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Jun 30, 2019 12:54
I’m a male member.
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I’m asking because I don’t quite understand the meaning behind the phrase I often hear:
“This isn’t a brothel!”
Why do people go out of their way to compare it to the sex industry?
For context, I’m a black-tier member. I’ve never even considered offering less than 100,000 yen in allowance, meals are always in private rooms, I always give the woman money for her taxi home in addition to transportation expenses, I’ve never used a love hotel, and I generally insist on using condoms. Formally speaking, I consider myself “gentlemanly.”
Whenever anything comes up, both the club and the women seem to use “Why don’t you just go to a brothel?” almost like a catchphrase. Is it some kind of euphemism or slang that I’m simply unaware of?
• Does it mean, “If all you want is sex for a low price, then go to a brothel”?
There are expensive establishments too, of course.
• Is it about whether or not there are feelings involved?
It’s possible to connect emotionally with someone working in the sex industry as well, isn’t it?
• What do they hope to gain by looking down on the sex industry?
Are they trying to protect the club’s or the women’s pride without any real basis?
While saying, “It’s not just about sex,” do they actually offer anything of greater value than sex?
That’s all my question.
