leads to the question, “Then why aren’t they forcibly banned?” Taking screenshots is grounds for forced removal. (Recently, we made sure to clearly state on the member page that screenshots are prohibited. They’ve been prohibited all along, and we’ve always explained this properly at sign-up.) So I wonder if that’s what prompted this question. To forcibly prevent screenshots, we’d need to turn it into an app—browsers don’t have that function—so it’s frustrating that we can’t do that right now.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
So right now, profiles are automatically hidden 20 days after a date is confirmed, correct? Does “date confirmed” mean that the setting has been completed? If it were 20 days after the date actually took place, I don’t think there would be any issue. Personally, though, as the questioner mentioned, I’ve never had a problem with a profile being hidden sooner than expected. If you genuinely feel that way, I’d recommend contacting the branch directly rather than posting about it here.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
Is this one of those setups where someone tries to get a person to reply, “I’ll screenshot this and save it,” followed by a woman posting, “I was thinking of joining, but I changed my mind,” in the next question? It needs one more twist. I’m taking an 18-year-old to a local amusement park today. I wish I could come up with something new and fun to do, but I’m drawing a blank. We’ll watch the dolphin show and ride the Ferris wheel. Then I’ll get her to take off her panties and spread her legs in the gondola for some photos, have our first time at my vacation home, and afterward head to a scenic overlook at the top of the mountain, where I’ll pull her panties down without taking off her skirt and have unprotected sex as a keepsake. Now we’re waiting for pescatore on an Italian restaurant’s terrace. But I’ve done all that more than ten times already, so the déjà vu is intense 😅 Thanks for the suggestion, but cuckolding isn’t really my thing. I’d just feel bad for her boyfriend 😆
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