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Become a responder

Why not use your experience to help people who are struggling?

📋 Responder rules

🎯 What we ask of responders

  • Answer sincerely, with empathy for the person asking
  • Aim for concrete advice based on your own experience
  • Avoid criticism and negative wording; give constructive advice
  • Do not impose your own values; present options instead

🚫 Prohibited

  • Posting personal information (real names, addresses, phone numbers, etc.)
  • Defaming a specific person or service
  • Content that encourages or facilitates illegal acts
  • Commercial advertising or solicitation
  • Aggressive remarks toward other responders

✨ Responder benefits

  • Access to the responder dashboard
  • Viewing private details from the asker (membership number, etc.)
  • Promotion to a senior responder based on your activity
  • Joining the responder community (planned)

📝 Conditions for applying

  • Do not write untruths (except details altered to avoid being identified)
  • Do not exaggerate
  • Do not praise the club (praising staff is welcome)
  • You may respond strictly to the content of a question, but never attack the person asking
  • When writing about past experiences, always be considerate of the people involved
  • There is no payment or reward from the club
  • Descriptions that appear to involve prostitution will be removed by the operator (long-term relationships are excepted)
  • Answers may otherwise be edited or removed at the operator’s discretion
  • You waive copyright in your answers (the club will not reuse them without reason)
  • Always answer under a fixed pen name or club name
  • Do not impersonate another person to stage your own questions and answers
  • Accounts with no answers for a certain period are deleted automatically
⚠️ Important

If a rule violation is confirmed, responder status may be revoked without notice. In serious cases, legal action may be taken.

📝 Responder application form

Please give your legal name (used only for screening, never published)

This is the name shown on the site

Your membership number at a dating club, etc.

Used to inform you of the screening result

For urgent contact